In this episode I talk with Happiness Empowerment and Couples Intimacy Coach, Shay Sun.  Shay tells us about their journey with understanding the changing nature of relationships over time.  He shares about his exploration into Chinese Philosophy and its wisdom for the constant change of relationship as well the secrets it reveals about feminine pleasure .  In this conversation, we talk about strong women, creating desire, Tantra Speed Date, and the communication needed between a couple for great sex and deeper intimacy. We also chat about shutdown and resentment between couples and some tips for healing that divide by coming back to communication.