Character Analysis

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The letter writer from last week's show follows up with more info about why her new boyfriend's ex sent her a friend request. The story involves romance scammers, brain injuries & LOTS of hurt feelings.

We also discuss:

*A woman wants to know how if she should leave her younger man because he wants kids.

*The problem with TMI on a second date.

*Are political differences THAT important? (Hint: YES.)

*Why you probably keep matching with creeps from out-of-state.

*Signs they're still married.

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In this episode:

*Why do we define success by marriage and kids?

*Ways to improve lingering trust issues

*How does she get her partner to plan more dates?

*Tips for online dating when you're newly single after divorce.

*Why is her new partner's ex trying to befriend her?

*Tips for dating when you're on the asexuality spectrum.

*Signs you shouldn't date someone with kids.

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Listen in as Sarah shares her tested method for determining if your Bumble match is a racist homophobe.

Letters answered:

*How do I know if the person I'm dating is a bigot?

*Why are we still encouraging women to use sex to get a relationship?

*How does she get her toxic ex to leave her alone?

*Why isn't the man she's dating contacting her more frequently?

Is it just us or are more and more women getting stood up on dates? What's going on??

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Topics covered in this week's full episode:

*Are older men that try to date much younger women predators?

*Why do men keep unmatching her?

*Why are so many women getting stood up?

*Will she scare a man off if she tells him she's looking for a relationship?

*What to say when your match asks you what you're looking for.

*Dating App Red Flag: You only communicate on the app

A woman writes in wanting to know how to discuss her involvement with the BDSM community with her matches. We also delve into a story about a woman dating man who shows signs of being psychologically abusive.

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Have you heard of Post-Nut Clarity? Men say it's the moment after someone orgasm's when they realize they aren't really into the person they just had sex with. It's a thing, apparently. Only...it's not. We discuss what that post-climax ennui is really all about and why too many people use it as an excuse to ghost.

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Sarah has had a week so buckle up. We talk about dating on the asexuality spectrum, people that unload their problems on unsuspecting Bumble matches, the importance of enthusiastic consent and awkward first dates with clingy men.

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We're talking about awkward first date kisses, an overly sensitive Ted Talker on Bumble, one reason why people block you on social media and why it's toxic, and how to avoid the dating app time wasters.

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Here's the teaser for this week's episode.

We're talking why some men choose porn over having sex with their partners; why you shouldn't Google your dates if you have trust issues; how to break toxic dating patterns; and how you recover when that guy you met online dies.

Yes. Actually dies.

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