Ready to level up your love life in 2025? Just in time for Valentine’s Day, we give you a totally non-scientific and completely arbitrary list of what’s “in” and what’s “out” in the world of sex this year. From hand jobs to mindful sex – if you’re looking for ideas on how to spend your v-day – this is the episode for you. 

Hit play now and share this episode with a friend who needs a spicy Valentine's upgrade! 

What's your take?  Do you agree with our INs and OUTs?  Drop your thoughts in the comments or DM us at @cynthiaandjosie

Thanks so much for listening Canada, if you know anyone in the US...send this along.   

Recorded in Toronto/Product of Canada 

We’re so grateful for you! Thank you for your patience and for tuning in. If you ever have feedback or thoughts, feel free to reach out to us at [email protected]. Just a small favour: before hitting “send” on anything heated or full of vitriol, take a deep breath—our nervous systems thank you in advance for that!

If you’re feeling generous, we’d absolutely love it if you left us a positive review on Apple Music! It’s super easy—just click here (APPLE) and scroll to the bottom.

And for those of you in the GTA, if you’re curious whether you’re more of a Josie or a Cynthia at Othership, they’ve kindly shared some discount codes for us to pass along:

OTHERSHIP

• Discount code: PLEASURE
11% off intro 2 week, intro 3 pack, single drop-in, 5, 10, 25, and 50 class packs. Can be used once per person, applicable at the Toronto locations.• 2 for 1 Offer: OFFER Offer for first timers; two visits for the price of one, applicable at the Toronto location• 1 month free Othership breathwork app: APP

Thank you for listening, thank you for being patient. 

WE ARE BACK FOR SEASON 3!

If you’ve noticed more urine leaks and accidents since you hit (peri)menopause, you are definitely not alone.
Declining levels of hormones, especially estrogen, can affect your continence. The impact can range from an inconvenience to a devastating effect on quality of life. But it doesn’t have to! 
In honour of World Menopause Month we are answering all your questions all about incontinence during menopause with Dr Sheila Wijayasinghe. 

Please Note:
- All opinions and recommendations are Dr. Sheila’s
- TENA is not offering medical advice
- The content we shared is for informational purposes only, you must always consult your physician for recommendations and treatments adapted to your specific needs
 
To learn more, visit www.tena.ca

Well we made it!! Thanks for sticking with us and sharing all of your wonderful thoughts during this season. We need a bit of a break but we hope you will enjoy this last episode of the season where we answer all of YOUR burning questions.  Topics range from parenting challenges to relationship challenges to everything in between.

**IMPORTANT NOTE: If you heard the episode "If It Can Happen To Her, If Can Happen To You" then you know Shannon's story.   We recently learned that Shannon's son had a severe bike accident. It has been a complete emotional collapse for her family and a catastrophic life change for her son.   Please open the link below and support or share if you can. https://gofund.me/9a075c59.  

Our hearts are with her and her family.   xoxo

This is the last episode of Season 2.  We will be back.  Thank you for listening and being part of our lives every single week.   We are taking a much needed break but we can't wait to talk again soon. In the meantime stay tuned to our social media pages.

With Love,

Cynthia and Josie 

P.S. A tiny treat for people in Toronto or in the surrounding areas: Cynthia's favourite place, Othership is offering our community, 11% off the 2 week intro offer as well as the 3 pack, single drop-in as well as class packs.  It can be used one time per person and is for the Toronto locations only. Cynthia highly recommends the 2 week all you can use offer (CODE IS: PLEASURE:)

Do you fear sneezing and having a little pee come out? Have you found yourself worried if you laugh too hard at a movie that you might leave a wet spot behind? Incontinence is a very common experience that is unfortunately still a HUGE unmentionable. 
 
🎙On this week’s episode, we talk with urogynecologist Dr. Dana Soroka about the different kinds of incontinence and what can be done to help those experience it, live life without compromise. We also answer YOUR questions about it. 
 
This episode is in partnership with @tena.canada, a global leader in incontinence solutions.
 
Please Note:
- All opinions and recommendations are Dr. Soroka’s
- TENA is not offering medical advice.
- The content we shared is for informational purposes only, you always must consult your physician for recommendations and treatments adapted to your specific needs.
 
To learn more, visit www.tena.ca 
 
#Incontinence #Unmentionables #CynthiaAndJosie’sUnmentionables #Podcasts #Partner #TENACanada #Urology #BladderLeakage

Are you feeling extra crusty/crispy lately? Ruminating over things when you should be sleeping?  On the brink of tears at any given moment? Josie recently has been feeling this way and she thinks it’s something called “busy depression”. Cynthia thinks it’s closer to burnout. So if you’re wondering if what you’re feeling is hormones, stress, “busy depression”, burnout or some combination- this is the mini group therapy session for you. Cynthia also goes through her 3-step beginning of burnout formula that might help if you ever find yourself on fire. 

NOTES:

In case you missed them, here are the links to our previous episodes on burnout: (add links here)

Also, if you’re in the Toronto area and want to check out one of Cynthia’s favourite places for calm, you can get 11% off credit packages at Othership. Code: PLEASURE. (This can only be used on credit packages & one time per person.) https://www.othership.us

How can you get over heartbreak? Should you have breakup sex? Can you truly be friends with an ex? You asked and we answered (Josie even cracks open her high school diary). It’s an entire episode on everything you wanted to know but were afraid to ask when it comes to former lovers and flames. 

What if your deepest secret was an addiction?
To the outside world, Shannon McKinnon seemed like the epitome of success: a loving husband, a thriving career in television, and two beautiful children. But behind closed doors, she was waging a silent war with heroin addiction. In this episode, Shannon shares her journey from battling chronic pain to slipping into addiction, losing her home, job, and marriage, and nearly her life. Listen as she reveals how she found the strength to rebuild and emerge more grateful than ever.

So last episode on home vs hospital births inspired a lot of heated conversations! Many of you expressed how surprising it was to hear close friends completely disagree with each other. With that in mind, we decided to try to unpack some of the reasons why it often feels like everyone is fighting these days (even with those who share the same views!). We also discuss how fear and trauma impacts our ability to listen deeply and why we should all start assuming the best instead of the worst of each other. 

More information about Daryl Davis: https://www.pbs.org/independentlens/documentaries/accidental-courtesy/

NYT ARTICLE: What if Instead of Calling People Out, We Called Them In?

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/11/19/style/loretta-ross-smith-college-cancel-culture.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb

We generally get along about most things. But once we had a discussion and realized that there is a topic we totally disagree on: where to give birth. We unpack our radically different birth stories and debate the pros and cons of home vs hospital births on this heated episode (proving you can still be friends with people you don’t always agree with!)

For more information on Hypnobirthing if you’re interested: https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/hypnobirthing#methods

For more information about Elaine Welteroth and her charity, follow @birthfund

Here’s also an article written by her on Black maternal health: https://time.com/6249274/elaine-welteroth-midwifery-care-maternal-health/

And if you’re interested, check out episode 5 of For The Culture, called “The Standard Of Care”: 

https://gem.cbc.ca/for-the-culture-with-amanda-parris

Lancet Article : Home birth—proceed with caution

Home Births Proceed With Caution