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The Dark Side of Inclusivity: OG YouTuber Arielle Scarcella joins us to discuss the toxic political shift and intolerance of difference of thought in the LGBTQ+ community. Arielle opens up about being canceled 5 times and why she's labeled transphobic for applying common sense. We cover everything from voting for Trump and Gen Z's emotional regulation to how she deals with hate and intolerance.
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Timestamps:
1:31 - Arielle's YouTube Start in 2009: After an abusive relationship
3:37 - Why she started: There was no LGB education online
5:25 - Opinion on trans women in sports
6:44 - First video title: "Lesbian Cougar"
9:24 - Being Canceled 5 Times
12:48 - The Left Left Me: Staying a classic liberal
14:42 - Drag shows for children are creepy and hurt the gay community
15:39 - Dating pool is horrible: Everyone is non-binary
17:34 - Wearing a Rainbow MAGA hat at Pride
18:17 - The most hateful people interviewed were white (White Guilt)
18:59 - People of color listened because they "know what it's like not being heard"
19:46 - Gen Z lacks socialization and social development skills
20:51 - We need debate classes to learn how to disagree and still get along
21:39 - The left loves diversity, except diversity of thought
23:23 - The shift was people publicly ostracizing her for disagreement
30:11 - Confronting haters: They "don't say sh!t" because they lack the social skills
31:18 - Voting for Trump as a lesbian
36:01 - Content is now a moderate/classic liberal view
36:45 - Queer activists converting to Islam
38:59 - Gen Z has lost the plot and doesn't know how to deal with emotions
40:46 - Nostalgia reminds you of "who you are before the world f*cked you up"
42:09 - Street interviews: Confronting haters who "talk sh!t"
43:22 - Today's definition of transphobia: Disagreeing with anything they say
43:57 - You don't need gender dysphoria to be trans in NYC now45:54 - Managing the hate: Knowing who you are makes you manipulation-proof
48:11 - The "Duper’s Delight" Smirk (Smug, powerful, specific to woke activists)
52:02 - They tried to prevent her from entering Australia in 2020
Ask Kati Anything ep. 287 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT
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PARTNERSHIPS Nick Freeman | [email protected]
Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.
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Today, Kati navigates the confusing paths of trauma healing, dissociation, and eating disorder recovery. Learn what happens when your coping skills become a dissociative disorder, how to handle medical trauma, the truth about countertransference in therapy, and essential steps for overcoming OCD and self-sabotage. This episode covers recovery setbacks, exercise addiction, feeling lost, and what to do when therapy feels confusing or unsafe.
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Is talking about your emotions actually hurting your healing? Licensed therapist Kati Morton dives deep into the non-linear reality of healing, tackling feelings of meaninglessness, navigating forced therapy, and how to recover from therapist abandonment. Discover the key difference between therapeutic processing and harmful rumination, learn what narcissistic abuse looks like, and find out how to get unstuck from survival mode and self-sabotage.
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Today's questions are very interesting! Everything from breaking the habit of nail biting and skin picking, to navigating comparison, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome. We’ll also talk about menopause, how it can affect mood, depression, and even how ADHD medications work plus what happens when your diagnosis suddenly changes and you’re left wondering who to believe. And finally, we’ll explore what it’s like to be diagnosed with ADHD later in life, after years of being told it was something else entirely. So whether you’re here to better understand your own mental health, or you just love learning more about how our brains and emotions work, this episode is full of real questions, honest conversations, and practical takeaways you can actually use.
(01:03) How do I stop biting my nails? (Compulsion to pick at skin/nails)
(09:54) I keep comparing myself to other people, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome.
(20:01) Thoughts about menopause and how it affects depression.
(25:21) Is it true that menopause hinders ADHD meds from working?
(30:26) What are some things I can do to improve my communication skills with my partner?
(41:00) Identity shift with a change in diagnosis (ADHD/ASD vs. OCPD) and who to believe.
(51:43) Women being diagnosed with ADHD later in life (55+) and misdiagnosis with bipolar disorder.
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Ask Kati Anything ep. 285 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT
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Today, Kati sits down with neuroscientist Dr. Ben Rein, to dive into the social connection and the growing loneliness epidemic. Dr. Rein, author of Why Brains Need Friends, explains how your brain is fundamentally wired for interaction, why isolation is a biological stressor, and what you can do to improve your social health. In this must-watch episode, Dr. Rein explains the mechanical changes happening in your brain during isolation and clarifies why the U.S. Surgeon General has declared a loneliness epidemic. You'll learn the surprising truth about isolation and physical health—it can cause stress hormones like cortisol to rise within days and is associated with more adverse health outcomes. Dr. Rein also reveals the science behind why isolation can make people more irritable and even angry, linking it to the body's natural stress response. Kati and Dr. Rein discuss the difference between in-person and digital interactions, noting that less "lifelike" communication strips away vital social cues like eye contact, body language, and even smell, leading to fewer mood benefits. Dr. Rein introduces the concept of a "Social Diet" and social journaling—practical tools to help you identify which interactions energize you ("breath in" relationships) versus those that leave you depleted. The conversation takes fascinating turns into the role of brain chemicals like oxytocin and serotonin in social reward and the development of empathy. Plus, discover the incredible, innate ability of dogs to detect physiological stress signals and the science of how pets help children develop crucial social skills.
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Timestamps
00:00 - Introduction to Dr. Ben Rein, neuroscientist and author of Why Brains Need Friends.
02:54 - The neuroscience behind loneliness-induced anger and why isolation is treated as a stressor by the body.
05:57 - Debunking the myth: Do introverts benefit from social interaction, and in what dose?
10:48 - The evolutionary reason we are wired for social reward, and the key brain chemicals involved: dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin.
15:40 - A discussion on MDMA, serotonin depletion, and the severity of the drug's comedown.
21:11 - The shocking statistics on increasing time spent alone in modern society (36 hours more per month).
28:22 - What is "inter brain synchrony," and can it happen over a text message?.
35:47 - The power of social smells: how tears can reduce aggression and how a mother's scent affects a baby's brain synchrony.
41:51 - Why growing up with dogs helps children develop empathy and fewer conduct problems.
48:53 - The powerful therapeutic properties of oxytocin (anti-inflammatory, neuroprotective) beyond just social connection.
Ask Kati Anything ep. 284 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT
Today's guest is Dr. Ben Rein
https://www.youtube.com/@dr.benrein
Order Ben's new book Why Brains Need Friends → https://geni.us/WhyBrainsNeedFriends
My new book Why Do I Keep Doing This? is available for pre-order!
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Are you struggling to support a friend's mental health crisis while battling your own? This essential episode of Ask Kati Anything dives deep into setting healthy boundaries in tough friendships, tackling the crucial question of how to protect your peace without guilt. We also explore the often-misunderstood journey of relapse and recovery, the profound search for meaning when life feels empty due to depression, and offer vital insights into eating disorders at different life stages, from early struggles to fears about pregnancy and being a role model. Plus, discover whether day-to-day anxiety truly serves a purpose, how to navigate a forgetful therapist, and the emotional impact of chronic illness and bullying.
My new book is available for pre-order:
Why Do I Keep Doing This? → https://geni.us/XoyLSQ
If you’ve ever felt stuck, this book is for you. I’d be so grateful for your support.
Episode Timestamps:
00:44 - q1 What to do when supporting a struggling friend begins to trigger your own pain.
08:31 - q2 Could you talk about best practices for staying out of the hospital and about the stigma around relapse and recovery?
17:00 - q3 How can any meaning in life be found when it takes action to find meaning?
21:59 - q4 I'm almost 28 years old and have been struggling with anorexia for six years and eating disorder behaviors for more than half my life.
29:26 - q5 I was wondering if I have an eating disorder.
33:51 - q6 Does day-to-day anxiety actually serve a purpose like other emotions?
38:16 - q7 Can you please talk about therapy and how to handle a forgetful therapist?
42:47 - q8 Could you cover the correlation of chronic illnesses or chronic pain like a leg disability... and mental health issues?
Ask Kati Anything ep. 283 | your weekly mental health podcast hosted by licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton, where she answers your most pressing mental health questions with compassion, expertise, and actionable advice.
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MY BOOKS
Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j
Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY
PARTNERSHIPS
Nick Freeman | [email protected]
DISCLAIMER
The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.
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Today, I'm answering your top questions on trauma recovery, emotional processing, and breaking free from mental blocks.
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High-functioning depression is a silent struggle for many. Are you walking through life, feeling overwhelmed, but still managing to keep it all together?
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Join Kati Morton as she sits down with Ryland Adams from the Sip podcast to discuss his unconventional journey, navigating the world of YouTube, and the realities of online fame.
Ryland opens up about his early days, from finding a roommate on Craigslist to pursuing an acting career in Hollywood, and how he eventually found his place on YouTube. He shares insights into the hustle, the burnout, and the importance of staying real while building a career online. Ryland also discusses his relationship with Shane Dawson, including how they met, collaborated, and navigated the challenges of online life together.
The conversation dives into the challenges of dealing with criticism, maintaining mental health in the digital age, and finding balance as a content creator. Ryland also shares his experiences with marriage and parenthood.
This episode is a must-watch for anyone interested in YouTube, online culture, and personal stories of growth and resilience.
Ask Kati Anything ep. 258 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT
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Kati Morton, LMFT sits down with Jordan Leigh—mental health advocate, entrepreneur, and fiancée of Montreal Canadiens NHL star Patrik Laine—for a candid look behind the scenes of professional sports and personal struggle.
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