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My new book Own Or Be Owned is out now! I wrote Own or Be Owned to answer one question: How do you make more money, less miserably? I broke it into the 12 Profit Levers… The 12 levers I've seen determine whether you print cash or hate your life. Check it out:
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What do you say when your mind goes blank in a high stakes moment? Why do some people choke under pressure, while others sound sharp instantly? How do you organize your thoughts fast enough to respond with clarity and confidence?
This episode answers all of that, and gets into so much more, including:
Why your brain flips into survival mode and how to stay in control when it does
How to use simple frameworks like PACE to respond clearly without rambling
What actually makes someone sound confident on the spot and why pausing beats filler words every time
How to structure your answers so you sound sharp, not scattered
How to build a mental library of stories, frameworks, and opinions so you’re never caught off guard
If you’ve ever thought of the perfect response 40 minutes too late, this is the fix. Structure creates speed. And once you have it, you stop freezing and start owning the room.
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My new book Own Or Be Owned is out now! I wrote Own or Be Owned to answer one question: How do you make more money, less miserably? I broke it into the 12 Profit Levers… The 12 levers I've seen determine whether you print cash or hate your life. Check it out:
→ https://contrarianthinking.biz/oobo_bigdeal
You did everything right. The degree, the job, the money. So why does it still feel empty?
Dr. Arthur Brooks is a Harvard professor, bestselling author, and the happiness scientist billionaires call when their success stops working.
In this episode, he breaks down the science of why high achievers feel trapped in a simulation of love, progress, and purpose — while feeling nothing real.
You'll learn:
- Why boredom is critical for meaning, and why eliminating it makes life emptier
- The 3 meaning questions AI can never answer for you
- Why resisting pain creates more suffering than the pain itself
- Why algorithms have hijacked your brain, and how to take it back
- The difference between resume virtues and eulogy virtues — and why most people optimize for the wrong one
- 6 rebellious ways to break out of the simulation for good
If you have everything but feel nothing, this episode will show you exactly why — and how to fix it.
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(00:00:00) Introduction
(00:01:12) The Matrix You're Living In: Why Your Brain Has Been Captured
(00:01:52) The Depression Epidemic: What Happens When You Never Find Meaning
(00:03:44) Left Brain vs Right Brain: Where Meaning Actually Lives
(00:05:44) The Three Unanswerable Questions That Unlock Your Life's Meaning
(00:07:30) From Uncertainty to Adventure: The Risk Framework High Performers Need
(00:12:12) The Death Meditation: How Facing Failure Sets You Free
(00:16:39) Why Americans Meditate Wrong: The Dalai Lama's Critique
(00:22:07) The Biggest Lie: Suffering Is Bad
(00:28:23) Marriage as Startup: Deep Friendship and the Two Keys to the Divine
(00:33:37) Where to Find Love: The Dating Strategy Nobody Talks About
(00:36:39) The Doom Loop: How You've Been Productized and Monetized
(00:47:04) The Boredom Paradox: Why Your Grandpa Was Happier Than You
(00:54:14) Resume Virtues vs Eulogy Virtues: The Ultimate vs Intermediate Goals
(01:01:37) Who This Book Is For: You Have Everything and Feel Nothing
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My new book Own Or Be Owned is out now! I wrote Own or Be Owned to answer one question: How do you make more money, less miserably? I broke it into the 12 Profit Levers… The 12 levers I've seen determine whether you print cash or hate your life. Check it out:
→ https://contrarianthinking.biz/oobo_bigdeal
You're mid-sentence and you watch it happen in real time. The other person's eyes go soft. They nod, but it's the nod of someone who stopped hearing you sentences ago. What happened? You weren't boring, or wrong… you just lost their attention.
It happens to smart people constantly. People who genuinely have something worth saying. And the reason isn't intelligence or charisma or confidence. It's the structure and psychology of the way you speak. It's learnable. But most people never study it because we weren't taught how to have conversations this way.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Why your brain processes language at 400 words per minute but you only speak 125
The information gap theory and how to engineer curiosity before you explain anything
The four forgetability traps that make people stop paying attention to you
Why pauses hit with 40% more impact than constant talking
How emotional encoding flags information as important to the brain
The peak-end effect and why people only remember two moments from any conversation
Why the best conversationalists talk less and listen more
Attention is biological. The brain is constantly processing information in the background. If you don't give it something to hold onto, a gap to close, a stake to care about, a concrete image to store, it will go somewhere else. This episode will permanently change how you show up in every conversation, meeting, pitch, and dinner table for the rest of your life.
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My new book Own Or Be Owned is out now! I wrote Own or Be Owned to answer one question: How do you make more money, less miserably? I broke it into the 12 Profit Levers… The 12 levers I've seen determine whether you print cash or hate your life. Check it out:
→ https://contrarianthinking.biz/oobo_bigdeal
What if the things holding you back aren’t real? Your brain processes 11 million bits of information per second, but you only consciously attend to 50. That tiny keyhole of attention shapes your entire reality — and most people never realize they're looking through the wrong lens.
Check out Nir Eyal's new book "Beyond Belief" here: https://www.nirandfar.com/beyond-belief/
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My new book Own Or Be Owned is out now! I wrote Own or Be Owned to answer one question: How do you make more money, less miserably? I broke it into the 12 Profit Levers… The 12 levers I've seen determine whether you print cash or hate your life. Check it out:
→ https://contrarianthinking.biz/oobo_bigdeal
If AI can write, code, and think cheaper than you — what's left? Your edge isn't intelligence anymore. It's taste, focus, and emotional depth.
You'll learn:
Why taste is your only moat in a world of infinite AI output
How emotion and vulnerability are what machines can't replicate
Why the 80/20 rule is now 99/1 — and where to focus
Why imperfection is the new differentiator
How the best founders used judgment, not effort, to win
The winners won't be the hardest workers. They'll be the ones who protect their attention and refuse to let a machine do their thinking.
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My new book Own Or Be Owned is out now! I wrote Own or Be Owned to answer one question: How do you make more money, less miserably? I broke it into the 12 Profit Levers… The 12 levers I've seen determine whether you print cash or hate your life. Check it out:
→ https://contrarianthinking.biz/oobo_bigdeal
What if the voice in your head could predict your success? 2 Chainz built a multi-decade music and business empire by trusting one thing: his intuition.
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My new book Own Or Be Owned is out now! I wrote Own or Be Owned to answer one question: How do you make more money, less miserably? I broke it into the 12 Profit Levers… The 12 levers I've seen determine whether you print cash or hate your life. Check it out:
→ https://contrarianthinking.biz/oobo_bigdeal
In this BigDeal rerun, Scott Galloway breaks down how the American Dream's playbook — degree, home, wealth — is broken. Housing costs have tripled relative to income. Two-thirds of young men aren't going to college. One in three men under 30 doesn't have a girlfriend. And the wealthiest generation in history is systematically extracting wealth from the youngest through tax policy, artificial scarcity, and a rigged economic structure most people never see.
Scott Galloway has built and lost hundreds of millions. He's an NYU Stern professor, serial entrepreneur, and one of the most honest voices on what's actually happening in the economy and the future of young people. In this conversation, he breaks down the transfer of wealth from young to old, why loneliness and extremism are the biggest threats to society, and the formula for economic security that actually works.
You'll learn why Social Security is the largest wealth transfer in history, how the tax code ballooned from 400 to 4,000 pages, why housing went from four years of salary to twelve, how elite institutions use rejection as a business model, why we're producing too few economically viable men, Scott's SCAF framework for fighting depression, and the four-part formula for financial security — plus why low-cost index funds beat 99% of hedge funds. If you're young, ambitious, or trying to win in a system that feels rigged, this episode will change how you see the game.
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My new book Own Or Be Owned is out now! I wrote Own or Be Owned to answer one question: How do you make more money, less miserably? I broke it into the 12 Profit Levers… The 12 levers I've seen determine whether you print cash or hate your life. Check it out:
→ https://contrarianthinking.biz/oobo_bigdeal
Is it still possible to ‘make it’ in America these days? Housing costs 12 years of salary instead of four. Credit card debt hit $1.28 trillion. Nearly half of Americans can't afford rent or a mortgage. And the old playbook — work hard, get a degree, climb the ladder — is quietly breaking down for millions of people who did everything right.
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My new book Own Or Be Owned is out now! I wrote Own or Be Owned to answer one question: How do you make more money, less miserably? I broke it into the 12 Profit Levers… The 12 levers I've seen determine whether you print cash or hate your life. Check it out:
→ https://contrarianthinking.biz/oobo_bigdeal
The rules of career success just changed. Hard skills matter less. Credentials matter less. And playing it safe? That might be the riskiest move of all. Bill Gurley has backed Uber, DoorDash, eBay, and Snap. He's spent 30 years watching who wins and who gets destroyed. In the AI era, that gap is about to become a canyon.
In this conversation, Bill breaks down the exact skill stack that makes you anti-fragile: why unbridled determination beats raw intelligence, why salesmanship is the most compounding founder skill nobody talks about, and why the conveyor belt from college to consulting is now the highest-risk career path in existence.
You'll learn the Jeff Bezos hiring filter for people who will build something come hell or high water, why AI is a jetpack for the self-directed and a threat to everyone else, how open-source Chinese AI models are a bigger disruption than most realize, and the regret minimization framework Bezos used to decide whether to start Amazon.
If you've ever wondered whether you're on the right path — or how to stand out when everyone has access to the same tools — this one will permanently change how you think about winning.
Bill Gurley's new book "Runnin' Down A Dream: How To Thrive In A Career You Actually Love" is out now, check it out here: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/769256/runnin-down-a-dream-by-bill-gurley/
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My new book Own Or Be Owned is out now! I wrote Own or Be Owned to answer one question: How do you make more money, less miserably? I broke it into the 12 Profit Levers… The 12 levers I've seen determine whether you print cash or hate your life. Check it out:
→ https://contrarianthinking.biz/oobo_bigdeal
Is true wealthbuilding as simple as asking for a raise? Or is it just picking the right stock? Well… no. Morgan Housel argues the cornerstone of true wealthbuilding lies in understanding — and controlling — your behavior. After studying the psychology of money and writing The Psychology of Money, he’s seen why brilliant people go broke and ordinary people quietly build fortunes. Patience beats IQ. Independence beats status. And the real game is managing your own impulses.
In this conversation you’ll learn why a janitor died with millions while a Harvard MBA went bankrupt, why most high earners still live paycheck to paycheck, why diversification won’t make you the richest but will keep you from blowing up, why the biggest financial decisions are school, house, car, childcare, and insurance, and why reading history matters more than reading forecasts.
This isn’t about skipping lattes. It’s about mastering the behaviors that actually build wealth and avoiding the ones that quietly destroy it.
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