Autism Parenting Secrets

Welcome to Episode 242 of Autism Parenting Secrets. 

In this episode, Dr. Dave Rabin reveals transformative ways to reduce stress and prevent burnout.

Dr. Dave is a renowned neuroscientist, board-certified psychiatrist, and trauma expert with over 15 years of groundbreaking research into how chronic stress affects mental and physical health. He’s also the creator of Apollo Neuro, a wearable device proven to reduce stress, enhance heart rate variability, and boost cognitive performance.

In our conversation, Dr. Dave shares his fascinating journey—from studying dreams to uncovering the profound connection between stress, safety, and decision-making. Together, we explore the science of stress, the critical need for a sense of safety, and practical strategies to regain control of your life.

From mindfulness and deep breathing to the game-changing Apollo Neuro, Dr. Dave offers actionable insights and tools that can help you and your child thrive—even amid the unique challenges of autism.

Join us as we uncover how small, consistent practices can profoundly transform your well-being. Packed with actionable tips and inspiring stories, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.

Tune in now to take control of stress and create a more balanced, fulfilling life.

The secret this week is... 

Prioritize INTENTIONAL Attention

You'll Discover:

• Why You Want To Avoid Tunnel Vision (6:40)
• The Wisdom of Ancient Mindfulness Techniques (11:47)
• Why You Want Homeostasis (19:05)
• The Power of The Present Moment (21:25)
• A Powerful Exercise You Can Do Anytime (25:24)
• How Apollo Neuro Helps You And Your Child Feel Safe (33:19)
• The Benefits Of Improved Vagus Nerve Tone and Higher HRV (36:46)
• A Different Way To Look At Your Child’s Behaviors (42:36)
• Ways To Combat Burnout (48:58)

About Our Guest:

Dr. David Rabin, MD, PhD, is a neuroscientist, board-certified psychiatrist, and health tech entrepreneur who has studied the impact of chronic stress for over 20 years. He is the Co-Founder & Chief Medical Officer of Apollo Neuro, creators of the first scientifically validated wearable to improve energy, focus, and relaxation through touch therapy, signaling safety to the brain.

Dr. Rabin focuses on non-invasive therapies for treatment-resistant conditions like PTSD and substance use disorders. As Executive Director of the Board of Medicine, he leads efforts to establish evidence-based guidelines for alternative medicines, including plant-based therapies, while training healthcare providers and ensuring quality standards.

In his psychiatry practice and ongoing research, Dr. Rabin explores trauma recovery, the neurobiology of belief, and psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy. He earned his MD and PhD from Albany Medical College and specialized in psychiatry at the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center. Dr. Rabin has been married to his co-founder, Kathryn Fantauzzi, since 2016.

Personal Website: David Rabin MD, PhD

Company Website: Apollo Neuro

Nonprofit Website: The Board of Medicine

Podcast Website: The Psychedelic News

References in The Episode:

• Apollo® Wearable - Use Code ALLIN for a Discount
• Autism Parenting Secrets Episode 212 - “You Can’t Heal If You Dont Feel Safe” with Dr. Neil Nathan
• Autism Parenting Secrets Episode 241 - “Trust Your GUT Feelings” with Dr. Will Cole 

Additional Resources:

• Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support, visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensive
• Take The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?
• To learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.com
• Be sure to follow Cass & Len on Instagram

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Welcome to Episode 241 of Autism Parenting Secrets. 

I’m excited to introduce Dr. Will Cole, a leading functional medicine expert and author of several game-changing books, including Ketotarian, Intuitive Fasting, and his latest Gut Feelings, Healing The Shame-Fueled Relationship Between What You Eat and How You Feel.

This incredible book reveals the powerful connection between your emotional health and your physical health and how healing your gut can unlock better health and happiness for you and your family.

As parents of children with autism, we know how critical diet and gut health are to our child’s development. But what many don’t realize is that parental self-care is equally vital. Dr. Cole’s insights on Shameflammation—the damaging combination of stress, shame, and inflammation—are eye-opening and empowering.

In this episode, we’ll discuss how to make better food choices for your child, prioritize your own health, and create a healing environment for your family. This conversation is packed with tips and inspiration to help you and your child thrive. 

The secret this week is... 

Trust Your GUT Feelings
 

You'll Discover:

• How The Gut Is The Seed of the Soul (5:46)
• Why It’s Bi-Directional (7:28)
• The First Ingredient That Disrupts The Gut/Brain Axis (12:00)
• The Second Ingredient That Disrupts The Gut/Brain Axis (15:30)
• The Third Ingredient That Disrupts The Gut/Brain Axis (16:12)
• The Fourth Ingredient That Disrupts The Gut/Brain Axis (17:07)
• What To Do After Cleaning Up The Diet (20:32)
• Why You Need a “Proverbial Cast” (25:15)
• What is Shameflammation (29:41)
• The Power of Meta-Physical Meals (35:55)

About Our Guest:

Dr. Will Cole is a leading functional medicine expert who consults people around the globe, starting one of the world's first functional medicine telehealth centers over a decade ago. Named one of the top 50 functional and integrative doctors in the nation, Dr. Will Cole provides a functional medicine approach for thyroid issues, autoimmune conditions, hormonal imbalances, digestive disorders, and brain problems. He is also the host of the popular The Art Of Being Well podcast and the New York Times bestselling author of Intuitive Fasting, Ketotarian, The Inflammation Spectrum, and Gut Feelings.

https://drwillcole.com/

References in The Episode:

• www.apolloneuro.com
• Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE)

Additional Resources:

• Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support, visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensive
• Take The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?
• To learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.com
• Be sure to follow Cass & Len on Instagram

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Welcome to Episode 240 of Autism Parenting Secrets. 

This week, we’re honored to welcome Dr. Theoharis Theoharides, a trailblazer in Autism and Mast Cell Regulation. With five degrees and decades of research, Dr. Theoharides offers powerful insights into the link between autism, allergies, eczema, and mast cells.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
 

• Breakthroughs in liposome technology for better supplement absorption.
• How to spot environmental triggers affecting your child.
• The role of luteolin in reducing neuroinflammation.
• Simple strategies for dietary changes and stress reduction.

Dr. Theoharides emphasizes understanding autism’s complexity, especially the roles of mast cells and neuroinflammation. Early identification, personalized treatments, and thoughtful supplementation can transform a child’s well-being.

Recorded at the Documenting Hope conference in Orlando, Florida, this discussion dives into actionable strategies and the potential to reverse autism symptoms.

Dr. Theoharides's passion shines through, making this a must-listen.

The secret this week is…

Regulate Brain MAST CELLS

You'll Discover:

• The Extensive Track Record of Dr. Theoharides (3:19)
• What Exactly Are MAST Cells (7:14)
• Critical Concepts To Understand During Pregnancy (10:42)
• Why High MMP9 Is An Issue And What Helps To Reduce It (14:43)
• A Must-Do Regarding Supplements (27:14)
• A Simple Test To See If Mast Cells Are An Issue (28:45)
• MTHFR Considerations (33:23)
• Ways To Address Hyperactivity (36:28)

About Our Guest:

Dr. Theoharis Theoharides is Professor and Vice Chair of Clinical Immunology and Director of the Institute for Neuro-Immune Medicine-Clearwater, Nova Southeastern University, FL, and Adjunct Professor of Immunology at Tufts School of Medicine, where he was Professor and Director of Molecular Immunopharmacology & Drug Discovery, and Clinical Pharmacologist, Massachusetts Drug Formulary Commission (1983-2022). He served on the Board of the Institute of Pharmaceutical Research and Technology (IFET) and the Supreme Health Council of the Ministry of Health in Greece. He received his BA, MS, MPhil, PhD and MD degrees and the Winternitz Price in Pathology from Yale University. He also received a Certificate in Global Leadership from Tufts Fletcher School of Law and Diplomacy and a Fellowship at Harvard Kennedy School of Government. He trained in internal medicine at New England Medical Center, which awarded him the Oliver Smith Award, “recognizing excellence, compassion and service.” He received the Tufts Distinguished Faculty Recognition and Excellence in Teaching awards multiple times. He showed that the unique tissue immune cells, mast cells, communicate with the brain microglia and are critical for neuroinflammation. He has 493 publications (49,406 citations; h-index 113 placing him in the world’s top 0.05% of most cited authors and the worldwide expert on mast cells by ScholarGPS and Expertscape. He was inducted into the Alpha Omega Alpha National Medical Honor Society, the Rare Diseases Hall of Fame, and the World Academy of Sciences. He developed novel dietary flavonoid supplements formulated in olive pomace oil to increase absorption. He has received 30 patents and trademarks.

www.mastcellmaster.com

www.drtheoharides.com

References in The Episode:

• www.algonot.com
• Documenting Hope Conference

Additional Resources:

• Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support, visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensive
• Take The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?
• To learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.com
• Be sure to follow Cass & Len on Instagram

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Welcome to Episode 239 of Autism Parenting Secrets. 

This week, I’m thrilled to bring you a fascinating conversation with Tapley Holland from TruDose. We recorded this live at the Documenting Hope Conference in Orlando, Florida, and it’s packed with insights you won’t want to miss.

With nearly 20 years of experience and a photographic memory, Tapley has a unique ability to connect the dots and innovate solutions for complex health challenges. Together, we dive into the cell danger response and how it impacts conditions like autism and PANS/PANDAS. Tapley also shares how TruDose taps into the body’s own platelets to resolve cellular issues, break inflammatory loops, and unlock incredible neurological improvements.

What makes this even more powerful is Tapley’s personal journey with his son. From better cognitive function to improved handwriting and even more affection, the results speak for themselves. And the benefits don’t stop with the child—families are reclaiming time and energy that used to go into managing chronic conditions.

This is all about using the body’s natural healing power in a smarter, more targeted way.

So tune in—this episode is full of actionable insights for parents like you.

The secret this week is... 

The HEALING Is In The BLOOD

You'll Discover:

• What is PRP? (4:36)
• The Importance of the CDR (9:12)
• A Very Misunderstood Opportunity (10:46)
• Why Getting UNSTUCK Is Key (15:47)
• How the TruDose Process Works (22:16)
• Key Sequencing Considerations (25:53)
• How Patients And Caregivers Both Benefit (32:36)

About Our Guest:

Tapley Holland is the creator of the TruDOSE™ Technology, a patented intelligent software testing platform that solved the longstanding dosing inaccuracy problem within the field of regenerative medicine. This technology led to uncovering the healing benefits of infusing dose-specific platelets back into the bloodstream, otherwise known as TruDOSE™ IV platelet therapy. Since 2018, the TruDOSE technology and IV therapy have treated, and reversed, thousands of patients with unsolvable symptoms and disease conditions.

https://trudose.com/

References in The Episode:

• trudose.com
• Documenting Hope Conference

Additional Resources:

• Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support, visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensive
• Take The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?
• To learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.com
• Be sure to follow Cass & Len on Instagram

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Welcome to Episode 238 of Autism Parenting Secrets. 

This week, Sarge Goodchild of Active Healing reveals how foundational movement can transform children with autism, cerebral palsy, and other developmental delays.  

Sarge shares his hands-on, non-verbal therapy approach, focusing on the pons, a key brain area that supports coordination, bonding, and language. By addressing this foundation first, children can unlock new developmental possibilities.  

We explore how milestones like crawling and creeping build physical and cognitive strength. Sarge explains how simple exercises and gravity-based movements help children, particularly those with cerebral palsy, progress toward independence.  

Sarge highlights how movement affects digestion, inflammation, and overall health. He stresses the importance of reducing toxins and adopting a holistic approach to support natural development.  

Drawing from his own experience overcoming epilepsy, Sarge shows the power of movement to improve brain function and resilience.   

The secret this week is... 

Engage In ACTIVE Healing
 

You'll Discover:

• Three Key Things To Have In Place (4:18)
• Why The Pons Is So Important (8:19)
• How Active Healing Differs From PT and OT (17:24)
• The First of Three Factors To Address (28:29)
• The Second of Three Factors To Address (30:43)
• The Third of Three Factors To Address (32:21)
• Ways To Prevent SIDS (36:39)
• Sarge’s Backstory (40:14)
• The Relationship Between The Midbrain and Seizures (43:52)

About Our Guest:

Sargent L. Goodchild Jr. began life as a brain-injured child. At four years of age, Sargent was diagnosed with a seizure disorder. None of the many professionals who met with Sargent were capable of seeing his potential. The best medical advice his parents were given was to put him on anticonvulsant and muscle-relaxing medication. He was eventually placed on various combinations of seven different medications.  The effects of which were incredible toxicity without seizure control.  It was too much for his parents to bear.  Through a friend, they found neurodevelopmental therapy, and within nine months of beginning a functional movement program, he became both seizure and medication-free, as he still is today. 

Sargent has been working with children with various disabilities/challenges for 30 years as a practitioner of NeuroDevelopmental Movement ®. He has been the subject of numerous newspaper articles and was recognized for his accomplishment with an internationally adopted child in a news story for WBZ-TV in Boston that was subsequently picked up by the CBS affiliates in New York City and Philadelphia. In addition to running Actie Healing, Inc., Sargent is on the board of advisors for Documenting Hope, Bioregulatory Medicine Institute, and Healing Complex Kids.

www.activehealing.org

References in The Episode:

• Autism Research Institute

Additional Resources:

• Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support; visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensive
• Take The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?
• To learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.com
• Be sure to follow Cass & Len on Instagram

Welcome to Episode 237 of Autism Parenting Secrets. 

This week, we're joined by the esteemed Dr. Richard Boles. With an impressive background in pediatrics and genetics, including training at UCLA and Yale, Dr. Boles brings a wealth of knowledge on neurodevelopmental and functional disorders. 

He collaborates with Neuroneeds to create specialized supplements for autism, ADHD, and epilepsy, and today, he shares why whole genome sequencing is crucial for effective treatments.

He explains his comprehensive diagnostic approach, the importance of understanding genetic and environmental factors, and how specific genetic variants can pave the way for targeted therapies. 

Dr. Boles shares the supplements he designed to improve biochemical functions, and he elaborates on the significance of mitochondrial energy metabolism, cation transport, and neurotransmission in autism care.

This episode promises to be packed with valuable insights for parents navigating the complexities of autism, so stay tuned as we explore the cutting-edge genetic diagnostics and personalized treatment pathways with Dr. Richard Boles.

The secret this week is... 

Sequence The WHOLE Genome

You'll Discover:

• How Whole Genome Sequencing Works (5:41)
• Why Telehealth Can Be Better Than In-Person Visits (8:37)
• The Importance of Mitochondrial Function (19:45)
• Who You Want To Focus on Pathways (24:57)
• Specific Supplement Options (27:43)
• Why De Novo Mutations Are Incredibly Important Clues (34:25)

About Our Guest:

Dr. Boles is a Medical Geneticist with expertise in mitochondrial disease, other metabolic disorders, and channelopathies. He completed medical school at UCLA, a pediatric residency at Harbor-UCLA, and a genetics fellowship at Yale. Dr. Boles’ clinical and research focus has been on the genetics of common, chronic neurological and functional disorders, including autism, ADHD, ME/CFS, pain, and cyclic vomiting. He has about 100 peer-reviewed published papers. After 20 years as a geneticist at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles and faculty at USC, Dr. Boles was the Medical Director of a DNA sequencing laboratory for 6 years. He is currently in a virtual (Zoom) private practice, where he applies whole genome (DNA) sequencing to determine the cause of disease in his patients. Dr. Boles is also the Chief Medical & Scientific Officer of NeuroNeeds, a company that produces natural nutritional products to assist people with neurological conditions, including the conditions listed above.

http://molecularmitomd.com/

References in The Episode:

• NeuroNeeds

Additional Resources:

• Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support; visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensive
• Take The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?
• To learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.com
• Be sure to follow Cass & Len on Instagram

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Welcome to Episode 236 of Autism Parenting Secrets. 

This quick episode reveals why faith is greater than hope—and how this powerful shift can transform your parenting journey. By embracing unwavering faith, you’ll unlock your child’s potential and feel more empowered to trust the process. Let go of control, say yes to yourself, and discover how faith can be your greatest superpower.

The secret this week is…

FAITH > Hope


References in The Episode:

• 2024 Documenting Hope Conference Videos
• Miracle on 34th Street

Additional Resources:

• Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support; visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensive
• Take The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?
• To learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.com
• Be sure to follow Cass & Len on Instagram

Welcome to Episode 235 of Autism Parenting Secrets. 

Tune in this week for another short but powerful message. 

Discover how a simple mindset shift fosters a more positive and empowering environment.

Learn why modeling resilience starts with one key change.

The secret this week is…

Have WANTS Not Expectations

References in The Episode:

• The Option Institute
• The Son-Rise Program
• The Boy, The Mole, The Fox and the Horse

Additional Resources:

• Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support; visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensive
• Take The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?
• To learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.com
• Be sure to follow Cass & Len on Instagram

Welcome to Episode 234 of Autism Parenting Secrets. 

This week, Antonio Ferrara shares essential strategies for smoother air travel with a child on the spectrum.  

With 15+ years in the aviation industry and personal experience as the father of a nonverbal 9-year-old with autism and apraxia, Antonio offers unique insights.

We explore the challenges families face when flying, including a touching story of one family's struggle to board a flight. Antonio highlights an airline that is leading the way in accommodating special needs.

Antonio also discusses his nonprofit, aviatorsforautism.org, which is dedicated to making travel more accessible and creating career opportunities in aviation for individuals on the spectrum.

Get practical advice on navigating TSA and the value of airport tours. Antonio also reveals how individuals on the spectrum can thrive in aviation roles, addressing workforce shortages with their unique skills.

Join us for actionable tips and inspiring insights to help families take to the skies with confidence. Persistence, preparation, and community make all the difference.

The secret this week is... 

Make AIR TRAVEL Easier

You'll Discover:

• Tips To Overcome Travel Barriers for Families (6:34)
• Success Strategies for Air Travel (11:23)
• An Airline That Goes The Extra Mile For The Neurodiverse Community (19:17)
• How The Aviation Industry Can Leverage Your Child’s Superpowers (24:46)

About Our Guest:

Antonio Ferrara, the founder of Aviators for Autism, brings a deeply personal connection to both autism and aviation. As the son of a commercial airline pilot, a parent of a non-verbal son on the autism spectrum, and a professional in the business aviation industry, Antonio was inspired to unite the two most impactful elements of his life. Through Aviators for Autism, he is dedicated to creating meaningful experiences, services, and opportunities not only for neurodivergent individuals and their families but also to highlight the valuable contributions neurodivergent individuals can bring to the aviation industry.

www.aviatorsforautism.org

References in The Episode:

• www.aviatorsforautism.org
• TSA Cares
• www.talonairjets.com

Additional Resources:

• Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support; visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensive
• Take The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?
• To learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.com
• Be sure to follow Cass & Len on Instagram

If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.

Welcome to Episode 233 of Autism Parenting Secrets. 

Tune in this week for another short but powerful message. 

The secret this week is…

Connection THEN Compliance


Additional Resources:

• Unlock the power of personalized 1-on-1 support; visit allinparentcoaching.com/intensive
• Take The Quiz: What’s YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?
• To learn more about Cass & Len, visit us at www.autismparentingsecrets.com
• Be sure to follow Cass & Len on Instagram