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Becky Holmes | Inside the Mind of a Romance Scammer


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This week on Two Women Chatting, Michelle sits down with Becky Holmes to uncover the dark yet strangely humorous world of romance fraud. From fake online lovers to AI-powered scams, Becky shares her journey from posting on Twitter to publishing a book that cleverly blends humour with insight on this serious issue.


Have you ever wondered how scammers manipulate emotions, why victims get trapped, or how AI is changing the game? This episode dives deep into the psychological tricks scammers use, the red flags to watch out for, and the gender bias in how society views fraud victims. Plus, Becky explains how humour can be a powerful tool in tackling tough topics. Whether you're a seasoned online dater or just scam-curious, this conversation is packed with insights to help you stay informed and protected.



Key Insights:

🎙️ The Power of Humour in Serious Topics: Humour can break down barriers and make tough conversations more accessible. Becky shares how using wit helps raise awareness and support victims.

🎙️ Red Flags in Online Romance: Scammers often use love bombing, evasiveness, and financial requests to manipulate their victims. Learning to spot these signs early can prevent heartache and loss.

🎙️ AI & The Future of Scams: AI is making scams more convincing through deepfakes and realistic chatbots. As technology evolves, staying skeptical of online interactions is more important than ever.

🎙️ Coercive Control & Emotional Manipulation: Romance scams aren’t just about money - scammers build trust and emotional dependence. Many victims struggle to leave due to fear, guilt, or isolation.

🎙️ The Reality of Romance Fraud: Anyone can fall victim to a scam, regardless of intelligence or background. Instead of blaming victims, we need to focus on raising awareness and fighting stigma.


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Episode Resources:

📖 Becky Holmes' Book: Keanu Reeves is Not in Love with You

🐦 Follow Becky Holmes on Twitter: @deathtospinach



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Join us for this eye-opening discussion on the hidden dangers of online romance, the psychology behind scams, and how to protect yourself from digital deception!



romance fraud, humour, online dating, red flags, AI, scams, Becky Holmes, Twitter, mental health, vulnerability, social media, fraud, romance fraud, coercive control, victimization, gender bias, psychological impact, online dating, awareness


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