In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris delve into the concept of an inherent hierarchy within the swinger community, often referred to as 'tiers.' They question whether such a structure truly exists or if it's a perception rooted in individual insecurities. The hosts recount their own experiences as newcomers who felt intimidated by seemingly popular community members, only to later realize that attraction is subjective. Through a candid discussion, the episode serves as a reminder that self-worth and attraction can evolve, emphasizing the importance of shedding hierarchical notions and embracing genuine connections.