Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships

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  • Ep.15: Energy Protection Before, During, and After Sex

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠


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    In this solo episode, I share why it’s essential to protect your energy before, during, and after sex, and share tactical and energetic practices you can use to do so. You’ll learn why spiritual people are more prone to psychic attack, how to prevent psychic rape on Grindr, the different types of toxic energy attachments you can encounter, and a powerful energy cleansing practice to use after sex.

    Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!


    About Me


    I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

    Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/


    Connect With Me


    Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

    Website: https://georgelizos.com/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

    Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/


    My Books


    Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

    Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

    Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

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    32 min
  • Ep.14: Overcoming Loneliness and Social Isolation with Jonathan Sekerak

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠


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    In this episode, I chat with Jonathan Sekerak about overcoming loneliness and social isolation, common feelings for queer men. We discuss the root causes of loneliness in trauma, shame, and rejection, and share nature-based practices for healing and improving our relationship with others and with ourselves. Specifically, Jonathan shares practical breathwork exercises, an earthing technique, and working with cacao to open your heart and facilitate connection.

    Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!


    About Jonathan


    Jonathan Sekerak is a Somatic Breathwork Facilitator, Psychospiritual Hypnotherapist, and Soul Guide, working 1-on-1 with Queer men to uncover the truth they were born with, by guiding them into wilderness-based Self-development work, mind-body alignment, plant and elemental medicine ceremony, dreamwork, and shadow work. He is based in Denver, Colorado, but has co-created and facilitated yoga and transformational retreats in Costa Rica, Nicaragua, Perú, and Hawaii. He is the founder of Soul Path Brotherhood, a Self-development group for male-bodied gay, bi, and queer souls, and a psychospiritual connection writer at thesoulwanderer.com


    Jonathan's Website: https://thesoulwanderer.com/ 

    Jonathan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_soulpuma_/


    Resources Mentioned


    Soulcraft book: https://www.amazon.com/Soulcraft-Crossing-Mysteries-Nature-Psyche/dp/1577314220/

    Wild Mind book: https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Mind-Field-Guide-Psyche/dp/1608681785/

    My first cacao ceremony: https://georgelizos.com/blog/cacao-ceremony-benefits-cacao-drink-benefits

    Get 50% off of Jonathan’s Soul Path Brotherhood using code SELFLOVE at https://thesoulwanderer.com/soul-path-brotherhood


    Connect With Me


    Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

    Website: https://georgelizos.com/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

    Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/


    My Books


    Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

    Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

    Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

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    51 min
  • Ep.13: Non-Binary Queer Sex and Relationships with Ari Wisner

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    In this episode, I chat with my friend Ari Wisner about their experience in sex and relationships as a non-binary person. Specifically, we chat about the interactions between sex, gender, and sexual orientation, their biggest challenges when dating, how masculine and feminine energy manifest in non-binary sex and relationships, and the importance of evolving language to include gender-neutral terms.


    About Me


    I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

    Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/


    About Ari


    Ari is a queer artist based in London. Ari is the author and illustrator of the Transient Light Tarot and Trinity Tarot. More recently they illustrated the "Raise Your Vibrations" oracle deck by Kyle Gray. Through art and card decks, Ari creates tangible tools to aid reflection, prompt intuition, and promote authentic, peaceful living.

    Ari's Website: https://www.ariwisner.com/

    Ari’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/ari_wisner/


    Resources Mentioned


    A Guide to Gender Identity Terms: https://www.npr.org/2021/06/02/996319297/gender-identity-pronouns-expression-guide-lgbtq

    Feeld Dating app: https://feeld.co/

    Transient Light Tarot Review: https://georgelizos.com/blog/transient-light-tarot-deck-review


    Connect With Me


    Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

    Website: https://georgelizos.com/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

    Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/


    My Books


    Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

    Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

    Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

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    1 hr 3 min
  • Ep.12: Spiritual Guide to Gay Saunas and Bathhouses with Michael Dilorio

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

    Gay saunas and bathhouses are fun places to get off and experiment sexually, but could they be spaces for healing and spiritual development? In this episode with gay life and wellness coach Michael Dilorio, we discuss ways of engaging with gay saunas to heal sexual trauma, explore our sexuality, and improve our relationships with our bodies, while having great sex! You’ll learn practical tips for setting an intention, navigating the sauna, and even protecting your energy before, during and after sexual encounters.


    About Me


    I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

    Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host  to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/


    About Michael


    Michael DiIorio is a gay men's life coach at Wellismo Coaching, co-host of the Gay Men Going Deeper podcast, and community leader in the Gay Men's Brotherhood. He specializes in dating, sexuality and building genuine self-confidence. His mission is to elevate the conversations gay men are having about sex, dating, and relationships.


    Michael's Website: https://www.wellismo.com/

    Michael’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wellismo_coach/

    Michael's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WellismoCoach/

    Bathhouse Basics: https://www.wellismo.com/bathhouse-basics/


    Connect With Me


    Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

    Website: https://georgelizos.com/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

    Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/


    My Books


    Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

    Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

    Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

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    39 min
  • Ep.11: The Future of Gay Porn with Davey Wavey

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠


    Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/


    Can porn be healing and educational? In this video with gay YouTube icon and founder of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey, we chat about the future of gay porn. Specifically, Davey and I discuss how we can use porn in a conscious way to deepen our relationships with ourselves and our partners, ways of exploring the shadow side of our sexuality with porn, and how Himeros.tv is different from other porn websites. Davey also shares his vision for, and prediction about, the future of gay porn. 

    Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! 


    About Me 


    I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/ 


    About Davey

     

    Davey Wavey is a popular YouTube personality who covers topics around gay sex and relationships through his iconic shirtless videos. His YouTube channel has scored more than 300 million views and have over 1.5 million subscribers. In 2017, Davey created Himeros.tv, a porn platform that "enhances gay and bisexual men's experience of sex and sexuality through connection, exploration, and pleasure" 

    Himeros TV: https://www.himeros.tv/ 

    Davey’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialdaveywavey/ 

    Davey’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@daveywavey 


    Connect With Me 


    Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/ 

    Website: https://georgelizos.com/ 

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos 

    Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 


    My Books 


    Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj 

    Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf 

    Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    52 min
  • Ep.10: Healing Gay Shame and Attachment Trauma with Matt Landsiedel

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠

    If you think you don’t experience shame about being gay, think again. In my experience, shame is so deeply rooted into the lives of gay men that we’re numbed out to it. In this episode, you’ll learn how to recognize and heal shame, so you can live a happier life and improve your relationships. You’ll also learn what attachment trauma is and how that relates to shame, and powerful practices of healing trauma and nurturing a secure attachment style. 

    Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! 


    About Me 


    I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/ 


    About Matt 


    Matt Landsiedel is an Intuitive Life and Spiritual Coach from Calgary, Canada. Matt specializes in teaching people how to heal shame and trauma and embody their authentic self so they can enjoy meaningful connections in their lives. His areas of expertise are working with highly sensitive people (HSP), empaths and gay men to develop a stronger sense of self-worth. Matt earned his undergraduate degree in Addiction Counselling from the University of Lethbridge and has spent the last 15 years working in the fields of Mental Health & Addiction and Transformative Life and Spiritual Coaching where he guides people on their psychological and spiritual journey through life. 


    Matt’s website: https://www.mattlandsiedel.com/ 

    Matt’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inspiredtobeauthentic/ 

    Matt’s book: https://www.amazon.com/Matt-Landsiedel/dp/B084WL9PSK/ 


    Connect With Me 


    Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/ 

    Website: https://georgelizos.com/ 

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos 

    Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ 


    My Books 


    Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj 

    Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf 

    Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    50 min
  • Ep.9: Using Crystal Dildos to Heal Sexual Trauma with Hannah Wallace

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠


    Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/


    Have you ever used a crystal dildo? These are dildos made out of specific crystals, usually jade, rose quartz, and obsidian, used to blend crystal energy healing with sexual pleasure. Personally, I was introduced to crystal dildos while going through my journey of healing from sexual trauma. They helped me unearth repressed traumatic emotions, strengthen my relationship with, and acceptance of, my body, and dearmour before and during sex. In this episode, my friend Hannah Wallace and I discuss best practices for using crystal dildos for pleasure and for healing sexual trauma.

    Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!


    About Me


    I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

    Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/


    About Hannah


    Hannah Wallace is the host of the podcast finding grace, a disability model and advocate, a writer, blogger, speaker and priestess. She guides people to find grace in their lives, and to help them integrate their darkness and light and embody themselves fully.


    Hannah’s website: https://www.hannah-wallace.com/

    Hannah’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehannahwallace/

    Yoni Pleasure Palace: https://yonipleasurepalace.com/collections/anal-play 


    Connect With Me 


    Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

    Website: https://georgelizos.com/

    Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/


    My Books


    Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

    Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

    Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    28 min
  • Ep.8: Dealing With Unrequited Love: My Best Friend and I Share Our Story

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠


    Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/


    Have you experienced unrequited love? This is when you’re in love with someone who’s not in love with you. In my experience, it can be one of the most traumatic experiences of rejection, especially when the other person is a close friend. In this episode, my best friend Sargis and I talk about our journey to navigating this. The story is simple. We met on Grindr. I fell in love with him and he didn’t. Our bond was so strong that we didn’t want to let this relationship go. So, we decided to work through it. In this episode, we have a vulnerable conversation about our story, and share the process we followed to deal with it.

    Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and bodyshame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!


    About Me


    I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

    Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/


    Connect With Me


    Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

    Website: https://georgelizos.com/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

    Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/


    My Books


    Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

    Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

    Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    45 min
  • Ep.7: Healing Toxic Relationships and Attracting Your Soulmate with Dr. Cameron Martin

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠


    Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/


    Why are gay relationships so toxic? Most importantly, how do we heal that toxicity and manifest a healthy, fulfilling relationship with a soulmate? In this week’s episode, we talk about the path of healing and manifesting our soulmate. We’ll discuss the reasons many gay relationships are toxic, what a healthy relationship looks like, how to prepare our energy to attract our soulmate/s, what the Divine Union is and how to find it in a relationship, and what the balance between the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine looks like within gay relationships.

    Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!


    About Me


    I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

    Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/


    About Cameron


    Dr. Cameron Martin is a Self-Realization Teacher, Coach & Astrologer. He works with spiritually-awakening humans who are hungry to know their life’s purpose. His purpose is to help others, regardless of where they are on their personal spiritual journey, to finally discover their soul’s mission and live fully aligned with their Higher Self so they can experience a life of clarity, passion, and fulfillment.


    Cameron’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pathandpurpose/

    Cameron’s website: http://www.yourpathandpurpose.com/


    Connect With Me


    Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/

    Website: https://georgelizos.com/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos

    Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/


    My Books


    Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

    Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

    Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    52 min
  • Ep. 6: Masc4Masc, Grindr Tribes and Homonormativity with Colin Bedell (@QueerCosmos)

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠


    Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/


    In this episode, queer astrologer Colin Bedell and I problematize outdated gay stereotypes, such as masc4masc and Grindr Tribes through a critical lens, tieing this to the subject of homonormativity. We talk about the origins of homonormativity in heterosexual patriarchal systems, how queer men can work towards dismantling patriarchy, and the importance of healing our relationships with straight men. We also discuss ways of overcoming judgment within the LGBTQIA+ community, whether Grindr tribes help or limit our sexual experiences, and Colin also shares astrological updates related to these topics.

    Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!

    About Me

    I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.

    Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/

    About Colin

    Colin Bedell is a queer Gemini Twin from Long Island, New York. He's a passionate student of secular personal-growth systems, and the universal spiritual themes explored in A Course in Miracles. Well & Good Magazine listed Colin as one of the most influential people in the wellness industry and as a 2020 Innovator. Complementing his work with QueerCosmos, Colin's the weekly horoscope writer for Cosmopolitan.com. He’s the #1 bestselling author of A Little Bit of Astrology, Queer Cosmos: The Astrology of Queer Identities & Relationships, and Gemini. Most recently, he was on 'Written in the Stars,' an astrology-based dating show premiering on Discovery Plus in November 2022.

    Colin's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queercosmos/

    Colin's website: https://www.queercosmos.com/

    Queer Cosmos book: https://www.amazon.com/Queer-Cosmos-Astrology-Identities-Relationships/dp/1627782931/

    A Little Bit of Astrology book: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1454932236/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i1

    Gemini book: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1454938935/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i2 

    Resources Mentioned

    Homonormativity definition: https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/01/homonormativity-101/

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