How do you support and understand a child who has experienced trauma?  Cathy and Todd discuss the importance of listening and supporting as a child grieves and processes through a challenging experience.  Remember that pain is pain – it could be the tragedy in Colorado, a divorce in the family, or the loss of a goldfish – children need to time to share their feelings and express their hurt.  They also discuss Cathy’s latest blog and the importance of raising children who like themselves.