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A woman asks why she's always the side-piece but never the girlfriend; an obnoxious British man can't figure out why he's still single; and we talk which dating sites are full of scammers and which apps work best for singles over 40.

Always a Mistress, Never a Missus

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/j5xdf2/always_a_mistress_never_a_missus/?sort=new

Snobby Brit

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/j4nxmo/so_i_guess_im_here_dating_vent_advice/

The Best Dating Apps For Singles Over 40

https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/the-best-dating-apps-for-singles-over-40

Anybody else sick of the Brad Pitt/Jennifer Aniston saga? Because we are. We're talking James Comey fuckery, The Notorious RBG, dead parents that aren't really dead, and the stigma around not being close with your family.

Submit a Dating Advice Letter

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I’m Estranged From My Parents, but I Tell People They’re Dead

https://slate.com/human-interest/2018/11/dear-prudence-estranged-parents-lie-death.html?fbclid=IwAR2xdmfHCLVjrWerrcxRc5s61Ln9EaYwNSrVJnF7JyRQsnUkYQ2AewkD4h0

That Time RBG Told Her Children’s School To ‘Call Their Dad’

https://www.scarymommy.com/time-rbg-told-her-childrens-school-call-their-dad/?utm_source=FB&fbclid=IwAR0qCikSuLuLdz8j0TZmXBB7E9-2GAHTDBS1-HMtK0zHhbSgnb0NeO5A2-o

This one has it all! Listen to a man's Tinder Tirade after being rejected and a woman's Tik Tok rant about having to pay her half of the tab. PLUS we get break down what people really mean when they want someone "healthy."

Free Online Dating Advice Zoom Session

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/singles-ask-answer-online-dating-advice-session-wcertified-dating-coach-tickets-122868012533

Sydney man sacked after allegedly bombarding woman with ‘vile’ Tinder messages

https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/news-life/sydney-man-sacked-after-allegedly-bombarding-woman-with-vile-tinder-messages/news-story/270066d39ed5f5605dfe873109a34156

She still won't leave me alone...

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/iyyzng/she_still_wont_leave_me_alone/

A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly proud of being dumped for no reason. Also listen in as we advise a PhD candidate on whether she should prioritize her education or dating.

PLUS! We have the PERFECT response for the age old question "Why are you single?"

She Ended Things After the Second Date and Gave me a Rundown of What Went Wrong

https://psiloveyou.xyz/she-ended-things-after-the-second-date-and-gave-me-a-rundown-of-what-went-wrong-f6235e8757b4

To mask up or not to mask up during sex. That is the question. We also talk about Chris Evans' apparently unremarkable penis and why men's opinions of women don't matter.

This one's about figuring out your dating league and when to shoot out of it. We also talk about the dangers of dating a narcissist.

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Is it a bad idea to continue to sleep with someone (36m) who indicated he’s not looking for a relationship?

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/inpi8k/bad_idea_to_continue_to_sleep_with_someone_36m/

Having a hard time finding a friends with benefits with a man I'm really attracted to

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/inv26q/having_a_hard_time_finding_a_friends_with/

We talk about the Glossier cosmetics drama and toxic work environment, discuss whether oral sex is necessary for a great sex life and once again out a fake Medium writer who's probably a dude.

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I HATE GIVING ORAL SEX TO WOMEN

https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/dislike-oral-sex-advice.html

A listener asks if she should dump a guy for oversharing on their second date. We also discuss how to answer that awkward question of "What do you do?" when you're unemployed or unable to work.

Should She Dump Him For Oversharing

https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/should-she-dump-him-for-oversharing

We talk about how Bella Thorne massively screwed over sex workers, the stigmas single women over 40 face, and say "Fuck That Guy!" about a man who used a woman for sex and then blamed her for gaining weight.

The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married

https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/the-stigma-of-being-40-never-married-childless

Dumped for Gaining Weight

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ijc1d1/dump_for_gaining_weight/?sort=new

We're talking why women settle for casual sex, the dangers of marathon dates and red flags we often ignore.

Sexting after marathon date

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/igrwll/speechless/

Guy messages me asking for something casual

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ifak8d/guy_messaged_me_asking_if_im_interested_in/

Why do women settle for FWB?

https://www.dateologycoach.com/post/why-do-so-many-women-settle-for-friends-with-benefits