Blessed + Bossed Up

In this episode, we take a brief pause from our Bible on Business series to share a powerful session from The Society’s First Fruits Fast. Tatum dives into the book of Isaiah, uncovering patterns of rebellion, repentance, and self-reliance exhibited by the Israelites—and how these same behaviors mirror our own lives today. Through self-examination and strategy, she challenges us to move from self-reliance to total dependence on God, offering practical tools and encouragement to grow spiritually and align with His will.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Key lessons from the book of Isaiah and its relevance to our daily lives.
• How patterns of behavior like fear, self-reliance, and worldly influences keep us from fully depending on God.
• The concept of the habit loop and how it shapes our actions.
• Practical strategies to disrupt unhealthy habits and replace them with faith-driven behaviors.

Special Resource:

Tatum shares an incredible resource, The Behavior Loop Analysis & Replacement Method. This step-by-step guide helps you identify and transform patterns of behavior that lead to self-reliance, replacing them with habits rooted in faith and dependence on God. Download today: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/GlW8

Upcoming Events:

• Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join Tatum for a free event designed for Christian creators navigating the online space, featuring a powerful word. Register here: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4

Scripture Focus:

• Isaiah 30:21 (NLT): “Your own ears will hear him. Right behind you a voice will say, ‘This is the way you should go,’ whether to the right or to the left.”

Links Mentioned:

• Download The Behavior Loop Analysis & Replacement Method: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/page/GlW8
• Join The Society: https://blessedandbossedupsociety.com/invitation?code=DACED3
• Register for the Christian Content Creator Town Hall: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum continues her discussion of Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts, diving into Chapter 6: "Seasons of Brokenness." Tatum unpacks the significance of brokenness in the life of a Christian leader, sharing her personal reflections and insights on how God uses these seasons to build humility, dependence, and strength for His glory.

Tatum also reflects on the constant pull toward pride that leaders face and offers strategies to combat it through intentional time with God, self-awareness, and a posture of humility. She encourages listeners to see brokenness as an opportunity to grow closer to God and to develop a mindset rooted in total dependence on Him.

This episode is packed with wisdom, personal testimonies, and scriptural insights, including:

• Lessons from Philippians 3:1-21 about prioritizing Christ above all.
• Jacob’s encounter with God and the "limp" that marked his transformation (Genesis 32).
• A challenge to reframe seasons of brokenness as signs of God’s love and preparation for greater assignments.

If you're a leader in any capacity, this conversation will encourage and equip you to embrace God's refining process in your life.

Resources Mentioned:

• Book: Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts
• Scripture References: Philippians 3, Psalm 42, Proverbs 16:18, Hebrews 10:31, James 4:6, Genesis 32

Special Announcements:

• Christian Content Creator Town Hall: Join Tatum and other inspiring speakers for a free virtual event designed for those called to create in the online space. Learn how to navigate challenges and step confidently into your calling. Click to register: https://anchoredmedia.kartra.com/webinar/AuX5ijYd7wa4

 In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum dives into the topic of waiting on God and how it plays a critical role in our spiritual and leadership development. Reflecting on Acts 1:1-5, she explores how the disciples transformed from fear and doubt to obedient leaders through the power of waiting. Tatum shares how this season of waiting is not punishment but a divine period of preparation, sanctification, and transformation. She challenges listeners to adopt a heart posture of gratitude and surrender during their waiting seasons, understanding that God is working behind the scenes.

Key Points:

• The Society Update: Tatum announces that The Society has transitioned from a for-profit model to a nonprofit under the newly formed Anchored Media Foundation. This change allows for more impactful service, including financial support to Christian women entrepreneurs.
• First Fruits Fast: Join the free 7-day First Fruits Fast starting January 19th. This fast focuses on themes like repentance, provision, creativity, and rest, featuring daily prayers, devotionals, and lessons.
• Bible on Business Series - Leadership Edition: Tatum continues the Bible on Business series, focusing on leadership lessons from the book of Acts. Acts 1:1-5 highlights the importance of waiting on God's promise and how the disciples waited obediently for the Holy Spirit.
• The Weight of Waiting: Tatum emphasizes that waiting seasons are essential for growth and transformation. Rather than viewing waiting as a burden, she encourages listeners to see it as an opportunity to deepen their relationship with God and strengthen their character.
• Heart Posture in the Wait: The disciples' transformation during their waiting period serves as a model for how we should wait with gratitude, obedience, and faith, trusting that God is preparing us for greater purpose.

Scripture Reference:

• Acts 1:1-5 (ESV)
• Matthew 26:40-41
• Mark 14:37-38
• John 20:19

Call to Action:

• Join the First Fruits Fast: Activate your free trial to participate in the fast and connect with the community. https://blessedandbossedupsociety.com/invitation?code=DACED3&kuid=350422e4-3c19-42f1-9a75-33cd3a19ea46-1737083424&lid=6398&kref=86HkJvnmxEYf
• Donate to the Society: Support the Anchored Media Foundation's mission to empower Christian women entrepreneurs: https://www.paypal.com/donate?campaign_id=T7PZ3UP255EHC

In this powerful bonus episode, Tatum dives back into the Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club, continuing the discussion on Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts. This episode focuses on the essential leadership trait of brokenness and how God uses our weaknesses to demonstrate His strength.

Tatum shares personal reflections on how pride can sneak into leadership and how surrendering our weaknesses allows God to move powerfully through us. She also encourages listeners to reframe their perspective on inadequacies and lean fully into God's grace.

Key Topics Covered:

• The four traits of lasting Christian leadership: Brokenness, Uncommon Communion, Servanthood, and Radical Obedience.
• How pride can manifest subtly in leadership and how to guard against it.
• The importance of embracing weaknesses as opportunities for God to display His strength.
• Lessons from Moses on surrendering excuses and trusting God's sufficiency (Exodus 3).
• Discerning when to take action and when to wait on God.

Key Scriptures Mentioned:

• 2 Corinthians 11:30 – “If I must boast, I will boast in the things that show my weakness.”
• 2 Corinthians 12:9 – “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
• Proverbs 3:5-6 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.”

Resources Mentioned:

• Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts – Grab your copy: https://a.co/d/aL2lLD4 
• Previous Book Club Episodes (Chapters 1–4) – Listen here!
• https://redcircle.com/shows/a6ac3d3a-cf55-4644-a77c-6e891ff71fc0/episodes/d079b8ca-4478-4e54-b531-cfbf79769cea
• https://redcircle.com/shows/a6ac3d3a-cf55-4644-a77c-6e891ff71fc0/episodes/b00c1011-2803-4ece-861f-0221b19d7295
• https://redcircle.com/shows/a6ac3d3a-cf55-4644-a77c-6e891ff71fc0/episodes/3af6a98e-8609-47e7-96e5-94a45bed7685
• https://redcircle.com/shows/a6ac3d3a-cf55-4644-a77c-6e891ff71fc0/episodes/e7d34cf3-fd16-415a-9766-a3721fe4a2d5

Connect with Tatum:

• Email: [email protected] (for direct communication while she’s off social media)
• Anchored Media Studios: www.anchoredmediastudios.com

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Welcome to the first episode of 2025! Tatum kicks off the new year with a heartfelt reflection on eight incredible years of podcasting and a transparent testimony of God’s goodness through challenging seasons. From navigating the highs and lows of entrepreneurship to receiving life-changing instructions from the Lord, Tatum shares how her faith has been strengthened and her obedience rewarded.

In this episode, she:

• Celebrates Blessed + Bossed Up’s 8th anniversary.
• Shares behind-the-scenes struggles of starting and sustaining a brick-and-mortar business
• Testifies about enduring a season of pressure and witnessing God’s miraculous provision.
• Reveals her next exciting journey—law school—and how God opened doors even when she felt unprepared.
• Encourages listeners to trust God wholeheartedly and persevere through difficulties, knowing He is always working on their behalf.

Key Scriptures Mentioned:

• Proverbs 3:5-7 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding.”
• Matthew 10:29 – “What is the price of two sparrows? ... Not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it.”
• Psalm 34:8 – “Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in Him.”

Resources Mentioned:

• Leadership as an Identity by Crawford Loritts (Book Club Selection) https://a.co/d/9zdkA6N
• Anchored Media Studios – A workspace and content studio located in Laurel, MD www.anchoredmediastudios.com

Thank You for 8 Amazing Years!

To all our listeners, whether you’ve been here since day one or just discovered the show, thank you for your support and encouragement. Tatum is excited about what year eight and beyond will bring as we continue this journey of integrating faith and entrepreneurship.

Welcome to the most-played bonus episode of 2024! 🎉 This special episode marked the launch of our book club, where we dive into powerful, transformative reads that point us back to the ultimate guide—God’s Word.

Our first book club pick was Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer, a timeless classic with nearly 20,000 five-star reviews on Amazon. This episode kicks off with an introduction to the book, a discussion of Chapter 1, and an exploration of how to take your thoughts captive and align them with the truth of God's Word.

• Synopsis of the Book: Overcoming worry, doubt, confusion, and other attacks on the mind with the truth of God’s Word.
• Key Scripture: 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 — Learn to cast down thoughts that exalt themselves above the knowledge of God.
• Highlights from Chapter 1:
• Recognizing the enemy's strategy in planting negative thoughts.
• The importance of being self-aware in spiritual warfare.
• The role of past trauma in leaving us vulnerable to spiritual attacks.
• Actionable Takeaways:
• Root yourself in the Word for victory.
• Use spiritual weapons: the Word, praise, and prayer.
• Engage in intentional study and meditation to renew your mind.

• 2 Corinthians 10:4-5
• John 8:31-32
• Ephesians 6:12
• Mark 4:24

Hey, Blessed + Bossed Up family! As we take a short break from the podcast, we wanted to re-air the most listened-to episode of 2024! This episode, Surrendering to the Season, resonated deeply with so many of you, and it’s packed with timeless wisdom for ambitious women striving to balance family, faith, and purpose.

In this episode, Tatum gets real about navigating the delicate balance of building a thriving business and nurturing a loving home. She shares revelations about how God has been ministering to her in this season of marriage and motherhood, helping her redefine success and prioritize legacy over income.

Whether you’re a married woman with young children, a high achiever striving to fulfill your God-given purpose, or simply someone seeking encouragement in surrendering to God’s plan, this episode is for you. Tatum also dives into:

• The importance of aligning your value system with God’s priorities.
• How Proverbs 14:1 inspired a powerful perspective shift.
• Using your ambition and gifts to create legacy in your home.
• Encouragement for women building what they’ve never seen modeled before.

Key Takeaways:

• God calls us to seasons of focus and surrender for His purpose and glory.
• Your business won't fail because you’re focused on your family—obedience to God will multiply your efforts.
• High-achieving women can find harmony in serving both their home and their purpose.

Announcements:

✨ Join the Prayer-a-thon

End your year in God’s presence! The Blessed + Bossed Up Society is partnering with Mornings with God ministry for a free Prayer-a-thon on December 31st. Together, we’ll cover six key areas: Spiritual Wellness, Health, Mental and Emotional Health, Finances, Community, and Relationships. Registration is FREE! bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

Hey everyone! While we’re still on a brief podcast break, I wanted to share an exciting update and a timely word to help you navigate the end of this year and prepare for what’s ahead.

As the year closes, we’re thrilled to invite you to the Prayer-a-thon hosted by the Blessed + Bossed Up Society in partnership with Mornings with God ministry. This is your chance to come together in faith and expectation as we pray over six powerful areas:

• Spiritual wellness & development
• Health & physical well-being
• Mental & emotional health
• Finances & work
• Community & the nations
• Relationships

The best part? Registration is completely free! Whether you’re seeking clarity, breakthrough, or simply alignment with God’s plans for 2025, this event is for you. Don’t miss out— bit.ly/mwgprayerthon

As we move into the final stretch of the year, many of us are planning, strategizing, and seeking God’s will for our businesses and lives. But how do you know if you're truly in alignment with God? In this episode, we dive deep into the nuances of peace—both of the flesh and of the spirit—and how to discern the peace that comes from God.

Key Takeaways:

1. Defining Peace: The difference between the peace of the flesh (comfort and control) and the peace of the spirit (wholeness, harmony, and alignment with God’s word).
2. Peace as Confirmation: Why our emotions are not reliable indicators of being in God’s will and how to recognize the settledness of the Holy Spirit.
3. Practical Tips: Characteristics of God’s peace to help you confidently move forward in His purpose for your life and business.

Scripture References:

• Galatians 5:17
• Biblical definition of peace: Wholeness and harmony when all essential parts are joined together
• Joshua 1:8: "Meditate on the Word day and night so that you may be successful."
• Romans 8:28: "All things work together for the good of those who love the Lord."

As we take a short break, enjoy this powerful replay of one of our most impactful episodes!

In this episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast, we kick off the Bible on Business series, diving deep into how scripture provides practical and spiritual guidance for faith-based entrepreneurs. Tatum explores how the Bible equips us to operate as shepherds in our businesses, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing souls over sales and embodying Christ-like leadership.

• Special Announcement: Join the free Prayer-a-thon on December 31st, hosted by Blessed and Bossed Up Society in partnership with Mornings with God Ministry. Let’s close out 2024 in God’s presence, praying over key areas for 2025. Register Here: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon
• Series Introduction: Tatum explains how God’s Word serves as the ultimate business guide, offering insights into leadership, integrity, and the responsibility of shepherding His people.
• Markers of Growth in Faith-Based Entrepreneurship:
• Moving from “God is my CEO” to becoming Christ-like shepherds in business.
• Shifting from hustle culture to leading as executives rooted in God’s wisdom.
• Shepherding Lessons for Entrepreneurs:
• Characteristics of sheep and how they parallel consumer behavior.
• The importance of prioritizing souls, not just sales.
• Biblical strategies to seek out disengaged clients and foster reconciliation.
• Scriptural Deep Dive:
• Matthew 18:12-14: Actively seeking and serving the "lost" in your business.
• John 21:15-17: Comprehensive care for all levels of your audience.
• Acts 20:28: Guarding personal integrity while shepherding God’s people.
• 1 Peter 2:25: Staying close to the Good Shepherd to avoid wandering.
• Encouragement for Entrepreneurs:
• Don’t let fear of failure paralyze you; God forgives, restores, and uses you for His glory.
• A reminder to remain steadfast and rooted in God’s path, even when business seasons are tough.

• Reflection Challenge: What areas of your business can you realign to reflect the heart of a shepherd?
• Share the Message: If this episode blessed you, leave a 5-star review and share it with a friend!

This episode is a timely reminder to guard your heart and attention in today’s fast-paced, digital world. Originally recorded during a chaotic week, Tatum shares her heartfelt frustrations about the distractions and noise in online spaces that can pull believers away from truth. She explains how the enemy strategically attacks our attention and provides practical solutions to ensure we stay focused on God’s truth.

Key Points Discussed:

• The Duality of Technology: While the digital age provides incredible opportunities for believers to grow and share their faith, it also presents challenges such as false teachings, distractions, and spiritual elitism.
• The Enemy’s Attack on Attention: Why the devil targets our attention to steer us away from truth and how this can lead to lukewarm faith.
• Definition of Attention: How what we focus on can prepare our body to act, sometimes in ways contrary to God’s will.
• Guarding Your Heart: Practical steps to protect yourself from distractions and align your attention with God's truth.
• Pure Alternatives: How finding godly alternatives to music, media, and other influences can help you live a focused and faith-filled life.

Practical Solutions:

1. Use Technology Wisely: Leverage tools like algorithm filters to block distracting or harmful content.
2. Know Your Triggers: Avoid content or environments that tempt you away from God’s principles.
3. Be Intentional with Media: Replace secular influences with Christian alternatives, such as uplifting music and faith-based content.
4. Seek God’s Guidance: Pray for wisdom and discernment in managing your attention.

Join Us for the Year-End Prayer-A-Thon:

Close out the year in God’s presence! Join us on December 31st for a Prayer-A-Thon hosted by the Blessed and Bossed Up Society and Mornings with God ministry. We'll be praying over six key areas to prepare for 2025:

1. Spiritual Wellness & Development
2. Health & Physical Well-being
3. Mental & Emotional Health
4. Finances & Vocation
5. Community & The Nations
6. Relationships

Registration is completely free! bit.ly/mwgprayerthon