Happy Friday and Happy New Year Nieces & Nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B had the blessing to sit with some AMAZING musical guests this year. The ladies recap their favorite musical interviews of 2023. If you’re a regular listener, the second listen is better than the first!!! If you’ve been trying to put your friends on this podcast for awhile, this is a good episode to refer them to! Bridget and Mandii are excited to return back to the regularly scheduled program starting Monday! EP 191: Victims & Villains Feat. Musiq Soulchild // https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/see-the-thing-is/id1534096260?i=1000606769996 

• Why liking is better than loving someone
• Why contextual perspective when teaching someone how to love you 
• Musiq Soulchild confesses that women have never created a safe space for him
• The difficulties of identifying if something is LOVE or LIES 
• Why silence and restraint shows more power than screaming and arguing 
• Support Musiq’s album “Victims & Villains” : https://music.apple.com/us/album/victims-villains/1671613142 

EP 209: ’Terms and Conditions' feat Mahalia // https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/see-the-thing-is/id1534096260?i=1000616244387 

• The different accents in the UK and ways to identify them
• Navigating a toxic relationship
• Creating boundaries and composing a 3 strike rule while dating 
• Support Mahalia’s album “IRL” :https://music.apple.com/us/album/irl/1686520298 

EP 211: Love or Lust Feat. Anik Khan // https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/see-the-thing-is/id1534096260?i=1000617237744 

• Anik’s journey of dating as a member of the non-monogamous community 
• The duality if feeling needed but also allowing freedom within a relationship 
• Music theory and the rhythmic beat composition of certain countries 
• Check out Kolkata Chai shop: https://kolkatachai.co/ 

EP 235: Lead With Transparency Feat. Durand Bernarr // https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/see-the-thing-is/id1534096260?i=1000627172639 

• The different ages of your inner child, inner teenager, and inner elder. The importance of tapping into the inner teenager.
• Would you listen to warnings about your partner from an anonymous number about your partner? 
• Non-monogamy and the emotional maturity required you to have COMPERSION which means “our wholehearted participation in the happiness of others.” 
• Check out Durand’s Tiny Desk Performance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=klL7nY1HzaY 

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