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Dear Men: The call is coming from inside the house. Stop telling women they're shallow golddiggers. You wrote the playbook. We're just playing by your rules.

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A woman writes in and wants to know how to get her new boyfriend to see his Ex trying to sabotage their relationship. Plus, we review men's Bumble dating profiles and unlock new Icks.

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If all your brain knows is toxic behavior, all you'll meet is toxic people. Listen to this episode to hear how to fix that.

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Enjoy a teaser of today’s 60-minute interview with The Burned Haystack Method’s Jennie Young. You don’t want to miss it. We discussed coded language in men’s dating profiles, messaging clues to tell if someone will waste your time, subtle signs of deception, and much more!

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I’m so excited for this episode I can barely contain myself. Ever heard of The Burned Haystack Dating Method? It's where you try to turn off as many men as possible to "burn the haystack" so you can find your needle. The method was developed by Jennie Young, Ph. D. in rhetoric and Prof. @ UW Green Bay.

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As single women, we’re often encouraged to prioritize the time and feelings of women in relationships with men over our own. We don’t discuss the grief involved with the prospect of losing a friend to a relationship. Nor do we acknowledge the very normal jealousy and sense of inadequacy that can crop up when a friend makes their relationship their entire personality.

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We're talking healthy boundaries, stripper dating problems, and the chilling revelation Carrie makes about Big in this week's episode of And Just Like That.

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A woman learned the man she’s dating updated his Bumble profile. What’s her next move?

A woman’s boyfriend told her he wanted her to stop stripping if she wanted to get engaged. She wants to know if asking him to compensate her for the financial loss is realistic if she quits.

We discuss the dos and don’ts of stating boundaries with your dates.

And Just Like That Episode 8 recap. We have whiplash. Seema gets real about what it’s like when you watch from the sidelines as your friends find love. Carrie is delusional. Che is tolerable. Charlotte is shallow. Judgey Miranda is back.

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Let's talk about the idea that being chronically single is bad and results from being “too broken.”

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A woman’s crush on her therapist inspires a conversation about the connection between trauma and limerance.

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We discuss a listener-submitted letter about a dehumanizing experience with a man on a dating app.

How some men disguise their sexual dysfunction by not showing interest in physical intimacy and by “being respectful.”

We review an article stating that the lack of quality potential partners is compelling many women to freeze their eggs.

We recap And Just Like That Ep 7 and our favorite masochists, Carrie and Aidan’s reunion.

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Listen to three examples of men lecturing women about having standards and preferences.

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