Confidently Insecure

KELSEYS MEN FACE OFF

What happens when you put Kelsey and two 6’+ lovers in one room together?! Well you’ll have to listen to find out! Plus Zach has an adult sleepover that may change the future of his s*x life FOREVER. Our Sponsors: * Check...

This week Zach has a 24 yr old conundrum on his hands and Kelsey is baking a loaf of bread between her legs

Kelsey calls Zach OUT

Don’t you love it when friends push you to do something SCARY?! Find out why Kelsey called Zach a p*ssy and how it ended in a celebrity getting harassed. PLUS our girl on the ground MEG gets some evergreen relationship...

HOOKING UP WITH TV STARS

Welcome to CONFIDENTLY CHAOTIC (werking title), the podcast where we’re absolutely sure we don’t learn anything!! After weeks of Zach begging, Kelsey has finally allowed us to dip a toe into madness (a completely unscripted ep!!). So follow along as...

Spring Break is ILLEGAL

JK. But Miami is doing its damnedest to make sure no one has fun the entire month of March!! PLUS Kelsey tells us the horrifying origin of the Easter bunny (yep, meth is involved). Our Sponsors: * Check out : quince.com/kelsey * Check...

ZACH LOVES WOMEN!!!

This week (and by week we mean month (and by month we mean ALWAYS)) Kelsey and Zach celebrate WOMEN

STAGS, HENS, AND RATTING OUT FRIENDZ

This week Kelsey and Zach deliver a *brief* history of BACHELOR/ETTE PARTIES, all the DOs and DONTs you need to know in order to throw a suckcessful celebration, AND some of the craziest party moments from YOU, our unbelievably hot...

IVF-U Alabama State Supreme Court

Go home, Alabama, you’re drunk. And scary. And ruining peoples chances at starting a family

PLANE and SIMPLE

Whether you fly once a day or once a year, there's something in this one for YOU

CONFRONTATION NATION RISE UP

Have you ever lost your cool at the water cooler? Is there a coworker or two that knows what your hard-cry looks like? Well this episode might be for you!! Cuz this week Kelsey and Zach talk about taking the...

Oh no it’s IMPOSTER SYNDROME

Is this podcast even good?! Sure it has thousands of loyal listeners and a healthy ad revenue, but somehow we’re still not fully convinced

can you REALLY be friends with your EX??

NYC & PHILLY LIVE SHOW TIX TOMORROW & WEDNESDAY: www.confidentlyinsecure.com They WERE your best friend, and sure the sex was great, but is it ever wise to embark on a friendship with an ex?! This week Kelsey and Zach...

vacation hookups DOS AND DONTS

PHILLY & NYC TIX: confidentlyinsecure.com Who else is H*RNY for HOtels?!? This week Kelsey and Zach break down the DOs and DONTs of

the psychology of HOARDING

NYC & PHILLY LIVE SHOW TIX! www.confidentlyinsecure.com This week Kelsey tells Zach about the dangers of HORding; from the glamorization of it on TV to fire hazards to straight up health risks (we’re looking at you cat corpse in the...

the DANGERS of REALITY TV!!!

We allll love to see a housewife flip a table, or a bachelor break down and sob, but what happens when the cameras of reality TV stop rolling?! This week Zach takes Kelsey down a dark road of death, depression,...

your SAUCY family SECRETS

SHHHHHHH! this episode is one big juicy SECRET and Kelsey & Zach are spilling alllllll your family tea. From siblings with different daddies to grannies who are accomplice to MURDER, these stories will have you saying thank you GAWD for...

PHONE SEX...oral history

PHILLY LIVE SHOW: https://citywinery.com/philadelphia/events/confidently-insecure-live-kvz57o NYC LIVE SHOW: https://citywinery.com/new-york-city/events/confidently-insecure-live-ne8h2e HAPPY NEW YEAR YOU HOT SLuTZ!!!! Think you’re in for another boring resolution-based episode? Well THINK AGAIN!! Cuz we are hitting 2024 HARD in the WHORniest way with the history of PHONE...

our 2023 chaos year review

In this episode, Zach and Kelsey celebrate the New Year and discuss their upcoming podcast tour. They also talk about sex toys and the possibility of creating their own. The hosts share stories about holiday parties, puzzles, and relationship updates....

the most WILD holiday traditions 2023

Let’s get FESTIVE BTCHZ!! This week Zach takes Kelsey on a holiday trip around the world and boy oh boy do some countries do this season WAY better than America (we’re lookin at you, Norway!!) Tell us your families weirder...

our 2023 dating/love review...

https://citywinery.com/new-york-city/events/confidently-insecure-live-ne8h2e WELL WELL WELL - WHAT A YEAR iTS BEEN! Zach and Kelsey take on tiktok's hottest trend reviewing their dating and love life for the year of 2023...there were HIGHS there were very rock bottom lows...and zach FINALLY...

I went to BREAKUP BOOTCAMP

THE BREAK UP EPISODE!!! Kelsey finally tells us all about her break and it is a DEEP DIVE on emotional healing, rebranded trauma, and the pitfalls of fckng around with love ❤️ join Zach as he listens (with his jaw...

are we considering...CELIBACY?!

Is CELIBACY ever SEXY?! Well we couldn’t tell ya bc your besties Kelsey & Zach are h-word 24/7… but the concept of abstinence has been around forever and this episode does a shallow dive on the pros and cons of...

I bought a gun...

KELSEY GOT A GUN

is friends with benefits...BENEFICIAL

YES WE KNOW THE AUDIO IS BAD!!! But you can only do so much when you’re CONSTANTLY thinking about having seggs with your friends

the rules of a THREESOME

Boundaries, fears, and safe words… that’s right this week Kelsey and Zach are breaking down THREESOMES

conspirituality!!!!

Did you know you could be TOO healthy?! A bit of a bummer to hear, but sometimes healthy thoughts can lead to dangerous decisions

sexy spooky szn

F*ck Marry Kill Kill KILL

The RETREAT & DRAMA

We are BACK and (getting) better than ever

A Breakup Breath...

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a never heard THROWBACK episode

An archival episode out of the depths of the interwebs! Kelsey and Zach have been having a WEEK (more next week!) and while they didn't have the bandwidth to record a fully new episode this week, this IS an unheard...

the SUGAR episode

This ep is so sweet it might give you a toothache

IM HAVING A BABY (KINDA)

Is Kelsey PREGNANT?! What an EGGcellent question

craziest cruise stories

In honor of Zach’s gay af Mediterranean voyage this week we’re talking CRUISES

DIETS should DIE!!!

When it comes to the DIET industry the only thing you’re gonna lose is time, hope, and MONEY

holy effing EMOTIONAL LABOR

Is it a labor of LOVE or just plain LABOR?! This week Kelsey schools Zach on the fascinating world of EMOTIONAL LABOR and you’ll be shocked to hear how integral it is to the success of the patriarchy

we're going back to COLLEGE

We don’t want to trigger anyone but SCHOOL is almost back in session, so this week K-Dawg and Z-Money are going BACK TO COLLEGE

the science of CRYING

If you love this pod we’re willing to bet you ALSO love a good cry

fandom OBSESSION

Do you love us or do you LOVE us?! This week Kelsey and Zach discuss the psychology behind FANDOMS and how far some of these fanatics have gone to prove their commitment to their fav artists (we’re talkin schemes that...

summer dating AGENDA

SSSSSSSSssSssSSsssss… what’s that sound?! Oh yes, it’s SUMMER, and the sidewalks aren’t the only things SIZZLING

how to FIGHT HEALTHY with your partner

Oh so u wanna FIGHT?! Well choose your fckn words wisely, babe!! This week Kelsey n Zach are talking fighting styles and how to get to the other side of an argument with a loved one (cuz that’s where the...

Quietly QUITTING!!!

Shhhhhhhh

AMERICA AIN'T THAT GIRL

HAPPY 4th OR IS IT???Hooray America! Literally the messiest b*tch we’ve ever met

our COMING OUT stories PRIDE

Aska the titty for consent!!!

be gay. DO CRIME!

What we need is a good defense cuz we’re feelin like CRIMINALLLLZ

the LESBIAN episode (happy pride)

This episode of conpod is coming to you LIVE from the isle of LESBOS

an @ss to mouth PRIDE

YALL READY TO GET QUEER AF?! Kelsey and Zach are hitting this

a very gay memorial day

Kelsey and Zach wish you a meaningful Memorial Day (and beg forgiveness for the chaos within this patriotic episode

the big B0N3R EPISODE

This episode Kelsey and Zach are asking the HARD questions and you won’t be getting STIFFED with the answers

you SHOULD be changing!!!

This week Kelsey and Zach are going BACK TO THE FUTURE

The JEALOUSY Episode

Your favorite confident bottoms just got a new sound board…JEALOUS?? Well even if your resounding answer is “NO” you will experience some envy by the end of this ep