Season 1 of Mindful Mondays comes has come to a close. In this bonus episode, Shudu reflects on the journey of the season, the conversations with incredible guests, and the amazing community of viewers and listeners who shared their stories, reflections, and insights.

It’s a moment to pause, celebrate what we’ve learned, and express gratitude for the connection and growth we’ve experienced together.

Thank you, deeply, for journeying with me.

This episode is different — it's personal, reflective, and quietly urgent.

Over the past few months, I found myself turning to ChatGPT for emotional support during a period where opening up to real people felt frightening.

The lack of community safety, fear of judgment, fear of burdening others, and fear of vulnerability pushed me toward a machine that could “hold” my feelings without consequences.

But then I came across a podcast episode that shook me: the story of someone who formed an unhealthy emotional bond with an AI tool and ultimately bypassed safeguards with tragic consequences.

So in this episode, in what I hope to be the first in a series of conversations, I’m asking:

• What has happened to our sense of community?

• Why does AI feel emotionally safer than humans?

• Where do we draw boundaries?

• What does responsible use look like?

• And how do we rebuild real human connections in a world perhaps obsessed with digital companionship?

This episode begins a larger conversation we’ll explore further in season two, and I want you to shape it with me.

Share your story. Share your concerns. Share your hope for how we can protect our humanity.

In this powerful episode of Mindful Mondays with Shudu, I sit down with philanthropist, author, and founder of Pivotal Ventures, Melinda French Gates . We explore the profound connections between women’s health, mental health, and empowerment — and why healing is one of the most radical forms of power.

Melinda opens up about transitions, resilience, and what she’s learned in this new chapter of her life — including why she committed $1 billion to advancing women’s power and equality.

Together, we reflect on what it means to “be a greenhouse” — nurturing growth, hope, and healing even in difficult seasons, and how we can each become allies in this collective journey toward equity and wellbeing.

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In this final instalment of the Boundaries series, I sit down with Zamo Mbele — clinical psychologist, Chief Clinical Officer at October Health, and Vice Chair of SADAG — to explore why boundaries are more essential than ever in today’s attention economy.

We unpack what healthy boundaries really mean, why they evolve over time, and how to overcome the guilt and shame that often accompany asserting them.

Zamo shares profound insights on self-consent, the consequences of breached boundaries, and the courage to be “not impressive” — to simply be enough.

This conversation will help you check in with yourself:

- Where do your boundaries come from?

- Do they still serve you?

- And how can you update them to protect your peace?

In this episode of Mindful Mondays with Shudu, I sit down with rugby legend, entrepreneur, and UNICEF ambassador, Tendai “The Beast” Mtawarira.

From leaving Zimbabwe at 18 to chase a dream in South Africa, to building a Foundation that empowers the next generation of African leaders, this episode explores how mentorship, mindset, and mindfulness shape a life of impact.

We talk about:
*The mental fitness that guided his journey
*Fatherhood and raising mindful children
*The value of mentorship in achieving success
* Building legacy and investing in Africa’s youth

In this special solo episode, I answer 13 questions from you, the Mindful Mondays community.

From prayers to purpose, discipline to doubt, and why I’ll always be a student of life, this episode feels like a tea date with all of you. I share honest reflections on mental health, faith, ambition, and what it means to grow publicly while staying grounded privately.

Books mentioned: The Psychology of Money (Morgan Housel), Ego is the Enemy (Ryan Holiday), Start With Why (Simon Sinek), and Quiet (Susan Cain).

Clinical Psychologist and Healer Anele Siswana joins me in this episode to explore what it means to heal through both Western psychology and African spirituality — and why those two worlds often fail to meet.

Together, we unpack how colonisation redefined what “clean” and “valid” healing looks like, and what it takes to decolonise the ways in which we understand mental health.

Key themes:

Reclaiming African spiritual and psychological traditions

The ongoing impact of colonisation on African identity and practice

The need for African psychology to respond to African problems

The courage to show up as healer and psychologist.

Books referenced: “Only Love is Real” and “Many Lives, Many Masters” by Dr Brian Weiss"

Note: At one point in the episode, Shudu mistakenly says “transgression therapy” — she actually meant “regression therapy,” a technique popularized by Dr. Brian Weiss.

There are seasons when stillness feels like surrender — like standing still when everything around you demands movement. But lately, I’ve realised that being still is not the same as giving up. It’s remembering — remembering that the evidence of my life shows, without fail, that I am blessed. That things have always found a way to work out for my good.

In this week’s reflection, I sit with what it means to trust that evidence. To stop striving and start listening. To breathe, to surrender, and to honour the quiet ways my life keeps reminding me that I am exactly where I need to be.

Boundaries shape every part of our lives, from how we relate to our families and partners, to how we. navigate the workplace.

In this episode, I speak to Dr Anusha Lachman, Head of the Clinical Unit of Child Psychiatry at Tygerberg Hospital, about how our earliest attachments influence our ability to set boundaries later in life.

We discuss why context matters — from race and gender to South Africa’s history of trauma — and why boundaries aren’t one-size-fits-all.

This is the second part of our three-part series on boundaries.

Why do we struggle so much with boundaries? Why does saying “no” feel selfish — even when it’s exactly what we need?

In part 1 of this 3-part series, I share my personal journey of unlearning poor boundaries, and discovering that they aren’t selfish, but actually acts of love.

From cultural and family expectations to the fear of rejection, we’ll unpack the myths around boundaries and why they’re essential to mental fitness.

Listen now to explore:

– Why boundaries feel so uncomfortable

– 5 signs you may need stronger boundaries

– Myths about boundaries we need to unlearn

– How saying “no” is an act of self-care and clarity.