If you’re worried they may spread rumors that hurt your reputation in the long run. Don’t. Your real life actions and character choices are far more valuable than the made up attributes a person claims to believe about you. People who believe unsubstantiated rumors and gossip aren’t people you should want to surround yourself with anyway. Let the trash take itself out and move on to the people who use discretion, empathy, and understand that everyone in this world is nuanced and worth getting to know before making snap judgements. 

If people are committed to misunderstanding you - let them commit. You know who you the fuck you are and that is more than enough. 

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