How Did We Get Here? is Mpoomy Ledwaba's best-selling coming-of-age story. Looking back on her upbringing, major milestones and the challenges she’s faced, Mpoomy takes us on her journey of self-discovery. Order your copy here👉: https://a.co/d/08QQzYtq

Unlimited WalkFest Durban is on the way! Join us on 2nd May at Durban’s Ocean’s Mall, grab your ticket here: https://www.howler.co.za/unlimitedwalkfest2026

…

This week, Mpoomy sits down with Tinyiko Mokale for a heartfelt conversation about aligning career, life, and personal values for sustainable success.

From navigating grief after losing her mother, to building a meaningful career in communications, to showing up fully as a wife, mom, leader, and woman of faith, Tinyiko shares how openness and self-worth have shaped her journey.

This episode is an invitation to design a life that reflects who you truly are, without sacrificing wellness, joy, or faith. If you’ve ever felt lost in your career, stretched across too many roles, or unsure how to pursue ambition without burnout, this conversation is for you.

Timestamps

5:02 - Ice Breakers

7:30 - Losing Her MomTinyiko opens up about grief, loss, and how that season changed her perspective on life and faith.

10:35 - Childhood and Family RootsA look into Tinyiko’s upbringing and the foundation that shaped her identity.

13:07 - Family Dynamics and ValuesHow she was raised, the dynamics at home, and the values that still anchor her today.

15:00 - When Grief Draws You Closer to GodGrief can distance many from faith, for Tinyiko, it deepened her relationship with God.

16:26 - How the Family Grieved Differently

19:02 - Middle Child ChroniclesThe unseen middle child experience, feeling overlooked, learning independence, and finding your voice.

22:11 - Choosing Communications in a Family of Technical MindsWhile siblings pursued medicine and numbers-driven careers, Tinyiko followed storytelling.

25:52 - Securing an Internship Before GraduationThe power of initiative. She didn’t wait, she pursued opportunity.

27:00 - Losing the Internship and Returning HomeA humbling season. What going back home taught her about identity and resilience.

29:13 - Meeting Her Husband

36:45 - Dating for 3 Years Before MarriageIntentional courtship and building a solid foundation.

39:40 - The Birth of Working Women WednesdayWhy she created a platform for career reflections and encouragement.

44:56 - Balancing Corporate Growth and Social Media PresenceNavigating vulnerability at work while growing online.

47:55 - Purpose and CareerIs your job your purpose? A powerful distinction.

54:12 - What Is Purpose, Really?

54:50 - Showing Up in Multiple RolesMom. Wife. Leader. Sister. Friend. 

59:37 - Identity Is Her Greatest WeaponKnowing who you are changes how you move.

1:01:40 - Identity Cannot Be Found Outside God

1:02:05 - For Women Feeling Lost in Their CareersOne practical step you can take today to realign your work with your values.

1:04:10 - Ambition, Rest and Fun Can CoexistHow to pursue excellence without neglecting joy and wellness.

1:06:50 - Habits That Built Clarity and Confidence

1:09:06 - Habits of Growth

1:10:45 - Reflection on Year of YesLessons from Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes and how bold decisions reshape identity.

1:16:17 - Reflection from Mpoomy’s Book

1:17:59 - Honouring Her Mother’s LegacyHow Tinyiko keeps her mom’s memory alive within her family and daily life.

Follow Mpoomy:

Instagram: https://www.tiktok.com/@mpoomyledwaba?lang=en

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mpoomyledwaba?lang=en

Follow Wisdom & Wellness:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wisdomwellness_/

Facebook: Wisdom & Wellness

Website: www.wisdomwellness.co.za

Sign up for Mpoomy’s newsletter: https://sales.wisdomwellness.co.za/sunday-nuggets-opt-in

Listen to Wisdom & Wellness Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop Tuesday!

Spotify

Apple Podcasts

Like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this conversation.