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Break Free from Perfectionism: Overcome Shame, Embrace Imperfection and Boost Self-Esteem


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Break Free from Perfectionism: Overcome Shame, Embrace Imperfection & Boost Self-Esteem

Show Notes:
In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into how perfectionism isn’t a virtue—it’s a crutch that keeps us hiding our true selves and trapped in shame. Discover why striving for perfection in your body, home, career, relationships, and more can lead to an unrelenting inner critic and prevent you from experiencing authentic connection.

What You’ll Learn:

  • The Hidden Shame of Perfectionism:
    Explore the #1 shame triggers for women and men—from not being “perfect” in every aspect to being perceived as incapable or weak. Understand how these societal pressures foster deep-rooted shame and isolation.
  • The Mask We Wear:
    Learn why perfectionism creates a false public self that distances us from our true identity, and how this disconnect affects our self-esteem and relationships.
  • Inspiration from “The Greatest Showman”:
    Relive the emotional journey of Keala Settle in “This is Me” and see how embracing your scars and vulnerabilities can set you free. Her powerful performance reminds us that authenticity is the key to self-acceptance. The Greatest Showman Clip 
  • Breaking the Cycle:
    Understand why perfectionism is not about striving for excellence, but about avoiding criticism. Find out how shifting your mindset can lead to healthier personal growth, improved mental health, and deeper relationships.

Key Takeaways:

  • Perfectionism is a societal trap that limits growth and authentic connection.
  • Embracing imperfection is the first step toward reclaiming your self-worth.
  • You have the power to challenge your inner critic and say, “I am enough, and I matter, despite…”
  • Real change begins when you start valuing your internal worth over external approval.

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Learn more about my Signature Coaching Program for Parents who want to strengthen their family relationships: Courageous Connections - CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE 

Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She works with parents who have families in conflict to help them become the grounded, confident leaders their family needs.
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Tina is certified in family relationships and a trauma informed coach.
Visit tinagosney.com for more information on coaching services.

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