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Links to things mentioned:

Andrew Bauman: https://andrewjbauman.com/

And his book The Sexually Healthy Man: https://amzn.to/3p4JmyF

Benjamin Young's Twitter Thread: https://twitter.com/BJYoung1990/status/1353521004073652224

Benjamin Young's ministry Guard the Gift: https://guardthegift.com/

The Great Sex Rescue: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/great-sex-rescue/

Our Previous Podcast on Marital Rape and Consent: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/podcast-marital-rape-consent/

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Links to things mentioned:

The Blog: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com

4 Stages of Porn Recovery: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/4-stages-of-porn-recovery-what-porn-recovery-in-marriage-looks-like/ 

The Bell-curve Modesty Rule: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/03/new-look-at-christian-modesty-guidelines/

The Whole Story: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/the-whole-story/

The Great Sex Rescue: https://www.amazon.com/Great-Sex-Rescue-Recover-Intended/dp/1540900827

Andrew Bauman: https://andrewjbauman.com/

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• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
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Unconditional respect isn’t a thing.
And yet we’re often told that men need unconditional respect, just like women need unconditional love.

Links to things mentioned: 

Follow Sheila on Instagram: @sheilagregoire 
Dr. Cynthia Long Westfall
Paul and Gender: Reclaiming the Apostle's Vision for Men and Women in Christ
The Great Sex Rescue
Psychology Today article 

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We wrap up what can cause women’s libidos to plummet–and what men can do about it!
Because it isn’t always men’s fault (in fact, it’s often not). But guys can still be a big part of the solution. And if libido differences are a huge issue in your marriage, it doesn’t mean that there’s nothing that can be done.
Asking the hard questions can really help!

Links to things Mentioned in This Podcast:

The Great Sex Rescue
Our totally revamped Boost Your Libido course
Elora Dodd on Instagram , plus her Reel on Men’s Purity books and Women’s Purity Books
Our What’s Killing Women’s Libido series

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Recently John Piper had a podcast telling a woman how to deal with a “harsh” husband.
It was atrocious advice–especially since women in emotionally abusive relationships would listen to this advice and think that it pertained to them (since most women in abusive relationships would describe their husbands as harsh).

Links to things mentioned:

John Piper article on harsh husbands
Our original Facebook Live (expanded content from this podcast, extra 13 minutes on end)
Our article talking about John Piper and harsh husbands
Dr. Alison Cook on Turning the Other Cheek
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Our Merch!
Gretchen Baskerville on the effect of divorce on kids if husbands are abusive

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• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Let’s face the fact that fundamentalist Christianity in North America is basically a sex cult.
That’s Alyssa Wakefield’s conclusion in Part 2 of her story on the Bare Marriage podcast!

Links to things mentioned:

Part 1 of Alyssa's story
Wendy Snyder's FREE Parenting Workshop Registration
TraumaMAMAS app
Sarah McDugal:
Instagram
Facebook
Natalie Hoffman's book Is It Me?

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What if you grow up in what you now call a sex cult, and you marry because your dad told you to?
Did you really consent to that marriage? And how does it even happen in North America today that girls are being pushed into arranged marriages?
Today's podcast sounds more like one of those True Crime documentaries.

Links to things mentioned:

Our podcast on the Gothard movement with Emily Elizabeth Anderson
Our podcast on positive parenting with Wendy Snyder
Register for our free webinar with Wendy!

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•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Have we made sex–and marriage–into a “Yes Space” for men?
And if so, how does this affect libido?

Links to things mentioned:

The Orgasm Course
Podcast where we talked about postpartum sex
Review of Married Sex
Mental Load Podcast

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Can we have a nuanced discussion about porn and the likelihood of recovery?
One of our goals for what we do is to help people have “informed consent”–in other words, before they make a decision, they need to know all the facts. We can’t be afraid of data and evidence.

Links to things mentioned:

Find Sarah!
Trauma Mamas App
Sarah's full Noticing vs. Lusting video
Knix in the U.S.
Knix in Canada
The Great Sex Rescue

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• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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How do our attachment styles–or love styles–affect our marriage?
So often we think that our marriage problems are about communication, or habits, or normal conflicts. But what if they’re rooted in how we learned to connect with people?

Links to things mentioned:

 Yerkovich's Website
How We Love
The Orgasm Course
Our Post on the 5 Love Styles
Knix in the U.S.
Knix in Canada
The Great Sex Rescue

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue 
• She Deserves Better
• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
•  The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
•  and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.