In this episode of The Summer of Me, Kendra discusses the common desire for someone to just make those hard life decisions for us. She delves into the concept of the cliff analogy in relationships: visualizing a Grand Canyon-style drop when things go awry with the goal of staying in the meadow, even when small steps can push us closer to the edge. Kendra shares her personal experiences and emphasizes the need to navigate through decisions on our own as no one can make choices for us. If you're struggling, this episode will help face the challenge of decision-making and the realization that we are in control of our own decisions.    TIMESTAMPS: [00:00:23] Can Somebody Please Just Tell Me What To Do? [00:02:29] Relationship cliff concept. [00:05:16] Prioritizing self-care in relationships. [00:07:22] Mother-daughter relationship dynamics. [00:11:54] Communication in marriage challenges. [00:15:16] Meeting needs in relationships. [00:19:19] Choosing yourself in tough decisions. [00:21:55] Trusting your intuition in relationships. [00:27:27] Choosing Yourself Over Others.   LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe  

CAN SOMEONE JUST TELL ME WHAT TO DO

Meet Kendra. She's a 35-year-old divorced mom of five, and her life is every bit as chaotic as you’d expect. Growing up with a therapist for a mom, tying the knot at 21, and giving life to 5 kids on 10 years, Kendra's life took a tumultuous turn through a journey of soul-searching, separation, divorce, and dating. Despite feeling underqualified, she's overexperienced and here to share her stories. Listen weekly to learn from them, laugh at them, or simply feel a little less alone. You’re listening to “Summer of Me.”

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YOU DON’T HAVE TO SELL YOUR NUDES. No shade, but there are other ways to make money, I swear! In this week's Episode of “Summer of Me,” Kendra talks about her financial journey through childhood, adulthood, and post divorce. From always having a job, making side incomes, participating in an MLM, and learning how to live BELOW her means, Kendra shares her insights on pushing to do what you love and how to make money from it!  This episode is by no means professional financial advice. Still, Kendra shares her personal experience including her 6 steps to becoming financially independent! When you feel like you’re struggling, there are always things you can do to make more than ends meet!  TIMESTAMPS: [00:40] Let’s talk money [02:40] Champagne Taste, on a Beer Budget [06:05] My First Business(es) [08:35] Working in an MLM [10:15] There’s always a way to make money [12:40] Understanding finances and budgets [14:00] BUDGET BUDGET BUDGET [15:00] Applying for jobs post divorce [19:15] Top 6 tips for how to be a working mom [22:20] Income Producing Activities [26:00] How to find ways for YOU to make money LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

Making Money (without selling n*des)

Welcome to another episode of “Summer of Me,” feat. Kendra's friend, Rae! Rae dives into her journey, being recruited as a D1 soccer player and getting pregnant during her freshman year. We dive into her previous toxic relationship, raising a baby while battling the trials of college, finding her current husband, and having four more amazing children! Kendra and Rae talk about how the events of your life, no matter how trying, shape you to who you are and teach you valuable life lessons… sometimes the hard way. Tune into this incredible episode for tidbits on life, the best parenting advice we’ve ever received, and how no matter your story, you’re capable of so much more than you think, YOU’VE GOT THIS MAMA! TIMESTAMPS: [00:00] - Introduction - Meet Rae [03:30] - Pregnancy and Health Class [06:15] - Healing from a Toxic Relationship [10:50] - Praying until you have peace [13:00] - There’s Opportunity to Grow Yourself  [16:30] - You WILL figure it out [19:00] - What Raes Kids Taught Her [22:15] - Best Piece of Parenting Advice [26:05] - We’re all Human, even our kids [27:30] - Safe Place to Fail [31:15] - It’s not all or nothing, open your mind LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Follow Rae on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raeannkelly/  Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe  Produced by SocialPodcast.co

Tough Times and Safe Places to Fail with Rae Ann Kelly

In the latest episode of "The Summer of Me," Kendra let you into the chaotic world of her time bird nesting. Exploring the tumultuous journey of separation and co-parenting, sharing the rollercoaster of emotions and challenges she faced during her unconventional family arrangement. From drowning in the throes of May to navigating the complexities of living out of a suitcase for a year, Kendra candidly reveals the highs and lows of this so-called “bird nesting.” With a touch of her raw honesty and a sprinkle of humor, step into the whirlwind of a story and embrace the chaos. TIMESTAMPS: [00:00:00] - What is Bird Nesting? [00:05:30] - Decision to Separate and Need for Space [00:10:00] - Explaining Bird Nesting to Kids [00:15:00] - Pros and Cons of Bird Nesting [00:20:00] - Setting Boundaries and Financial Considerations [00:23:00] - What Life Looks Like Without Each Other LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe

Inside the Nest: A Deep Dive into Bird Nesting

Welcome to the first session of “Group Therapy” with a special guest, Nitro Nana, Kendra’s mom, who is a therapist with expertise in grief and loss. They discuss the concept of grief as the expression of love after a loss, and the stages of grief, and finding meaning. Nana emphasizes the importance of allowing oneself to feel and process grief without rushing the process. They also dive into how to discuss grief with children, emphasizing the need for honesty and age-appropriate explanations. Making meaning out of grief is a crucial step, whether it's through honoring the memory of a loved one or finding positives in a difficult situation like divorce. Nana provides valuable insights and her best tips on coping with grief. Tune in for an episode full of a compassionate informative discussion on navigating grief and loss in various aspects of life. If you’re in need of grief resources go to grief.com or Psychology Today to find a grief therapist. TIMESTAMPS: [00:00:00] - What is Bird Nesting? [00:05:30] - Decision to Separate and Need for Space [00:10:00] - Explaining Bird Nesting to Kids [00:15:00] - Pros and Cons of Bird Nesting [00:20:00] - Setting Boundaries and Financial Considerations [00:23:00] - What Life Looks Like Without Each Other   LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe

Group Therapy: Exploring Grief and Loss with Nana

It’s a struggle many of us know too well: Mom Guilt. From feeling like she's blowing up her kids' lives to navigating the complexities of co-parenting, Kendra opens up about the challenges of feeling like she's not doing enough. The pressure to be a “perfect parent” is real and can contribute to feelings of inadequacy, but how can that be managed? Kendra shares her tips for self-compassion, self-care, and setting boundaries, and how that can lead to setting a good example and feeling a little more positive. Doing these things will help you show up as the best version of yourself. Do it for yourself, AND for your kids.    TIMESTAMPS: [00:00:00] Intro. [00:01:19] Mom guilt is so real. [00:03:49] Anxiety as a mom. [00:08:30] The importance of self-care. [00:09:32] Setting equal parenting expectations. [00:13:24] Self-compassion and forgiveness. [00:16:04] Setting expectations with kids. [00:20:37] Guilt in taking time for self-care. [00:22:02] Parenting Balance and remembering to prioritize yourself.   LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe

CAN SOMEONE JUST TELL ME WHAT TO DO

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