"I've taken some heat from some people on my stands on mediation.

It's not that I don't like mediation.

I think mediation can be very useful and impactful. And in fact, can be effective in settling cases.  But, I don't think mediation should be mandatory."

-Anthony Bompiani is a retired judge and family law attorney turned consultant.

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