Character Analysis

We discuss our thoughts on having an open phone policy with your partner and why you shouldn’t advertise that policy in a dating profile. Telling a stranger you have an open phone policy is one of the fastest ways to attract someone who is controlling and insecure. Agree or disagree?

Here’s what else is in store for today’s episode:

Why you should never discuss anything related to money or financial stability in your dating profile.

The pros and cons of selecting the spicy pepper icon for sex positivity in your Bumble profile and what it means when men check it off.

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Let’s discuss the “Where’d She Go?” approach to dating all women should start implementing ASAP.

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Let’s talk about setting expectations and how to write messages that won't get you unmatched.

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The majority of the episode is based on an article and Tiktok about women’s frustration with situationships and the internal conflict we experience when we want to de-center men but also crave a romantic relationship.

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It’s fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you’re ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It’s possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it.

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The advice to choose better men is reductive and insulting. It goes much deeper than that.

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A woman wants to know if she should give a man who abruptly dumped her a second chance. NOPE! No, she should not. Thank you for coming to our Ted Talk.

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Tik Tok’s Aba n Preach Editor (abanpreacheditor) show women the appropriate response when someone who ghosted them returns from the dead.

We discuss one sure-fire way to end up dating a low-effort man.

The economics of thinness and how they affect hiring.

How does a man explain his lack of sexual experience to the woman he just started dating?

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It’s fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you’re ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It’s possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it.

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This episode is about ensuring you know having certain expectations does not make you needy or demanding. Because f*ck that guy.

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A man cancels a date at the last minute, claiming he’s sick. His date gets understandably upset. Even though he showed poor manners, she’s attacked because OF COURSE.

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In this episode, we’re critiquing (and praising!) men’s dating profiles and sharing ways men demonstrate their emotional intelligence.

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I’ll warn everyone ahead of time that this is not a dating-related episode. Sarah and I will be recording again this weekend and have a Nugget posted on Monday.

In this episode, we talk about the fatphobic and misogynistic rant Samantha Aquilina (samanthatherese6), Sydney Alexis Norton (bratnorton), and Alyssa McGrath (LunaNoir) went on about me this week (with clips), how online hate towards women is minimalized, and how The Halo Effect often comes into play in these kinds of dynamics.

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