布衣之声

hello, everybody, Welcome to LizhiFM42920 the voice of buyi. Today let us enjoy together a short english passage A father's job is unique.

古今中外，在教育孩子的问题上，一直存在着各种不同的看法和做法。我们在孩子初期教育的实施过程中，都融进了自己的方式和方法。父母在家庭教育中，都各自担负有特殊的责任，扮演着特殊的角色，做的好就会相得益彰，做的不好，则事倍功半。无论如何，有一点，是肯定的，无论父亲还是母亲，您再怎么努力，都替代不了对方的角色功能，正如近几天在微信平台上大家纷纷转发和热议的一篇文章所提到的，手足之情，父母也同样无法替代。

A father's job is unique.

If parents had job descriptions mine would read: organize bills, playmates, laundry, meals, laundry, carpool, laundry, snacks, outings and shopping, and laundry.

The only thing on my husband's description would be the word “fun” written in big red letters along the top. Although he is a selfless care-giver and provider, our children think of him more as a combination of a jungle gym and bozo and clown.

Our parenting styles compliment each other. His style is a nonstop adventure where no one has to worry about washing their hands, eating vegetables, or getting cavities. My style is similar to Mussolini. I'm too busy worrying to be fun. Besides, every time I try, I am constantly outdone by my husband.

I try to tell myself I am a good parent even if my husband does things I can't do. I can make sure my children are safe, warm, and dry. I'll stand in line for five hours so the children can see Santa at the mall or be first in line to see the latest Disney movie. But I can't wire the VCR so my children can watch their favorite video.

As a mother I can do a lot of things for my children, but no matter how hard I try I can never be their father.

父亲的角色无可替代

如果为人父母有职务简述的话，我的“职务简述”将会包括如下内容：管理账单和孩子们的玩耍同伴、洗衣、做饭、洗衣、安排与人合伙用车、洗衣、准备小吃、安排短途旅游、购物、洗衣。

我先生的“职务简述”是在上端用红色写出的两个大字——“乐子”。尽管他无私地给予孩子们百般关爱，尽其所能为他们提供所需，我们的孩子们更多的时候还是把他看作攀缘游戏架、大傻瓜和小丑的三合一。

我们俩为人父母的风格是互补的。他的风格是持续不断的探险，在这过程中，没有人需要操心孩子是不是洗手了，是不是吃蔬菜了，或者会不会长蛀牙。我的风格则类似墨索里尼的执政风格。我太忙了，为这操心，为那操心，哪里顾得上找什么乐子。再者，每次我试图逗孩子们开心，我总是被我先生比下去。

我劝慰自己我是个好妈妈，尽管我先生能做的事情我做不了。我可以确保我的孩子们是安全的、暖和的、干干爽爽的。我可以排队等5个小时，让孩子们在大商场里看到圣诞老人——或者第一个排队让孩子们看最新的迪斯尼影片。但是我不会给录像机接上电线，好让孩子们看他们喜欢的录像。

作为一个母亲，我可以为我的孩子们做许多事情，但是不管我怎样努力——我永远成为不了他们的父亲。

冬天的江南

作者：轻烟

朗诵：浣烟客/一湄

制作：岭南布衣

冬天的江南很冷

潮湿的阴冷

寒风也开始渗透我的骨髓

冰一样冷却全身的血液

我开始渴望

渴望接近阳光

想象着那是你温暖的胸膛

可以帮我把严寒抵挡

江南的冬天已经多年没有下雪

距离就像你我之间这般遥远

我开始想念

想念那片属于自己的雪花

却让灵魂疼痛了所有的感觉

冬天的江南

作者：轻烟

朗诵：浣烟客/一湄

制作：岭南布衣

冬天的江南很冷

潮湿的阴冷

寒风也开始渗透我的骨髓

冰一样冷却全身的血液

我开始渴望

渴望接近阳光

想象着那是你温暖的胸膛

可以帮我把严寒抵挡

江南的冬天已经多年没有下雪

距离就像你我之间这般遥远

我开始想念

想念那片属于自己的雪花

却让灵魂疼痛了所有的感觉

Welcome to LizhiFM42920 the voice of buyi. Today let us enjoy together a short english passage Today is All We Have.

The new day is here, and so are you! Now that we've started this new day, I hope that you're ready to give your best to it, and to enjoy it for all that it's worth!

Remember today that you are alive.

Sometimes we tend to forget that you have a purpose that is all your own, no one else is you. You have dreams and hopes and desires. Listen to your heart for a while.

Remember today all the blessings you have: There's beauty in every direction you look, enjoy the abundance that is already yours, the world is a wonderful place and you're here.

Remember today that you get what you give: Your world is a mirror of your inner self, love will be yours when you give it away.

Remember today that life is creation: As long as you live you can always contribute your own special voice.

Remember today is a special time; make the best of it while you can.

欢迎收听荔枝FM42920布衣之声。今天给大家分享的是一篇英语短文，拥有今天。新的一天开始了，你也要开始一天的忙碌了。希望你已经准备好全力以赴，充实而快乐地生活在今天。

记住今天你拥有生命!

有时我们似乎会忘记我们自己独有的生活目标，我们会忘记自我。每个人都有梦想，希望和愿望。有时去倾听一下你内心的召唤。

记住今天你拥有所有的祝福：美存在于你所注视过的每个角落，享受你内心已有的充实，这是一个美丽的世界，你生活在这里。

记住今天你因奉献而有所得：你的世界是你内心的一面镜子，当你给予爱时，你才拥有爱。

记住今天生活就是去创造：只要你拥有生命，你可以永远奉献你那一份力量。

记住今天是一个特殊的日子，尽你所能努力去创造吧!

Welcome to LizhiFM42920 the voice of buyi. Today let us enjoy together a short english passage Today is All We Have.

The new day is here, and so are you! Now that we've started this new day, I hope that you're ready to give your best to it, and to enjoy it for all that it's worth!

Remember today that you are alive.

Sometimes we tend to forget that you have a purpose that is all your own, no one else is you. You have dreams and hopes and desires. Listen to your heart for a while.

Remember today all the blessings you have: There's beauty in every direction you look, enjoy the abundance that is already yours, the world is a wonderful place and you're here.

Remember today that you get what you give: Your world is a mirror of your inner self, love will be yours when you give it away.

Remember today that life is creation: As long as you live you can always contribute your own special voice.

Remember today is a special time; make the best of it while you can.

欢迎收听荔枝FM42920布衣之声。今天给大家分享的是一篇英语短文，拥有今天。新的一天开始了，你也要开始一天的忙碌了。希望你已经准备好全力以赴，充实而快乐地生活在今天。

记住今天你拥有生命!

有时我们似乎会忘记我们自己独有的生活目标，我们会忘记自我。每个人都有梦想，希望和愿望。有时去倾听一下你内心的召唤。

记住今天你拥有所有的祝福：美存在于你所注视过的每个角落，享受你内心已有的充实，这是一个美丽的世界，你生活在这里。

记住今天你因奉献而有所得：你的世界是你内心的一面镜子，当你给予爱时，你才拥有爱。

记住今天生活就是去创造：只要你拥有生命，你可以永远奉献你那一份力量。

记住今天是一个特殊的日子，尽你所能努力去创造吧!

大家好，欢迎收听荔枝FM42920布衣之声。当今世界，没有肯德基的地方已经不多见了，肯德基虽然被许多人视为垃圾食品，但却每时每刻在吸引着众多的儿童和青年人趋之若鹜。虽然如此，很少有人能确切地告诉你，那个肯德基广告牌上的大胡子老爷爷的真实身份和创业背景，很少有人知道他曾经濒临破产，直到65岁才开始走向发达，不知道他当过律师殴打过自己的委托人，今天，咱们就来熟悉一下风靡全球的肯德基的创业小故事。

KFC's Colonel Sanders

When I read last week that a majority of Americans ages 18 to 25 didn't know who Colonel Sanders was,I was shocked.

According to USA Today,61% of respondents didn't know who the guy with the beard in the KFC logo was.

For anyone who grew up in America in the second half of the 20th century, the Colonel was a true icon.

You didn't need to be able to read to know who he was;you didn't even need to watch TV.

Anyone who drove a mile in any direction would see his beaming,grandfatherly visage and white suit and know that Kentucky Fried Chicken could be found there.

Maybe not everybody knew that he was the chain's founder or remembered his TV commercials from the '60s and '70s,when he talked about how each piece was dipped in an "egg warsh" before frying.

But, at least, they knew he was real.

Half of the young adults in the survey, which was ordered up by the chain,assumed that he was the creation of KFC,rather than the other way around.

In fact, the Colonel wasn't just a fast-food baron who represented his company on TV.

Sanders was the living embodiment of what his food supposedly stood for.

His white suit wasn't the invention of a marketing committee;he wore it every day and was never seen in public for the last 20 years of his life in anything else.

He was a failure who got fired from a dozen jobs before starting his restaurant,and then failed at that when he went out of business and found himself broke at the age of 65.

He drove around in a Cadillac with his facepainted on the side before anybody knew who he was,pleading with the owners of run-down diners to use his recipe and give him a nickel commission on each chicken.

He slept in the back of the car and made handshake deals.

He was a lawyer who once assaulted his own client in court.

He was indeed a Kentucky Colonel,an honorary title given to him by not one but two governors.

肯德基爷爷的真实故事

上周报上的一条消息让我感动非常震惊:大多数18到25岁的年轻人不知道桑德斯上校是谁。

据《今日美国》报道，61%的受访者不知道肯德基商标上那个留着胡须的老人是谁。

对任何一个在20世纪后半叶长大的美国人来说，桑德斯上校是一位真正的偶像。

你不必识字，甚至不必去看电视，就可以知道他是谁。

往任何方向开车行驶一英里你就能看见他笑吟吟的如祖父般慈祥的脸，还有他的白色西装。

然后你就知道肯德基就在附近。也许并不是所有人都记得上世纪六七十年代的那个电视广告，在广告中他讲解了每块鸡肉在油炸前都在蛋浆中浸泡。

但至少大家都知道确实有这么一个人。

可是，在这次由肯德基组织的调查中，有一半的年轻人却认为他是肯德基创造出来的虚拟标志而不是确有其人。

事实上，桑德斯上校并不仅仅是一个在电视上代表肯德基的快餐业巨头，

他还是肯德基食物的活化身。

他的白色西装可不是市场营销部门的发明创造;他每天都穿着它，在他人生的最后20年里，他一直坚持在公开场合穿着它。

在自己开餐厅之前，他曾多次遭到解雇。随后在他65岁那年，他的餐厅歇业并宣布破产。

他开着车身印有他头像的凯迪拉克车到处兜售，那时人们还不知道他是谁。他恳请速食店的老板们用他的配方，每烹饪一只鸡给他五分钱的佣金。

晚上他就睡在车后座上，跟别人达成握手协议。

他做过律师，却在法庭上殴打自己的委托人。

他是真实的肯德基上校，并由两位州长授予他这个荣誉头衔。

大家好，欢迎收听荔枝FM42920布衣之声。当今世界，没有肯德基的地方已经不多见了，肯德基虽然被许多人视为垃圾食品，但却每时每刻在吸引着众多的儿童和青年人趋之若鹜。虽然如此，很少有人能确切地告诉你，那个肯德基广告牌上的大胡子老爷爷的真实身份和创业背景，很少有人知道他曾经濒临破产，直到65岁才开始走向发达，不知道他当过律师殴打过自己的委托人，今天，咱们就来熟悉一下风靡全球的肯德基的创业小故事。

KFC's Colonel Sanders

When I read last week that a majority of Americans ages 18 to 25 didn't know who Colonel Sanders was,I was shocked.

According to USA Today,61% of respondents didn't know who the guy with the beard in the KFC logo was.

For anyone who grew up in America in the second half of the 20th century, the Colonel was a true icon.

You didn't need to be able to read to know who he was;you didn't even need to watch TV.

Anyone who drove a mile in any direction would see his beaming,grandfatherly visage and white suit and know that Kentucky Fried Chicken could be found there.

Maybe not everybody knew that he was the chain's founder or remembered his TV commercials from the '60s and '70s,when he talked about how each piece was dipped in an "egg warsh" before frying.

But, at least, they knew he was real.

Half of the young adults in the survey, which was ordered up by the chain,assumed that he was the creation of KFC,rather than the other way around.

In fact, the Colonel wasn't just a fast-food baron who represented his company on TV.

Sanders was the living embodiment of what his food supposedly stood for.

His white suit wasn't the invention of a marketing committee;he wore it every day and was never seen in public for the last 20 years of his life in anything else.

He was a failure who got fired from a dozen jobs before starting his restaurant,and then failed at that when he went out of business and found himself broke at the age of 65.

He drove around in a Cadillac with his facepainted on the side before anybody knew who he was,pleading with the owners of run-down diners to use his recipe and give him a nickel commission on each chicken.

He slept in the back of the car and made handshake deals.

He was a lawyer who once assaulted his own client in court.

He was indeed a Kentucky Colonel,an honorary title given to him by not one but two governors.

肯德基爷爷的真实故事

上周报上的一条消息让我感动非常震惊:大多数18到25岁的年轻人不知道桑德斯上校是谁。

据《今日美国》报道，61%的受访者不知道肯德基商标上那个留着胡须的老人是谁。

对任何一个在20世纪后半叶长大的美国人来说，桑德斯上校是一位真正的偶像。

你不必识字，甚至不必去看电视，就可以知道他是谁。

往任何方向开车行驶一英里你就能看见他笑吟吟的如祖父般慈祥的脸，还有他的白色西装。

然后你就知道肯德基就在附近。也许并不是所有人都记得上世纪六七十年代的那个电视广告，在广告中他讲解了每块鸡肉在油炸前都在蛋浆中浸泡。

但至少大家都知道确实有这么一个人。

可是，在这次由肯德基组织的调查中，有一半的年轻人却认为他是肯德基创造出来的虚拟标志而不是确有其人。

事实上，桑德斯上校并不仅仅是一个在电视上代表肯德基的快餐业巨头，

他还是肯德基食物的活化身。

他的白色西装可不是市场营销部门的发明创造;他每天都穿着它，在他人生的最后20年里，他一直坚持在公开场合穿着它。

在自己开餐厅之前，他曾多次遭到解雇。随后在他65岁那年，他的餐厅歇业并宣布破产。

他开着车身印有他头像的凯迪拉克车到处兜售，那时人们还不知道他是谁。他恳请速食店的老板们用他的配方，每烹饪一只鸡给他五分钱的佣金。

晚上他就睡在车后座上，跟别人达成握手协议。

他做过律师，却在法庭上殴打自己的委托人。

他是真实的肯德基上校，并由两位州长授予他这个荣誉头衔。

Releasing the Past

The successful person takes this approach: Learn from past mistakes and make adjustments in future behavior. The strategy of berating yourself for past conduct solves nothing and only serves to lower your self-esteem. You create a vicious cycle where negative experiences and negative feelings are reinforced, which leads to more negative outcomes and more negative feelings.

If you insist on dwelling in the past, I suggest that you focus on your past successes. Visualizing and thinking about past successes is an excellent way to build confidence and self-esteem. What you think about is what you become. Therefore, when you concentrate on your successes, you help to create future successes.

When you find yourself starting to dwell on past negative experiences, immediately halt and remind yourself: "There is nothing I can do now which will change what happened. I learned a valuable lesson and will act in a more constructive manner next time."

Regardless of what you have done--or failed to do--the only sane approach is to accept it and move forward.

往事如烟

大凡成功的人都会采取这种作法：从过去的错误中吸取经验教训，并为将来的行为作适当的调整。为过去的行为而责备自己的这种方式并不能解决任何问题，只能挫败你的自尊心。你因此而制造了一个恶性循环，消积的经历和感受并再次被强化，同时导致了更多的恶性结果和消积的情感。

如果你坚持沉湎于过去，我建议你多想想你过去的成功。回忆过去的成功是重建信心和自尊的很好方式。你所想象的也就是你会最终成为的。因此，当你集中精力思考成功时，你也正在创造将来的成功。

当你发现自己开始沉湎于过去的消积经历时，立即停止，并提醒自己：“我现在这么做并不能改变已经发生了的过去。我从过去中收获了宝贵的经验，并将会以更积极地态度去面对人生。”

不管你曾做过什么，有过何失败，唯一理智的方式是接受你的过去，并积极前进。

Releasing the Past

The successful person takes this approach: Learn from past mistakes and make adjustments in future behavior. The strategy of berating yourself for past conduct solves nothing and only serves to lower your self-esteem. You create a vicious cycle where negative experiences and negative feelings are reinforced, which leads to more negative outcomes and more negative feelings.

If you insist on dwelling in the past, I suggest that you focus on your past successes. Visualizing and thinking about past successes is an excellent way to build confidence and self-esteem. What you think about is what you become. Therefore, when you concentrate on your successes, you help to create future successes.

When you find yourself starting to dwell on past negative experiences, immediately halt and remind yourself: "There is nothing I can do now which will change what happened. I learned a valuable lesson and will act in a more constructive manner next time."

Regardless of what you have done--or failed to do--the only sane approach is to accept it and move forward.

往事如烟

大凡成功的人都会采取这种作法：从过去的错误中吸取经验教训，并为将来的行为作适当的调整。为过去的行为而责备自己的这种方式并不能解决任何问题，只能挫败你的自尊心。你因此而制造了一个恶性循环，消积的经历和感受并再次被强化，同时导致了更多的恶性结果和消积的情感。

如果你坚持沉湎于过去，我建议你多想想你过去的成功。回忆过去的成功是重建信心和自尊的很好方式。你所想象的也就是你会最终成为的。因此，当你集中精力思考成功时，你也正在创造将来的成功。

当你发现自己开始沉湎于过去的消积经历时，立即停止，并提醒自己：“我现在这么做并不能改变已经发生了的过去。我从过去中收获了宝贵的经验，并将会以更积极地态度去面对人生。”

不管你曾做过什么，有过何失败，唯一理智的方式是接受你的过去，并积极前进。

大家好，欢迎收听荔枝FM42920布衣之声。我们每个人在不同的人生阶段都会有不同的感触和感概。二十岁的小伙子面对粉嫩的孩童，会说自己老了，三十岁，四十岁，五十岁的人们，大家在夜深人静抑或苦闷彷徨的时候，是否都会从内心深处突然迸发出老了的无语的呐喊呢？今天，就给大家分享两首关于老了的中文和英文短诗，中文短诗老了由中国诗人江一郎所做，布衣本人朗读，英文短诗则是一首爱尔兰著名诗人叶芝的名作：当你老了，由广东海洋大学外籍教师罗伯.普莱特朗诵。

老了——江一郎

老了，牙齿没了

没牙的糟老头和没牙的老婆婆

让我们走吧，到乡下去

在有山有水的乡下，买块好地

种什么都行

什么都种不动了，让它荒着

草愿长多高就多高

花愿开多野就多野

这是我们的地

老了，走不动了

去溪边坐坐吧

流水叮咚，多少美好的人与事

就这样被它带走

要是你有点伤感

我陪着一起伤感

要是你怀念初恋

我们相拥着怀念初恋

用没牙的嘴再一次亲吻

老了，都老了

天上的风吹去流云

像吹去从前的欲望

暮色徐徐降临，亲爱的老婆子

我要挨着你睡了

如果死了，你不要摇着我的尸体

哭到太阳升起

将我埋了吧，埋在

自己的地里，并恳请

土地也将你收去

我们一生热爱土地

死了，就让我们的白骨

赤裸裸地搂着

一万年，还爱着

When You Are Old

(BY William Butler Yeats)

When you are old and grey and full of sleep

And nodding by the fire,take down this book

And slowly read,and dream of the soft look

Your eyes had once, and of their shadows deep

How many loved your moments of glad grace,

And loved your beauty with love false or true,

But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you,

And loved the sorrows of your changing face;

And bending down beside the glowing bars,

Murmur,a little sadly,how love fled

And paced upon the mountains overhead

And hid his face amid a crowd of stars.