Blessed + Bossed Up

In this episode, Tatum dives into Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer, focusing on Wilderness Mentality #7: "My life is so miserable. I feel sorry for myself because my life is so wretched." Tatum challenges the detrimental effects of self-pity and how it hinders both spiritual growth and success in life and business. She also shares insights on how to avoid falling into self-pity by staying grounded in faith, community, and proper mindset shifts. Additionally, Tatum introduces exciting announcements like the God Math webinar replay and her upcoming She is Uncompromising Mastermind Weekend for ambitious women.

• Numbers 14:1-2: Israelites complaining in the wilderness.
• 1 Thessalonians 5:11: Encouraging one another in faith and community.
• Romans 5:5: The love of God poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit.
• Philippians 2:4: Putting others’ interests before your own.

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In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum dives deep into the sixth wilderness mentality from Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer: “My behavior may be wrong, but it is not my fault.” This discussion touches on personal responsibility, confronting uncomfortable truths, and avoiding blame-shifting. Tatum shares practical insights on how this mentality impacts relationships, spiritual growth, and even entrepreneurship. She encourages listeners to ask God for self-revelation, even when it’s difficult.

• Wilderness Mentality #6: The core topic of this episode is the mindset of blaming others for personal behavior. Tatum and Joyce Meyer’s teachings point to examples from Genesis, like Adam and Eve, and how blaming others can keep you stuck in a wilderness season.
• Marriage and Personal Responsibility: Tatum shares a personal story about how seeking the Lord’s help in marriage often leads to self-reflection and accountability, rather than always focusing on your partner’s faults.
• Avoiding Excuses: Drawing from Joyce Meyer's experience, Tatum emphasizes that while past hurts may explain bad behavior, they cannot justify staying in it. True freedom comes from confronting personal shortcomings and taking responsibility for one’s actions.
• Facing the Truth: The importance of facing hard truths about ourselves and confronting areas of avoidance is discussed. Tatum encourages listeners to stop making excuses, face uncomfortable realities, and lean into God's guidance for personal transformation.

• Genesis 3:12-13 – Adam and Eve’s blame game in the Garden of Eden.
• Genesis 16:1-6 – Abram, Sarai, and Hagar: Impatience and blame-shifting.
• Numbers 21:5 – The Israelites complaining against God and Moses.
• Numbers 13:1-3, 25-28 – The report of the 12 spies and the power of "but."
• Psalm 51:1-6 – King David’s repentance after his sin with Bathsheba.
• John 16:12-13 – The Holy Spirit as the Spirit of Truth.

• Pray for Personal Revelation: Tatum challenges her audience to ask God to show them the truth about themselves, even when it’s uncomfortable.
• Be Accountable: Take ownership of personal behavior without excuses, and practice repentance when necessary.
• Marriage Advice: If you're married, take your concerns about your spouse to God first before addressing them with your partner.
• Focus on Truth Over Avoidance: Don’t let excuses or past trauma prevent you from growing spiritually and emotionally.

• God Math Webinar: If you're struggling to balance multiple responsibilities and feel overwhelmed, register for Tatum’s free upcoming God Math webinar, where she’ll break down a spiritual formula for peace and productivity: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/pum7
• Next Book Club Pick: Grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Will Lasting Influence by Crawford Loritz, which will be the next book discussed on the podcast after Battlefield of the Mind. https://a.co/d/5dvQ3Sd

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Blessed and Bossed Up is where faith meets entrepreneurship. Hosted by Tatum Temia, the show provides insights, inspiration, and practical tips for making God the CEO of your business and life. Catch new episodes every week!

In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum dives deep into the life and ministry of John the Baptist, a prophetic figure whose role in preparing the way for Jesus offers vital lessons in repentance, righteousness, and fulfilling God's call. Tatum also connects John’s mission to the journey of faith-based entrepreneurs, especially those called to be subject matter experts in their fields.

John the Baptist’s ministry in the wilderness was marked by boldness and a deep sense of purpose. His message of repentance drew large crowds, and he baptized Jesus, witnessing the Holy Spirit descending upon Him. Yet, even John faced moments of doubt, reminding us that we all need reassurance as we walk in our calling. Tatum highlights how John's life underscores the importance of staying mission-focused and aligning our work with God’s plan, much like entrepreneurs who serve as subject matter experts in their industries.

Key Points:

• John’s Role in Prophecy and Ministry: John the Baptist fulfilled Old Testament prophecies as the voice crying out in the wilderness, preparing the way for Jesus. His life of boldness and righteousness is a powerful example for believers today.
• Baptism of Jesus: John’s baptism of Jesus marked a significant moment in biblical history, as the Holy Spirit descended upon Jesus and His public ministry began.
• Doubts and Reassurance: John, despite his vital role, faced doubts about Jesus’ identity while in prison. Jesus affirmed John’s mission, emphasizing that even those with a great calling need moments of reassurance.
• Entrepreneurs as Subject Matter Experts: Tatum draws parallels between John’s focused ministry and the work of entrepreneurs who are called to be subject matter experts. Just as John’s ministry was distinct and focused on preparing the way, faith-based entrepreneurs are called to stay mission-driven, offering expertise that serves a higher purpose. Tatum encourages entrepreneurs to focus on their God-given skills, using them to serve others while allowing God to multiply their efforts.

Subject Matter Expert Entrepreneurs:

• Mission-Driven Focus: Entrepreneurs should view themselves as modern-day “preparers” for their audience, providing valuable expertise while staying aligned with their faith.
• Multiplication through God: Like John’s faithfulness to his mission, entrepreneurs can trust that as they focus on their unique expertise and service, God will bring the increase and multiply their efforts.
• Facing Doubts in Entrepreneurship: Even those who are experts in their field can experience doubt and uncertainty. Tatum discusses how to handle these moments by seeking reassurance from God and staying rooted in your purpose.

Scriptures Referenced:

• Isaiah 40:3 – "A voice of one calling in the wilderness, 'Prepare the way for the Lord; make straight in the desert a highway for our God.'"
• Matthew 3:11 – John’s statement about baptizing with water and the coming of someone more powerful (Jesus) who will baptize with the Holy Spirit.
• John 1:29-34 – John’s testimony of Jesus as the Lamb of God.
• Luke 7:20-23 – John’s disciples ask Jesus if He is the Messiah, and Jesus reassures them through His works.

Links Mentioned:

• God Math Webinar: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/pum7
• Bible on Business Dashboard: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/iSP6

In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum continues the journey through Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer, diving into Wilderness Mentality #5, which centers around the concept of patience. Tatum emphasizes how impatience stems from pride and the critical importance of mastering patience as entrepreneurs who are also serving God. She discusses how operating a business, managing goals, and living by faith require balance and patience—waiting on God’s timing instead of rushing ahead.

Tatum also introduces the next book for the podcast's book discussion, Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritz, a Christian leadership guide with a biblical perspective. Make sure to grab your copy and prepare to dive into this next study with the podcast community.

Key Points:

New Book Announcement: The next book in the podcast’s reading series is Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Will Lasting Influence by Crawford Loritz. Tatum will be reading it for the first time along with the audience, so be sure to grab your copy now to prepare for the upcoming discussion.

Patience in Business and Life: Tatum explores the concept of patience and how it relates to pride and humility. She draws from Joyce Meyer's insights and personal stories to explain why waiting well is essential for growth as an entrepreneur and a servant of the Lord. The theme is summarized through the scripture James 5:7, highlighting the importance of patiently waiting on God's timing, much like a farmer waits for the harvest.

Impatience as a Form of Pride: Tatum and Joyce Meyer discuss how impatience reflects a sense of pride and entitlement, thinking too highly of oneself. Humility, on the other hand, calls us to submit to God's timing and trust His process. Tatum encourages listeners to shift their mindset and eagerly anticipate what God has planned, rather than rushing through the journey.

Realistic vs. Idealistic Thinking: Tatum touches on how idealistic thinking can set us up for frustration when things don’t go as perfectly as imagined. She advises grounding your dreams in reality, remaining humble, and submitting to God's perfect timing.

Practical Application: Throughout the episode, Tatum offers practical steps to combat impatience, including asking follow-up questions to God when receiving instruction, learning to wait well, and quoting affirmations that align with God’s timing.

Scriptures Referenced:

James 5:7 – “Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord.”

Romans 12:3 – "Do not think you are better than you really are."

John 16:33 – “In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

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In this episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, Tatum continues the deep dive into Joyce Meyer's book Battlefield of the Mind, focusing on Wilderness Mentality #4. The discussion centers around the dangers of complaining, fault-finding, and grumbling, and how these negative behaviors can prevent us from entering into the "promised land" that God has for us. Tatum shares personal insights and practical strategies on how to cultivate a mindset of gratitude and patience, even during seasons of suffering.

Key Points:

• Upcoming Book Study: Tatum announces the next book for the podcast's book discussion: Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Last by Crawford Loritz. This book explores the character qualities that define a godly leader and will complement the ongoing Bible on Business series.
• Free Live Training: Tatum introduces an upcoming free live training on September 12th at 7 p.m. EST titled "God Math: The Spiritual Formula Every Busy Woman Needs." She shares the divine equation revealed to her—Consecration + Concentration = Multiplication—and how it can help women achieve harmony in their busy lives.
• Wilderness Mentality #4: The focus of this episode is on the mentality of complaining, grumbling, and fault-finding. Tatum discusses how these behaviors mirror the Israelites' attitude in the wilderness and warns of the negative power they can unleash in our lives.
• Biblical Examples: The episode highlights the contrasting examples of Joseph, who endured suffering with a godly attitude and was ultimately rewarded, and the Israelites, whose constant complaining led to their downfall.
• Practical Applications: Tatum shares personal strategies for dealing with seasons of suffering, including the "I feel, but I know" method, finding and meditating on relevant scriptures, and maintaining a heart of gratitude and patience.

Scriptures Referenced:

• 1 Peter 2:19-23 - Encouragement to follow Christ’s example of suffering without complaint.
• Ephesians 4:1-2 - The call to live a life worthy of your calling with humility, meekness, and patience.
• Genesis 39-50 - The story of Joseph as an example of enduring suffering with a godly attitude.
• 1 Corinthians 10:1-13 - Lessons from Israel’s idolatry and the consequences of complaining.
• Philippians 4:6 - A reminder to present our requests to God with thanksgiving and without anxiety.

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• Get the Next Book: Click the link in the show notes to purchase Leadership as an Identity and join the next book discussion. https://amzn.to/3AFWaY2
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• Bible on Business Dashboard: Download the free Bible on Business Dashboard to enhance your study and application of the scriptures discussed in this series. https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/iSP6

In this episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, Tatum dives deep into the challenge of balancing ambition and contentment as a Christian entrepreneur. Using two key scriptures, Philippians 4:11-13 and 1 Timothy 6:6-11, Tatum shares insights on how to maintain a content heart while pursuing your God-given dreams. This episode is filled with practical advice on setting boundaries, safeguarding against selfish ambition, and prioritizing godliness in your business journey.

Key Points Discussed:

• Contentment and Ambition: Understanding that ambition is not inherently wrong, but it must be tempered to avoid falling into selfish ambition.
• Biblical Insights: A detailed look at Philippians 4:11-13 and 1 Timothy 6:6-11, focusing on how Paul exemplified contentment even in the most challenging circumstances.
• Boundaries for Contentment: Tatum outlines four essential boundaries to help maintain contentment and avoid the pitfalls of greed and covetousness.
• Prioritize Godliness: Keep your focus on living a life that reflects your devotion to God.
• Guard Against Greed: Practice generosity and stay grounded in the Word to avoid covetousness.
• Balance in Life: Ensure your business doesn't consume your entire life, leaving room for family, friends, and personal growth.
• Regular Heart Checks: Continually assess your motivations and reactions to ensure they align with God's will.

Resources Mentioned:

• Bible on Business Dashboard: Tatum introduces a new, free resource for listeners. This dashboard provides Bible study guides tailored to each podcast episode, helping you dive deeper into the scriptures and apply them to your business. Download it: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/iSP6
• Join the Conversation: Subscribe to Tatum's YouTube channel where she goes live to discuss the Bible on Business series, offering a behind-the-scenes look at her study process: https://www.youtube.com/@TatumTemia

Scriptures to Study:

• Philippians 4:11-13: Learning to be content in every circumstance.
• 1 Timothy 6:6-11: The dangers of desiring wealth and the importance of pursuing righteousness.

In this episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, Tatum continues her deep dive into Joyce Meyer's book, Battlefield of the Mind. We're exploring Chapter 18, which brings us to Wilderness Mentality #3: "Please Make Everything Easy: I Can't Take It If Things Are Too Hard." This mentality highlights the common struggle many of us face when we find ourselves wanting an easy path, but God is calling us to something more challenging.

Key Discussion Points:

• Recap of Previous Chapters: Tatum recaps the previous wilderness mentalities covered in earlier chapters:
• Chapter 16: "My Future is Determined by My Past and My Present."
• Chapter 17: "Someone Do It for Me: I Don't Want to Take Responsibility."
• Wilderness Mentality #3:
• Tatum discusses how this mindset of wanting an easy path can hinder our spiritual growth.
• She emphasizes the importance of understanding that God's commandments, though challenging, are not beyond our reach.
• Tatum reflects on her personal experiences, highlighting how adopting the mantra "I can do hard things" has helped her overcome difficult situations.
• Scriptural Insights:
• Deuteronomy 30:11 is highlighted to show that God's commandments are not too hard for us to follow.
• John 14:16 is discussed to emphasize the role of the Holy Spirit as our helper, who empowers us to do what might seem impossible in our own strength.
• Exodus 13:17-18 is referenced to illustrate how God sometimes leads us on the hard path for our own good and character development.
• Galatians 6:9 and Philippians 4:12-13 are cited to encourage listeners to persist in doing good and to rely on Christ's strength in all circumstances.
• Practical Application:
• Tatum provides actionable strategies for shifting from a mentality of defeat to one of victory:
• Leaning more into God's presence when things get tough.
• Engaging more deeply in prayer, fasting, and scripture to strengthen spiritual resilience.
• Recognizing that difficult situations are often God's way of preparing us for greater things.

Important Items:

• Book Recommendation: If you haven't already, pick up a copy of Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer. Start from Chapter 1 and follow along with Tatum’s discussions.
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Scriptures Mentioned:

• Deuteronomy 30:11
• John 14:16
• Exodus 13:17-18
• Galatians 6:9
• Philippians 4:12-13

Tatum leaves listeners with a powerful reminder: Hard is not the narrative we need to rehearse—victory is. No matter the challenges, remember that the fight is fixed in our favor, and the suffering we face is temporary. Stay strong in faith, and don’t grow weary in doing good.

In this episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, Tatum takes a brief pause from the Bible on Business series to share a deeply personal and timely message about surrendering to the current season of life. As a married woman with young children, Tatum reflects on the challenges and blessings of balancing ambition with the demands of family life. She opens up about the internal struggle of valuing business success over success in the home and how God is teaching her to focus her drive and ambition on her family during this season.

Tatum shares insights on how God is mothering her through this journey, highlighting the importance of obedience, legacy, and total life harmony. This episode is a powerful reminder for ambitious women who are navigating the complexities of marriage, motherhood, and entrepreneurship. Tatum encourages listeners to embrace the season they are in, surrender to God's leadership, and trust that their business and family will thrive as a result of their obedience.

Key Takeaways:

• The importance of embracing and surrendering to the season of life you are in.
• How God is refining Tatum’s understanding of success, particularly in the context of family and home.
• The concept of total life harmony over balance and how to achieve it in your current season.
• A call for high-achieving women to focus their ambition on their homes and trust that their businesses will not suffer as a result.
• The significance of leaving a legacy through your family that surpasses financial or business success.

Scripture References:

• Proverbs 14:1 - "The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down."
• Proverbs 31 - The Proverbs 31 woman as an inspiration for thriving in both home and business.

Links Mentioned:

• Subscribe to Tatum’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TatumTemia
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In this episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, Tatum continues the discussion on Joyce Meyer's book Battlefield of the Mind, focusing on chapter 17, which deals with the "wilderness mentality" of avoiding responsibility. Tatum highlights the importance of taking personal responsibility for the opportunities and callings that God places before us. She emphasizes that Christian growth involves moving from dependence on others to a mature, self-disciplined faith that actively seeks God's guidance directly, rather than relying solely on others for spiritual direction. Tatum uses the example of the Israelites and Moses to illustrate how reliance on leaders like Moses can sometimes lead to spiritual complacency, where believers avoid taking personal responsibility for their faith journey.

Tatum also reflects on the need for proper spiritual mentorship and development before stepping into leadership or ministry roles, using her own experiences of being discipled and mentored by more seasoned Christians as examples. She warns against the dangers of prematurely starting Christian platforms without proper spiritual grounding, urging listeners to take their callings seriously by seeking discipleship and spiritual development.

Finally, she concludes by encouraging listeners to be not just hearers of God’s call, but also responsible and prepared to take action, ensuring they are among the "chosen" who are ready to fulfill God's purpose.

In this episode of the Blessed and Bossed Up podcast, Tatum continues the Bible on Business series by exploring the passage in John 6:60-71, where Jesus experiences a significant drop in followers after delivering a challenging teaching. Tatum uses this story to draw parallels for Christian entrepreneurs, emphasizing that a sharp decline in business metrics, like followers or revenue, can happen even when you're following God's plan. She offers four practical tips for entrepreneurs to prepare for such scenarios: don’t be thrown off by people walking away, focus on those who remain faithful, diversify revenue streams, and prepare financially for tough seasons. Tatum also stresses the importance of aligning your business with God’s purpose, ensuring that you're driven by mission rather than metrics. She concludes by encouraging listeners to build their businesses wisely, with safeguards in place, so that even if the truth offends others and affects the bottom line, the business remains stable.

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