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Dear Nelly episodes

April 16, 2025 A Dyke on a Bike and Sex and The City
APRIL 2025 EPISODE
This month we are joined by T-Rex - the President of the Melbourne chapter of the iconic Dykes on Bikes. T-Rex and I chart her journey from dirt-bike farm-girl to two marriages, some difficult relationships and ultimately, to finding herself and her person. T-Rex's journey is that of so many of us - a long and winding road to self-discovery and happiness with some pot-holes and fox burrows in between. You'll be inspired to find your own patch.

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Dykes on Bikes Melbourne HERE

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13YARN
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Love yas,
Nelly xxx

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1 hr
March 17, 2025 It's All About You!
IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU: NELLY COMING AT YOU SOLO WITH LISTENER CALLS AND LETTERS
This month Nelly is going commando - no co-host - to tackle your listener calls and letters. We have everything from how to get hope back, to coercive control, to dating dilemmas.
A solo ep with Captain Thomas at the helm. Enjoy!

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Interview with Rebecca Solnit, “Hope in the Dark”
https://youtu.be/htstajrxUIc?si=04pnJ-nlsqz3kVwB

Coercive control:
https://www.healthline.com/health/coercive-control#restricting-autonomy

Non-physical abuse:
https://www.cnv.org.au/help/what-is-family-violence/#:~:text=Family%20violence%20isn't%20always,t%20do%20what%20they%20want.

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13YARN
24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE
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Love yas,
Nelly xxx

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1 hr 5 min
February 19, 2025 Don't date while horny!
DO NOT DATE WHILst ON THE HORN: THE BAR will be TOO LOW!

THE FABULOUS ADAM RICHARD is back with Nelly to tackle some listener letters and questions that they didn't get to last time. These range from how to set up your profile, to dating while s*x-starved to community to parenting whilst living with a mental illness. As always, they are hilarious and highly inappropriate.

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13YARN

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Love yas,
Nelly xxx

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1 hr 18 min
January 20, 2025 Should I hook up with someone at work?
DEAR NELLY FAVOURITE SCOTT BRENNAN IS BACK TO HELP NELLY FIGURE SH*T OUT

One of our favouite homosexuals is back to help Nelly answer some straight lady questions from listeners. Why? Because, why not. Scott has been sitting in the sh*t and we get into that. We take questions on hooking up with a work friend, sex toy etiquette and, how to enjoy big events on your won. We also take an inspiring call about dating in a regional area, later in life. A beautiful episode with a dear friend of both Nelly and the Dear Nelly Community. You'll love this one - a ripper start to 2025.

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

13YARN
24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE
Fahey's website HERE

Love yas,
Nelly xxx

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1 hr 11 min
January 10, 2025 The Fabulous Adam Richard: how do we set up an open relationship?
The Fabulous Adam Richard: how do we set up an open relationship?
In addition to your guaranteed monthly episodes, Nelly will now drop in solo and/or with a guest to talk sh*t and take listener letters when she has time. We start today with a very long episode with Nelly's old mate The Fabulous Adam Richard. Adam and his long-term partner have just opened up their relationship and Adam is loving some aspects and finding others challenging. They GET INTO IT. Nelly and Adam also take some wonderful listener letters.
It's a long one - listen in two parts or go on a really long walk.

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

13YARN
24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE
Fahey's website HERE

Love yas,
Nelly xxx

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1 hr 44 min
December 20, 2024 Nelly SOLO life update!
This month Nelly is solo - not by her own choice, she had a fresh episode ready to go, but sadly due to technical issues here we are! An overall update on what's been going on with Nelly over the last little while - a real honest and raw update.

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

13YARN
24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE
Fahey's website HERE

Love yas,
Nelly xxx
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27 min
November 13, 2024 Dating Stories from Youse Molls: She went to her first Sex Party!
NOVEMBER 2024 EPISODE: DATING STORIES, MOLLS!
This month Nelly has had a rough time and so she's decided to embrace the joy, mess and debauchery of life by making an entire episode out of dating stories. You'll hear the good, the bad and the ugly and if you don't cry/laugh multiple times, go get your pulse checked. An absolutely glorious episode.

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

13YARN
24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE
Fahey's website HERE

Love yas,
Nelly xxx

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1 hr 2 min
October 16, 2024 Serena Walker & Nelly: Have Two-weeks of Sex!
SERENA WALKER: COUNSELLING PSYCHOLOGIST IS BACK TO GET INTO IT
Serena Walker is back to talk about all the things! We get into humour, hope and intentionality and how important they are to connection. We talk about a 30-day texting challenge, a 2-week sex challenge and how to honour grief and change. We get into Tina the Musical and a couple of memes. We take a beautiful listener call about recovering from an abusive relationship, finding a new romance and how to deal with that ending. We end on Serena's BIG MISTAKE.

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

13YARN
24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE
Fahey's website HERE

Love yas,
Nelly xxx
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1 hr 15 min
September 18, 2024 Rusty Berther: Starting Again at 50
Rusty Berther: Starting Again at 50 as a Straight Man in the Wild!
Rusty Bertha's marriage of 27 years ended when he was 49 and he was shitting in the shit. Flash forward 7 years and he is happily remarried after doing a shitload of therapy and then meeting a wonderful woman on the apps. YES, IT DOES HAPPEN. Nelly and Rusty talk about all of that plus what sort of flirt he is and do's and don'ts of dating. They take a great listener call about boundaries and Rusty's BIG MISTAKE in dating and relationships.

RUSTY BERTHA: HERE and HERE

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

13YARN
24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE
Fahey's website HERE

Love yas,
Nelly xxx

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1 hr 8 min
September 12, 2024Toxic People Thrive in Silence
TOXIC PEOPLE THRIVE IN SILENCE
In this ep, Nelly drops in to ponder how toxic people rely on silence and how liberating it is when you find your voice. She also muses on how egocentric we are when it comes to divorce, dating and all the things. She invites you to WWRPD - what would Ru Paul do - and ask yourself how important your current situation is in the Grander Scheme of Things. So you got divorced - sure it's huge, it's also nothing in the Big Picture view of human history and even, of your life. You can put the shame, worry and fear down. She also take wonderful call from a woman who was sitting right in the shit and is out the other side with a full bush and a new lease on her (sex)life. Bravo!

Sherapy Sessions Podcast HERE
Character Outs Podcast HERE
The Ru Paul interview Nelly references HERE

NELLY'S NEW EVENT: OVER THE RAINBOW DATING FOR LGBTIQA+ VICTORIANS HERE

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

13YARN
24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE
Fahey's website HERE

Love yas,
Nelly xxx

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44 min

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In this hilarious and heartfelt podcast, award-winning comedian Nelly Thomas and guest co-hosts offer sex, relationship and dating advice from the other side of 40.

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