From Facebook messages to donor agreements, Mike shares candid insights into becoming a known sperm donor for a couple in his social circle.

In this insightful bonus episode of No Need for Prince Charming, Alisha sits down with Mike—a known sperm donor who generously shares his side of the donor process. From being approached by a couple in his social circle to navigating donor counselling, IVF, and ongoing involvement in their child’s life, Mike offers a rare and heartfelt perspective.

Mike explains the initial conversations, the importance of donor agreements, and why counselling sessions were so valuable in setting clear expectations. He also reflects on the powerful emotions of meeting the baby for the first time and shares advice for anyone considering a known donor arrangement.

Whether you’re exploring the option of a known donor or just curious about the male perspective, this episode highlights the importance of communication, trust, and mutual respect in creating modern families.

Key Takeaways:

How Mike was approached to become a known donor via a Facebook message.

The role of donor counselling, agreements, and clear communication in setting expectations.

The IVF donation process, including screening, timelines, and legalities.

Mike’s involvement as a “donor dad” and his strong protective instincts after meeting the child.

Practical advice for solo mums considering a known donor, including the value of having tough conversations early.

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