When our kids are leaving the nest, it seems so obvious that the solution is to find new purpose.  But the real problem isn’t that we can’t find purpose, it’s that we’re afraid of being alone with ourselves. We think that we can’t find joy or purpose without something outside of us to create it for us. I want to invite you to consider that the most important purpose you have right now is to create a deeper relationship with yourself…one where you don’t need anything outside of yourself to create happiness, peace and purpose.