The Better Leaders Better Schools Podcast with Daniel Bauer

Breaking Barriers: Giving Yourself Permission to Lead


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Quick take: Most school leaders are waiting for someone else's permission to create the change they know their students need. Will Parker destroys that myth and reveals the #1 barrier standing between you and transformational leadership — yourself.

Meet Your Fellow Ruckus Maker

William D. Parker is the founder of Principal Matters, LLC—an educator, author, speaker, and executive coach who leverages his expertise in school culture, leadership, and communication to equip educators with strategies for motivating students, inspiring teachers, and reaching communities. He is also the host of Principal Matters: The School Leader's Podcast, with more than 1.5 million downloads to date. Will supports schools around the world through professional development and leadership coaching. He frequently presents at K–12 events, education conferences, leadership team training, and graduate classes on effective practices, organizational management, and improved school communication. An Oklahoma educator since 1993, Will was named South Intermediate High School Teacher of the Year for Broken Arrow Public Schools in 1998. He became an assistant principal in 2004 and was named Oklahoma Assistant Principal of the Year by the National Association of Secondary Principals in 2012. As a principal of a Title I school, he helped lead initiatives in collaboration, remediation, and mentoring that significantly improved student achievement. For six years, Will served as executive director of the Oklahoma Association of Secondary School Principals and the Oklahoma Middle Level Education Association. Find out more about his leadership academies, masterminds, executive coaching, books, and keynote presentations at williamdparker.com. Will's new book: Whose Permission Are You Waiting For? And other books: Pause. Breath. Flourish., Messaging Matters., and Principal Matters.

Breaking Down the Old Rules 🔨

In this episode, William D. Parker challenges traditional education paradigms:

Key Insight #1: Stop Creating Imaginary Rules That Don't Exist

  • What's broken: Leaders inventing barriers and constraints that exist only in their own minds, like the college student who created rules for a ropes course challenge that didn't exist
  • The shift: Question every "rule" you think is stopping you and ask which barriers are real versus imaginary
  • Impact: When you eliminate self-imposed limitations, you unlock possibilities you never knew existed and can tackle challenges with creative solutions

Key Insight #2: Survival Mode Kills Vision and Growth

  • What's broken: Leaders getting trapped in day-to-day survival thinking instead of setting goals and dreaming about the future
  • The shift: Build regular reflection cycles asking: What milestones have I hit? What challenges did I overcome? What successes did I experience? What do I want to experience next?
  • Impact: Clarity gives you permission to take action — when you know where you want to go, you can start moving toward it

Key Insight #3: Binary Thinking Limits Your Options

  • What's broken: Approaching decisions as either/or choices instead of exploring multiple pathways and creative alternatives
  • The shift: Always create A, B, and C options (good, better, best) whether you're handling student discipline, master scheduling, or hiring decisions
  • Impact: Options create ownership and empower others while opening doors to solutions you never considered

Quotable Ruckus

"When you are considering the thing you really want to accomplish, the improvements that you really want to see, the kind of growth that you really want to experience... whose permission are you waiting for? Because a lot of times the person's permission they're waiting for is their own." – William D. Parker

Your Do School Different Challenge

Ready to implement these ideas? Start here:

Tomorrow: Make a list of the barriers you think are stopping you from creating the change you want to see — circle the ones that might be imaginary

This Month: Schedule weekly reflection time using Will's questions: What challenges did I overcome? What successes did I experience? What lessons did I learn? What do I want to experience next?

This Semester: For your next major decision, create three pathway options (A, B, C) instead of thinking in binary terms — then involve your team in choosing the best path forward

Connect & Continue

🎯 Get the full episode transcript: here 🔗 Follow William D. Parker: Linkedin

📚 Get Will's new book: Whose Permission Are You Waiting For?

And Other books:

  • Pause. Breath. Flourish.
  • Messaging Matters.
  • Principal Matters.

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