Becoming: HER with Nikki Spoelstra

Bag... SECURED. Pt 2. Ep. 151


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We are backkkkk my friends with Part 2 of Bag… SECURED featuring my bestie Jamie Ruiz. Tune in to hear the rest!




In this episode…

  • Modern dating 
  • Age differences in romantic relationships 
  • Secret relationships 
  • Being a girls girl 
  • The Miami Heat 
  • Dating after divorce 
  • Dating with kids 
  • Finding peace 
  • Ignoring the haters 




Quotes


“Women should be dating and getting to know multiple people. Dating doesn’t mean sleeping with people or hooking up with everybody. When I say I’m dating, I’m getting to know multiple people and I think that it;s really important to clarify that dating doesn’t mean sleeping with.” - Nikki Spo


“It’s not the trauma that the relationship brought you, it's the trauma that led you to that relationship.” - Jamie Ruiz 


“Feeling not good enough while growing up transferred into all my romantic relationships for a while.” - Nikki Spo 


“I have this theory that if you can take my man, have him. If my man is snatchable, take him. I don’t want that.” - Nikki Spo


“Dating since divorce has revealed to me that I still have a huge capacity for love. It did not ruin me.” - Nikki Spo 


“There's something so cool about learning yourself and experiencing yourself through new people post divorce.” - Jamie Ruiz


“I’m living by this new quote now and it's that ‘I’m easy to please but hard to impress.’” - Nikki Spo


“I believe we can have it all when it comes to how we feel.” - Jamie Ruiz 




Timestamps: 

0:00 - 7:40 | Are you dating?! 

7:40 - 11:20 | Age differences in romantic relationships 

11:20 - 12:20 | Secret relationships 

12:20 - 13:45 | Girls girl 

13:45 - 19:35 | The Miami Heat 

19:35 - 23:25 | Being in love since the divorce 

23:25 - 27:05 | Dating with 3 kids 

27:05 - 28:55 | More kids?!

28:55 - 35:10 | Going through a traumatic time period to heal

35:10 - 37:35 | Money 

37:35 - 40:00 | Finding the good men 

40:00 - 43:55 | What does Nikki want the people to know about her

43:55 - 50:05 | Jamie’s tarot reading 

50:05 - 51:12 | Outro 





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Connect with Jamie 

https://www.jamieleeruiz.com/ 

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Connect with Nikki 

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@nikkisappspo@theknowwithnikkispo 



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