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  • The Dignity of Serving

     In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our book club discussion on Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Wield Lasting Influence by Crawford Loritz. We dive into Chapter 12, The Dignity of Serving, where we explore what it truly means to lead with a servant’s heart. Tatum shares key takeaways, personal reflections, and challenges us to evaluate whether we take pride in serving others or if ambition has unknowingly led us away from the humility Christ calls us to.

    Through biblical examples—such as Jesus washing the disciples’ feet—this episode challenges us to reframe our perception of servanthood, ensuring that we don’t prioritize tasks over people but instead reflect Christ’s example of leadership.

    Key Points:

    • Servanthood is often misunderstood but is a core trait of godly leadership.
    • Many leaders unintentionally place higher value on their position than on their responsibility to serve.
    • Jesus’ example in John 13 teaches us that true leadership is about humility, love, and valuing others.
    • The importance of maintaining dignity in leadership and how it impacts those we lead.
    • Practical ways to implement a servant-leader mindset in business, ministry, and everyday life.


    Reflection Questions:

    1. Do you take pride in serving others, or do you see it as a means to an end?
    2. How can you shift your perspective to view servanthood as dignified rather than burdensome?
    3. What specific ways can you serve better in your leadership roles?




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    38 min
  • How to Discern Business Partnerships, Hear God Clearly, and Grow Without Compromise

    Welcome back to another episode of Blessed + Bossed Up. In today’s episode, we’re diving into a Bible on Business Q&A session, answering your most pressing questions about faith-based entrepreneurship.

    We cover:

    • Red flags to watch out for when considering a business partnership
    • How to identify misaligned values and ensure your business remains God-centered
    • What to do when you can’t find scripture that directly applies to a business decision
    • Practical steps to overcome overwhelm and hear God’s voice clearly
    • How Christian entrepreneurs can build an online presence without compromising their values
    • The importance of offline ministry and why in-person connections matter

    This episode is packed with biblical wisdom, practical advice, and personal experiences to help you navigate business with God at the center.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Life Application Study Bible – https://a.co/d/2m4J0Uz
    • www.biblestudytools.com
    • www.biblehub.com
    • Bible Project on YouTube


    Have a Bible on Business question you’d like answered in a future episode? Email me at [email protected].

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    51 min
  • Authentic Humility

    In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our discussion on the book Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Wield Lasting Influence by Crawford Loritz. So far, we’ve covered Brokenness and Uncommon Communion, and today, we dive into the third trait: Servanthood.

    Join Tatum as she explores the concept of authentic humility, breaking down key takeaways from Chapter 11 and sharing how servant leadership is not just a strategy but an identity. She also reflects on how Christian entrepreneurs must navigate this principle differently in a business landscape that often operates by secular standards.

    Key Takeaways:
    • Why humility is not weakness but a leadership strength.
    • The difference between servant leadership as a strategy vs. as an identity.
    • The challenges of balancing servanthood and leadership as an entrepreneur.
    • How Jesus modeled humility and how we can adopt that mindset.
    • Practical ways to assess and address pride in your leadership.


    If you’re looking to lead with humility while still growing a successful business, this episode is for you. Listen in for self-reflection questions and a powerful prayer to help you align your leadership with God’s vision.

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    32 min
  • His Direction

    In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, the discussion centers on chapter 10 of Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Wield Lasting Influence by Crawford Loritz. The host dives into the transformative process of receiving God's direction and emphasizes that true Christian leadership is founded on a deep, personal relationship with God rather than self-reliance or a complete blueprint from the start.

    Key Themes & Insights:

    • The Structure of Leadership:
    • The book is divided into four parts: Brokenness, Uncommon Communion, Servanthood, and Radical & Immediate Obedience.
    • This episode focuses on “His Direction” within the Uncommon Communion section, highlighting how leadership starts with God’s presence.
    • Core Message of Christian Leadership:
    • Leadership is not about having all the answers but about doing what God wants done.
    • Trusting God’s process means accepting that He provides enough direction to take the next step—even if the full picture isn’t revealed right away.
    • Biblical Foundations & Practical Lessons:
    • Emphasis on the power of consistent communion with God, drawing from Psalm 32:8 and the example of Moses in Exodus.
    • Moses’ habit of meeting with God in the tent of meeting illustrates the necessity of removing distractions and staying grounded in divine guidance.
    • Four key lessons from Moses’ experience include:
    • Making meeting with God a consistent habit.
    • Seeking His presence away from the clamor of everyday life.
    • Inspiring confidence in others by modeling a life deeply connected to God.
    • Embracing an intimate, friendship-like relationship with the Lord.
    • Personal Reflections & Testimonies:
    • The host shares personal stories of seeking God’s direction during times of uncertainty and growth.
    • A powerful vision of a ribbon cutting ceremony foreshadowed the eventual establishment of Anchored Media Studios, reinforcing that God’s assignments often unfold gradually as we obey His call.
    • An honest account of the struggle between the rush to act and the need to remain in constant communion with God, reminding us to stay humble and obedient.
    • Practical Guidance for Leaders:
    • Prioritize time with God over chasing activity or external validation.
    • Avoid relying solely on self-help or external advice; instead, cultivate a deep, personal relationship with the Lord.
    • Recognize that growth in leadership comes from continuous obedience, learning, and transformation through God’s instructions.




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    42 min
  • What Strategic Timing Looks Like

     In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Bible on Business series by diving into the significance of strategic timing. Tatum unpacks the powerful lessons from Acts 2, examining how the Lord orchestrated the perfect moment for Pentecost and how this applies to our business and leadership journeys. She discusses why waiting on God’s timing is crucial, how to avoid premature leadership, and how divine strategy ensures maximum impact.

    Through the transformation of Peter, the example of Chick-fil-A’s success, and personal reflections on her own journey, Tatum emphasizes the importance of trusting God's plan. If you’re in a season of waiting or feeling impatient about your business or calling, this episode will encourage and challenge you to surrender to God's divine orchestration.

    Key Takeaways:

    • God’s Timing Ensures Maximum Impact: Pentecost happened at the exact right moment to maximize the spread of the gospel. Likewise, waiting on God's timing in your business will lead to greater impact.
    • The Right People Will Be in Place When It's Time: God gathers the right audience, customers, and community when the timing aligns with His plan.
    • Strategic Preparation Precedes Breakthrough: Just as Peter had to go through a transformation process, we must embrace personal and professional development while waiting for God’s move.
    • Sudden Breakthroughs Are Often Years in the Making: From Jesus preparing 30 years for a 3-year ministry to Chick-fil-A’s 20-year foundation before expansion, major success takes time and patience.
    • Avoid Premature Leadership & Decision-Making: Acting ahead of God’s plan can lead to consequences. Learning to wait well is key to success in both business and faith.

    Announcements:

    • Applications for the Purposed to Podcast program are still open! If you’re looking for mentorship from a proven podcast coach who integrates faith and business, apply now. This is the only cohort for 2025! Click the link in the show notes to learn more - https://www.videoask.com/fsq9j855v

    Scriptures Mentioned:

    • Acts 2:1-5 – The divine timing of Pentecost
    • Leviticus 23:15-16 – The significance of the Feast of Weeks
    • Deuteronomy 16:16 – The biblical foundation for gathering at Pentecost
    • Matthew 16:16-23 – Peter’s faith and spiritual immaturity
    • John 18:10-11 – Peter’s rash decision-making




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    36 min
  • His Presence

    In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our book club discussion on Leadership as an Identity: The Four Traits of Those Who Wield Lasting Influence by Crawford W. Loritts. This week, we dive into Chapter 9, His Presence, exploring how true leadership requires an uncommon communion with God. Tatum unpacks the significance of leading from God’s presence and shares personal experiences of how seeking Him first provides wisdom, direction, and supernatural provision.

    Key Points Covered:

    • Book Club Update – We’re halfway through Leadership as an Identity. Tatum is considering a faith-based book next. Email recommendations to [email protected].
    • The Power of God’s Presence – Leadership is not just about strategy but about being deeply connected to God.
    • Moses’ Encounter in Exodus 33 – Why Moses refused to move without God’s presence and how that applies to us today.
    • Personal Testimony – How seeking God’s presence gave Tatum a divine financial strategy for hiring a nanny while preparing for law school.
    • The Rest That Comes from God – Leading from His presence brings peace, confidence, and sustainability in life and business.
    • Are You Leading from His Presence? – The importance of fully integrating faith and leadership rather than compartmentalizing them.

    Links & Resources:

    Leadership as an Identity by Crawford W. Loritts – https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_00AMZZF65KBFAM8B643F&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1

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    39 min
  • Every Christian Creator Needs to Hear This

    In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum shares a powerful message originally delivered during the Christian Content Creator Town Hall. She breaks down the difference between content creation and thought leadership, urging Christian entrepreneurs to shift their focus from chasing trends to establishing influence that truly shifts culture.

    Key Takeaways:

    • The love-hate relationship many entrepreneurs have with social media
    • Why building solely on platforms you don’t own is risky
    • The dangers of social media for mental health and business sustainability
    • The Lord’s call for Christians to be thought leaders, not just content creators
    • The difference between thought leadership and content creation:
    • Thought leaders shift culture; content creators follow trends
    • Thought leaders provide original insights; content creators focus on visibility
    • Thought leaders build authority and intellectual property; content creators depend on algorithms
    • Thought leaders monetize through high-ticket offers, consulting, and speaking engagements
    • Biblical examples of thought leadership, including Jesus, Paul, and Nehemiah
    • Actionable steps to transition from content creator to thought leader

    Practical Steps to Shift to Thought Leadership:

    1. Create transformational content – Focus on depth, insight, and teaching rather than just trends.
    2. Develop original frameworks & methodologies – Build a unique approach to solving problems in your niche.
    3. Establish a signature thought leadership platform – Choose a long-form format like a podcast, book, or newsletter to house your expertise.
    4. Build a community – Thought leaders cultivate deeper engagement beyond just followers.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Join the Purposed to Podcast Program: The only cohort of 2025 is now open for enrollment! Work with Tatum to develop your podcast and thought leadership. https://www.videoask.com/fsq9j855v
    • Study Guide: Homework! Dive deeper into biblical thought leaders: Moses, Nehemiah, Daniel, Esther, Solomon, John the Baptist, and Paul.


    Final Encouragement:

    If you've been frustrated with social media, struggling with content consistency, or feeling like you're just chasing the algorithm, this episode is for you. God has called you to be more than a content creator—He wants you to be a thought leader. Seek Him, embrace originality, and build something that lasts beyond platforms and trends.



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    42 min
  • His Resources

    In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Leadership as an Identity book club discussion, diving into Section Two: Uncommon Communion. Tatum explores what it means to lead with God rather than just for Him. She shares insights on the dangers of relying on our own abilities and the importance of maintaining intimacy with God in our leadership journey.

    We discuss:

    ✨ The four identity characteristics of Christian leaders

    ✨ Why our success isn’t solely based on skills, education, or experience

    ✨ The difference between doing work for God vs. with God

    ✨ The dangers of self-reliance and how to remain dependent on the Lord

    ✨ How to cultivate uncommon communion and tap into God’s wisdom for leadership

    Challenge for the Week:

    Create a personal “Hall of Faith” by identifying key moments in your faith journey where God transitioned you to a new level. Display photos, mementos, or symbols that remind you of these defining moments.

    🔗 Resources Mentioned:

    📖 Leadership as an Identity – https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_00AMZZF65KBFAM8B643F&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1



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    31 min
  • The Dangers of Premature Leadership

    In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue the Bible on Business series, focusing on leadership through the lens of the Book of Acts. Many Christian entrepreneurs seek wisdom from business books and experts but often overlook the rich, strategic insight found in scripture. Today, we’re discussing premature leadership—the dangers of stepping into a role before being spiritually, emotionally, and practically prepared.

    Tatum unpacks the risks of moving ahead of God’s timing and shares biblical and real-world case studies of leaders who failed due to impatience, lack of preparation, or secondhand faith. She also provides actionable steps to avoid premature leadership and ensure that you lead in alignment with God’s plan.

    Key Topics Covered:
    • Why waiting on God’s timing is crucial for leadership and success
    • Biblical insights on premature leadership from Acts 1 and Acts 19 (Sons of Sceva)
    • Real-world business case studies: WeWork’s downfall and the Theranos scandal
    • The consequences of launching a business or ministry too soon
    • The importance of character development and preparation
    • How to avoid premature leadership and ensure you’re moving in step with God
    Scriptures Mentioned:
    1. Acts 1:4-5 – Jesus instructs the apostles to wait before stepping into their calling
    2. Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “To everything there is a season…”
    3. Proverbs 19:2 – “Desire without knowledge is not good; how much more will hasty feet miss the way?”
    4. Habakkuk 2:3 – “If it seems slow in coming, wait patiently, for it will surely take place.”
    5. Acts 19:13-19 – The Sons of Sceva and the consequences of secondhand faith
    6. 1 Timothy 3:6 – The dangers of placing a new believer in leadership

    Biblical Figures to Study:

    King Saul, Moses, Sons of Sceva, Abraham & Sarah, Rehoboam, Uzzah


    Action Steps to Avoid Premature Leadership:

    1. Learn from others' mistakes – Study both biblical and business case studies
    2. Develop your character and skillset – Don't step into a role you’re not prepared for
    3. Embrace the preparation season – Trust that God is shaping you for your future assignment
    4. Wait for the Holy Spirit’s confirmation – Don’t launch before being empowered by the Spirit
    Resources & Links:
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    44 min
  • Dealing with Discouragement

    In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our deep dive into Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts. We explore Chapter 7, "Dealing with Discouragement," the final chapter in the book’s first section on brokenness. Tatum shares her personal experiences with discouragement, particularly as she prepares for law school and navigates business challenges. She discusses the importance of choosing truth, joy, faith, community, and service as essential tools to combat discouragement and remain steadfast in faith. This episode is filled with wisdom for Christian entrepreneurs and leaders facing setbacks or uncertainty in their journey.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Understanding Brokenness: Brokenness is a necessary trait of Christian leadership, alongside uncommon communion, servanthood, and radical obedience.
    • The Reality of Discouragement: Every leader faces discouragement, but how we respond determines if it will break us or refine us.
    • Choosing Truth: Avoid denial and embrace both the reality of challenges and the truth of God’s Word.
    • Choosing Joy: Joy is a choice, not an involuntary response. Focus on the presence of God rather than circumstances.
    • Choosing Faith: Faith requires trusting God even when the future feels uncertain.
    • Choosing Community: Isolation can distort reality. Surrounding yourself with wise counsel and support is vital.
    • Choosing Service: Serving others even in difficult times brings healing and purpose.

    Announcements:

    • Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join me for this live event where I’ll be sharing insights for Christian podcasters and content creators. I’ll also be opening my mentorship program for the only cohort of the year. https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4
    • Get the Book: If you haven't already, grab your copy of Leadership as an Identity using the link in the show notes https://www.amazon.com/dp/0802429874?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_00AMZZF65KBFAM8B643F&skipTwisterOG=1&bestFormat=true&newOGT=1


    Scripture References:

    • Galatians 6:9 – "Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary."
    • Psalm 119:50 – "This is my comfort in my affliction, that your promise gives me life."
    • Philippians 4:4 – "Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice."
    • Romans 8:37-39 – "In all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us."




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    41 min

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