Blessed + Bossed Up

As we take a brief podcast break, we're replaying a foundational episode that will help you align your approach to business with God's will. In this episode, Tatum shares powerful insights on the posture required to do business God’s way. From understanding your relationship and righteousness to protecting God’s mission and maintaining focus, this episode is packed with wisdom for faith-driven entrepreneurs.

Key Points Discussed:

• Defining Posture: The approach and attitude necessary for doing business God’s way.
• Relationship First: Why your salvation and righteousness must be prioritized over your business and purpose.
• Actions Over Words: How your godliness should be evident in your actions and not just in your declarations.
• Protecting God’s Mission: Practical steps to safeguard the integrity of the work God has called you to do.
• Focus is Mandatory: The importance of staying tuned to God’s voice and avoiding the distractions of worldly pressures.
• Uncompromising Attitude: Remaining firm, bold, and unwavering in what God has called you to do, regardless of opposition.
• Faith Over Anxiety: Shifting your perspective to walk in confidence, knowing God’s plans for you are good.

Links to Relevant Episodes:

• https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/5041e895/239-dont-put-the-cart-before-the-horse
• https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/503ec376/how-to-have-a-business-meeting-with-god

Join Us for the Year-End Prayer-A-Thon:

Mark your calendars for December 31st! The Blessed + Bossed Up Society is partnering with the Mornings with God ministry to host a Prayer-A-Thon. We'll be praying over six key areas to prepare for 2025:

1. Spiritual Wellness & Development
2. Health & Physical Well-being
3. Mental & Emotional Health
4. Finances & Vocation
5. Community & The Nations
6. Relationships

This is a free event and the perfect way to close out the year in God’s presence. https://bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

I’m so excited to introduce you to a podcast that’s close to my heart, created by one of my incredible mentees, Remi Roy. If you’ve ever felt like your quiet, introverted nature might hold you back from pursuing your God-given purpose, this show is for you.

The Driven Introvert Podcast is a faith-inspired space designed specifically for purposeful introverts. It’s the place for dreamers, doers, and entrepreneurs who are ready to birth the dreams, callings, and ideas God has placed in their hearts.

When I first started working with Remi and heard the name of her show, I fell in love immediately. As a driven introvert myself, it resonated deeply. I know firsthand that being an introvert doesn’t mean you’re not passionate, determined, or called to do great things. And that’s exactly what Remi’s podcast speaks to.

On this bi-weekly show, Remi offers unique perspectives on what it means to follow your dreams, passionately pursue your purpose, and live a life that matters—all while embracing the strengths of your personality.

This episode from Season 2 is a must-listen for anyone who has ever felt stuck or like life is passing them by. Drawing from her personal experiences, Remy shares powerful insights on:

• Reframing your perspective to see God’s hand in your circumstances.
• Taking bold steps of faith, experimenting, and trusting God with the outcomes.
• How to navigate seasons of disappointment and learn from life’s challenges.

What makes The Driven Introvert Podcast so special is Remy’s authenticity and ability to connect with her audience on a personal and spiritual level. Her content is packed with inspiring conversations, valuable resources, and reflective insights that will empower you to believe in the life and work God has called you to.

The Driven Introvert Podcast is available on all major podcast platforms. Click the link in the show notes to tune in, and don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! https://thedrivenintrovert.buzzsprout.com/

Prayer-a-Thon Announcement:

Join the Blessed and Buffed Up Society in partnership with Mornings with God for a free virtual Prayer-a-Thon on December 31st. Covering six key topics—spiritual wellness, health, mental health, finances, community, and relationships—this is the perfect way to close out 2024 and align your heart with God’s plans for 2025. Register here: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

Hey B+BU Fam!

We're on a podcast break for the month of December, but I couldn’t wait to share this episode with you. As we wrap up the year and focus on cultivating a deeper connection with God, this conversation will challenge and inspire you to create an atmosphere of Him in your daily life.

• God’s Word for Anxiety: Tatum reflects on a recent revelation from God: the antidote to anxiety is to create an atmosphere of Him. What does this mean in practice, and how can we cultivate that atmosphere in our lives?
• Omnipresence vs. Manifestation of His Presence: Dive into the difference between God always being with us (omnipresence) and experiencing His undeniable, manifested presence.
• Joy as Awareness of Grace: Learn how joy is rooted in being aware of God’s unmerited favor and how this perspective can shift your focus.
• Practical Steps to Cultivate God’s Atmosphere: Tatum breaks it down into three areas we can control:

1. What We Consume: How our physical, mental, and spiritual consumption affects our environment.
2. What We Focus On: Tips to focus on God, even when life feels overwhelming.
3. Who We Communicate With: The importance of communicating with God, even when His presence feels distant.

• Scripture References: Philippians 4:6, James 1:2, and the definition of joy and faith from the Bible.
• Personal Testimonies: Tatum shares her journey of trusting God during a difficult season of miscarriages and how it strengthened her faith.
• Practical Tips: From cleaning up your diet to listening to prophetic instrumentals, discover ways to make God the focal point in your life.

As we wrap up the final live episode of 2024, host Tatum Ayomike reflects on eight incredible years of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast. From heartfelt thanks to loyal listeners to a deep dive into Chapter 4 of Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritz, this episode focuses on the vital leadership trait of brokenness and its role in maintaining a Christ-centered life. Tatum emphasizes the importance of spiritual discipline and accountability, sharing lessons from scripture and practical examples for leaders in both the physical and digital spaces.

The episode concludes with encouragement to stay connected during the upcoming break with reruns of fan-favorite episodes and a preview of exciting content for 2025.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

1. Reflections on the journey of Blessed + Bossed Up and what’s to come in 2025.
2. Key insights from Chapter 4 of Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritz, including:

• The nature of brokenness as a leadership trait.
• The dangers of pride and the pull toward sin.
• Practical examples of maintaining humility and dependence on God.

1. The importance of spiritual discipline and vigilance for modern leaders, particularly in the online space.
2. How to draw inspiration from athletes' discipline and apply it to spiritual growth.

Scriptures Referenced in This Episode:

• 1 Timothy 3:6-7
• 2 Timothy 2:20-22
• 1 Corinthians 9:24-27
• Galatians 2:20
• 1 Corinthians 10:12
• 1 John 1:8

Homework Assignment:

Watch a sports documentary that highlights the dedication and discipline of top athletes. Use it as inspiration to assess your own spiritual discipline and commitment to eternal priorities.

Reruns During the Break:

Stay tuned for replays of some of the best episodes over the years, handpicked to inspire and equip you during December. Twice a week, these episodes will keep the wisdom and encouragement flowing as we prepare for a fresh start in 2025.

Resources Mentioned:

• Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts https://a.co/d/07Gthfy
• Netflix documentaries referenced: Simone Biles: Courage to Soar, Sprints, and Starting 5

Thank you for an incredible year of growth and support. As we enter 2025, let’s continue to live out our calling, making God the CEO of every area of our lives. See you in the new year!

In this special mailbag episode, Tatum answers questions submitted by her audience, covering a variety of topics related to spiritual growth, entrepreneurship, and personal development. From navigating guilt and conviction in your spiritual journey to handling pride and self-sufficiency in business, Tatum shares practical advice and biblical wisdom to help you walk boldly in your faith and purpose.

Episode Highlights:

• A listener asks about overcoming guilt associated with seeking deeper spiritual understanding and reconciling it with their upbringing in Southern Christianity.
• Key takeaways:
• Recognize the difference between guilt and conviction from the Holy Spirit.
• Be cautious of spiritual practices that may appear safe but are not biblically sound.
• True spiritual depth comes from abiding in Christ, studying His word, and enduring trials with obedience and faith.

• A listener asks about managing pride in the face of accomplishments.
• Key takeaways:
• Understand that pride can manifest as self-sufficiency, not just self-exaltation.
• Maintain a posture of humility by reflecting on God’s role in your journey.
• Obedience to God and the process He’s taking you through are the true measures of success.

• A listener juggling a new business, certifications, and a job search asks how to manage the overwhelm.
• Key takeaways:
• Submission to God and structure in daily life are key.
• Practical tools like AI (e.g., ChatGPT) can help create schedules and plans tailored to your specific needs.
• Surrendering to God’s timing and seeking His guidance brings peace amid transitions.

• A listener shares their struggle with podcast inconsistency and asks how to relaunch effectively.
• Key takeaways:
• Focus on show development: research your audience, clarify your message, and create a plan.
• Use tools like surveys and analytics to tailor your content to your audience's needs.
• Consistency and preparation are key to overcoming creative blocks.

• A listener asks how to know if God is prompting a career change after a difficult semester teaching.
• Key takeaways:
• Seek God’s guidance and be patient for His answer.
• Process emotions from the challenging season and allow God to provide peace and clarity.
• Trust that God will reveal the right time and way to transition.

In today’s episode, Tatum introduces one of her amazing mentees, Clarissa and her new podcast, Purified and Proven. Tatum shares the inspiring story of Clarissa's journey to launch her show, overcoming self-doubt and distractions to walk in obedience to God’s calling.

The Purified and Proven Podcast is designed to help believers stay committed to their walk with God, offering practical advice and encouragement to navigate the mental and emotional struggles of the Christian journey. Tatum highlights a sample episode titled Nothing is Too Hard for God: Overcoming Doubt and Trusting His Promises, which explores how limiting beliefs and self-doubt can hinder us from fully trusting God’s plan.

Tune in to hear Clarissa’s powerful insights, reflection questions, and actionable steps to grow in faith and embrace your God-given identity. https://redcircle.com/shows/purifiedandproven/ep/702b54bb-fc45-48e8-a67c-e3ab44da48c3

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum wraps up the 2024 Bible on Business series with a powerful discussion on partnerships. Whether you’re navigating a co-founder relationship, exploring joint ventures, or seeking strategic alliances, this episode is packed with wisdom from Genesis 13:7-11. Tatum shares her personal experiences with partnerships, the lessons she’s learned, and how the Bible offers valuable guidance for navigating business collaborations.

• Podcast Update:
• Tatum announces a December break to recharge and seek God’s direction for year 8 of the podcast.
• Principles for Partnership:
• This week’s episode dives into Genesis 13:7-11, exploring the partnership between Abram and Lot.

1. Understand Partnership Types:
2. Explore different partnership structures such as general, limited, and joint ventures to determine the best fit for your business.
3. Prioritize Peace and Relationships:
4. Like Abram, prioritize peace over profit and trust God to guide your decisions.
5. Think Long-Term:
6. Avoid short-sighted decisions. Keep the big picture in mind for sustainable growth.
7. Embrace Separation for Growth:
8. Sometimes, stepping away from a partnership creates space for individual success and divine elevation.

Tatum shares stories of her entrepreneurial journey, including partnerships in her first business, the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast, and Anchored Media Studios. She also highlights successful partnerships like Amazon, PayPal, and Apple to illustrate how collaboration can drive growth—and how conflict can sometimes necessitate change.

Genesis 13:7-11

Reflection Questions:

• Are you open to partnerships, and have you sought God’s guidance in your collaborations?
• How can you apply the principles from Abram and Lot’s story to your business?

Final Thoughts:

Tatum reminds us that God often uses partnerships to elevate our work, but we must remain humble and obedient to His guidance. As she prepares for a new season, she encourages listeners to trust God in all business decisions, including collaborations.

Episode Summary:

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club journey through Leadership as an Identity by Crawford W. Loritz, focusing on Chapter 3: "Surrendering to God." Tatum dives deep into the foundational Christian principle of surrender and explores how living a life fully submitted to God transforms your leadership and aligns you with His will. Drawing from Romans 12:1-2 and the life of King Uzziah, Tatum highlights the dangers of pride, the importance of humility, and how consistent surrender ensures God’s hand remains on your life and leadership.

Key Points:

• Book Club Update:
• We’re reading Leadership as an Identity. Catch up on past episodes for insights on Chapters 1 and 2.
• Grab your copy via the link in the show notes and join us as we read through Chapter 6 or 7 before our winter break.
• Episode Highlights:
• The transformative power of surrender as emphasized in Romans 12:1-2.
• How brokenness leads to true surrender.
• The formula: Surrender + Transformation = Discernment of God’s Will.
• The importance of living a consecrated life to experience God’s guidance and blessings.
• Lessons from King Uzziah’s Life (2 Chronicles 26):
• The dangers of pride and self-reliance.
• How consistent success without surrender leads to downfall.
• Three key lessons on leadership, humility, and the consequences of stepping outside of God’s boundaries.
• Challenge:
• Tatum proposes a “Winter Surrender Challenge” inspired by the “Winter Arc” trend. Use the remaining weeks of the year to:
• Focus on surrendering your life fully to God.
• Practice daily holiness through conscious choices in media, food, rest, and service.
• Limit worldly influences and prioritize time in the Word.

Homework:

• Read and reflect on 2 Chronicles 26 to study King Uzziah’s story.
• Identify areas in your life where you can deepen your surrender to God.

Resources Mentioned:

• Leadership as an Identity by Crawford W. Loritz – https://a.co/d/hcoWf8X
• Bible apps for daily study: Dwell, Abide, and YouVersion.

We explore one of the core traits of godly leadership: Brokenness. This chapter opens with a story about Jason, a fictional character embodying the struggles many leaders face when pride and self-sufficiency creep in. His journey shows how brokenness and dependence on God are essential for lasting influence.

1. The Danger of Self-Sufficiency

• Jason’s story highlights how pride can lead to isolation, even when outward success is evident. His struggles serve as a reminder that self-sufficiency is a subtle but dangerous trap.

1. What is Brokenness?

• Brokenness is a conscious, ongoing awareness of your need for God in all things. It’s not a one-time event but a lifestyle that keeps you humble and dependent on Him.

1. Inadequacy as a Strength

• Feeling inadequate is an opportunity to rely on God’s power. Leaders often face assignments bigger than their natural abilities, and that gap is where God shows up.

1. The Role of Humility in Leadership

• Whether young or experienced, leaders must guard against pride. The author emphasizes that godly leadership requires character over competence and dependency over self-reliance.

1. Isaiah 57:15

• This scripture beautifully captures God’s dual nature: His sovereignty and His closeness to the humble and brokenhearted. He revives those who acknowledge their need for Him.

If you’re facing an overwhelming task, remember: There is always a gap between what you have and what God wants done. Let this gap drive you to deeper dependence on Him. Your inadequacy is not a barrier but an invitation for God to work through you.

We’ll cover Chapter 3 in the next episode, so stay tuned! If you haven’t already, grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity . This book will challenge and equip you to lead with humility and dependence on God. https://a.co/d/hcoWf8X

Welcome to a very special episode where I have the honor of introducing a show that I love, The Girl, Relax, and Trust God Podcast. This incredible new podcast is hosted by one of my mentees, Janique Price, and is designed for women who are ready to reclaim their peace and joy by placing their trust in God’s plan.

About the Podcast

The Girl, Relax, and Trust God Podcast is for the strong woman: the one who is always the listening ear, the advice giver, and the pillar for her loved ones. If you find yourself battling overthinking, busyness, perfectionism, or the stress of carrying a heavy mental load from countless responsibilities, then this podcast is for you. Janique Price has crafted each episode to speak directly to women who often show up for everyone but sometimes struggle to find rest for their own soul. Each week, Janique shares real-life stories, discusses meaningful topics, and dives into scripture, offering strategies and encouragement to help you strengthen your faith and let go of stress.

Episode: “Girl, Eliminate the Noise”

In this powerful episode, Janique discusses the importance of surrendering to God and disconnecting from the distractions of this world to truly find peace. Drawing inspiration from Mark 4:35-36, where Jesus retreats from the crowd, Janique emphasizes the necessity of leaving the noise behind to deepen your relationship with God. She highlights how fear and the need for control can prevent true surrender, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. Janique also shares a practical framework called STOP, a simple method to help you refocus and reconnect with God amidst life’s chaos.

Key Takeaways from the Episode:

• Scriptural Foundation: Mark 4:35-36 serves as a reminder to leave the noise and distractions behind, just as Jesus did.
• The STOP Framework:
• S: Stop. Pause the physical movement to give your body and mind a chance to be still.
• T: Take a breath. Practice intentional breathing to regulate your nervous system.
• O: Observe. Take note of your thoughts and feelings, and be honest with yourself about what’s weighing on you.
• P: Pray. Speak God’s Word over your situation, and proceed with confidence knowing He is with you.
• Practical Advice: Janique provides actionable steps on how to limit distractions, such as putting your phone on "Do Not Disturb," setting boundaries, and intentionally seeking quiet time with God.

How to Listen and Subscribe

You can listen to The Girl, Relax, and Trust God Podcast on all major platforms. Make sure to subscribe, rate, and share the show with your friends and loved ones who need encouragement and a reminder to rest in God’s plan.

Episode Links

• Subscribe to the Podcast: https://redcircle.com/shows/girl-relax-and-trust-god

I’m so excited for you to experience this podcast.