At some point in your life you will probably experience grief at the loss of someone you love, and you'll likely be a wreck. But what if you meet someone? How soon should you start dating again? And what are the dangers of falling in love when you're at your most emotionally vulnerable? Recently we received a letter from Patrick in rural NSW who needed some help, so we brought in clinical psychologist Shahn Baker Sorekli to chat about it. If this podcast brings up feelings that you want to talk to someone about, you can contact Lifeline on 13 11 14.