Divorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family Law

Divorcing a Narcissist in Colorado: Codependency, Boundaries, and Co-Parenting Strategies

In this popular re-release episode of Divorce at Altitude, Colorado family law attorney Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha sit down with divorce coach Karen McMahon, host of the Journey Beyond Divorce podcast. Together, they unpack one of the most challenging scenarios in Colorado family law: divorcing a narcissist while navigating codependency, setting healthy boundaries, and co-parenting with a difficult ex.

Karen shares how her own high-conflict divorce shaped her coaching practice and why so many clients feel emotionally overwhelmed during separation. She explains the common patterns seen in narcissistic relationships, including black-and-white thinking, revisionist history, deflection, and manipulation. Just as important, she highlights the other side of the dynamic: codependency, or what she calls “self-love deficiency,” where one partner consistently sacrifices their own needs to maintain the relationship.

Guest Information

Karen McMahon is a certified divorce coach and founder of Journey Beyond Divorce. After navigating her own high-conflict divorce, she created a coaching program to help clients move from emotional chaos to clarity and confidence. She hosts the Journey Beyond Divorce podcast and works with clients across the English-speaking world.

Episode Outline

What Is Divorce Coaching?
How a divorce coach helps clients move from emotional overwhelm to clarity during separation.

Recognizing Narcissistic Traits in Divorce
Common behaviors such as manipulation, deflection, and high conflict that surface in Colorado divorce cases.

Understanding Codependency
How self-sacrifice and fear can keep someone stuck in unhealthy relationship dynamics.

Setting and Upholding Boundaries
Practical tips for managing communication, reducing reactivity, and protecting your emotional space.

Parallel Parenting with a Difficult Ex
Why high-conflict situations often require structured communication and detailed parenting plans.

Healing and Breaking Generational Patterns
How personal growth during divorce can lead to healthier co-parenting and stronger outcomes for children.

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. 

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].

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Psychological Testing in Colorado Custody Cases: What PEs, CFIs, and Lawyers Need to Know

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Colorado family law attorney Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha welcome back John Zervopoulos to unpack one of the most misunderstood topics in Colorado custody litigation: psychological testing in Parenting Responsibilities Evaluations (PREs). John is uniquely qualified to explain this issue from both sides, as a licensed psychologist and a licensed attorney who consults with lawyers on mental health evidence, expert reports, and testimony in parenting disputes.

Ryan and John explain the key difference between a CFI (Child and Family Investigator) and a PRE in Colorado. CFIs cannot perform psychological testing, while PREs may include testing when conducted by a qualified psychologist. The conversation focuses on how tests like the MMPI, PAI, and MCMI are actually used, why they are not “mental health X-rays,” and how test results must be interpreted alongside interviews, collateral information, and case facts.

Guest Information

John Zervopoulos is both a licensed psychologist and a licensed attorney. He has experience conducting child custody evaluations and now consults with family law attorneys to help them understand mental health issues, manage psychological evidence, and evaluate the strengths and weaknesses of expert reports and testimony.

Episode Outline

PRE vs CFI in Colorado Parenting Disputes
Why PREs can include psychological testing and CFIs generally cannot, and how testing may be outsourced.

Why Psychological Testing Is Not an X-Ray
Test results do not “prove” diagnoses like bipolar disorder or narcissism and must be interpreted in context.

What Psychological Tests Are Common in Custody Evaluations
Overview of common tools such as MMPI, PAI, MCMI, and the difference between tests and screening inventories.

The Three-Legged Stool Framework
How evaluators combine interviews, testing, and collateral sources to form opinions, and what happens when one leg is weak.

Six Keys for Understanding Test Results
Response style, standardization samples, reliability, validity, sensitivity/specificity, and computer-generated reports.

Risks of Overreliance on Computer Interpretations
How canned language can appear scientific while still requiring clinical judgment and outside verification.

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. 

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].

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Co-Parenting Coaching in a Colorado Divorce: Tools, Communication, and Kids First

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Colorado family law attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha sit down with co-parenting coach and mediator Jackie Deam to talk about co-parenting during and after a Colorado divorce. When kids are involved, parenting plans are only part of the solution. The bigger challenge is communication, conflict, and how parents show up in a new lifelong partnership.

Ryan and Jackie break down what a co-parenting coach does, how coaching differs from therapy, and why many parents need a team to make better decisions during separation. Jackie offers practical strategies like transition emails, communication audits, quarterly co-parent “business meetings,” and child-centered messaging. The goal is not perfection. The goal is reducing conflict, protecting kids, and building a workable co-parenting relationship that lasts beyond age 18.

Guest Information

Jackie Deam is a Colorado-based co-parenting coach, mediator, and attorney. She began her career as an elementary school teacher, earned her law degree from Pepperdine, and worked in child advocacy before moving to Colorado. She previously served as a family court facilitator in Colorado’s Ninth Judicial District and now supports families through mediation and co-parenting coaching.

Episode Outline

Jackie’s Path: Teacher to Attorney to Co-Parenting Coach
How her experience in education and child advocacy shaped her approach to co-parenting support.

The Child of Divorce Perspective
Why divorce itself does not harm children, but ongoing conflict and putting kids in the middle can.

What a Co-Parenting Coach Does
A practical definition of co-parent coaching and why it can support parents during and after divorce.

Solo Coaching vs Joint Co-Parent Coaching
How coaching helps even when only one parent is willing to participate, with a focus on controlling the controllable.

Communication Tools That Reduce Conflict
Transition emails, communication audits, child-centered language, co-parenting apps, and structured “business meetings.”

Resources for Parents
Recommended parenting tools and education, including positive discipline frameworks and child development guidance.

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. 

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].

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Divorce Money Guide: How to Spot Hidden Assets and Financial Red Flags

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, hosts Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha are joined by forensic accountant Tracy Coenen to discuss hidden assets, financial red flags, and how forensic accounting plays a critical role in a Colorado divorce. Many spouses, like the hypothetical “Melanie Wolf,” worry about a partner controlling the finances or hiding money during divorce. Tracy explains what a forensic accountant actually does, how bank statements and credit card records are analyzed, and when it makes financial sense to hire an expert. With typical forensic accounting costs ranging from $10,000 to $25,000, not every divorce case can justify a full investigation.

That’s why Tracy created the Divorce Money Guide, a practical, step-by-step resource designed for spouses who suspect hidden assets but cannot afford a forensic accountant. The guide walks listeners through financial discovery, identifying red flags such as unusual cash withdrawals, missing bank statements, backdated documents, and sudden changes in financial behavior.

Guest Information

Tracy Coenen is a Milwaukee-based forensic accountant with more than 25 years of experience in fraud investigations and financial analysis. She works nationwide on divorce and corporate fraud cases and is the creator of the Divorce Money Guide.

Episode Outline

What Does a Forensic Accountant Do in Divorce?
Tracing bank accounts, credit cards, business records, and cash transactions to uncover hidden assets or improper spending.

When Is Forensic Accounting Worth the Cost?
Understanding the financial threshold and balancing expert fees with potential recovery.

Top Financial Red Flags in Divorce
Unusual cash withdrawals, disappearing statements, hidden accounts, excessive spending, and financial control tactics.

The Divorce Money Guide Explained
A 10-step system that empowers spouses to gather financial documents, assess fraud risk, and work more effectively with their divorce attorney.

Peace of Mind Through Financial Knowledge
Why understanding your financial picture is critical in any Colorado divorce, even if no fraud is ultimately found.

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. 

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].

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Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Andy Heller, author of Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family. Andy shares valuable insights from his own divorce journey and how his book can guide others through the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce. With practical tips, stories, and expert advice, Andy discusses how to navigate difficult conversations, protect your children, and achieve a healthier post-divorce life. His approach focuses on the importance of communication, understanding, and empathy, providing a roadmap for managing the divorce process while minimizing emotional harm.

Guest Information:
Andy Heller is the author of Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family. With a background in business and real estate investing, Andy brings a unique perspective to the divorce process. After going through his own divorce, Andy recognized a gap in the self-help space for those navigating divorce and wrote this book as a give-back effort to help others avoid common pitfalls.

Episode Outline:

Introduction to Andy Heller and His Book
Ryan and Andy introduce Andy’s journey and why he decided to write Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family.

The Role of Empathy and Personal Experience in Writing the Book
Andy shares how his personal divorce experience led to the creation of his book.

How Divorce Affects Communication and Decision-Making
The impact of stress and emotion on decision-making during divorce.Andy’s advice on how to manage emotional responses and focus on practical solutions.

The Importance of Therapy and Co-Parenting Coaches
Andy discusses the role of therapy and co-parenting coaches in navigating the divorce process, especially for children.

Mistakes to Avoid During Divorce Negotiations
Common mistakes people make during divorce negotiations, such as lacking focus or allowing emotions to dictate decisions.

The Role of Co-Parenting and Maintaining a Healthy Relationship Post-Divorce
The importance of maintaining a cooperative relationship with your ex-spouse for the well-being of the children.

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. 

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].

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Understanding Net Spendable Income in Divorce: Insights from a Financial Expert

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by financial expert Boris Sobolev from Cornerstone CPA Group to discuss the critical concept of net spendable income in the context of divorce. As part of the financial analysis that impacts alimony (maintenance) and child support, Boris explains the complex process of determining an individual’s true disposable income, including how to account for taxes, required expenses, and business income. They also delve into the importance of business valuations and how these elements come into play when determining fair financial obligations in a divorce. This episode provides essential insights for anyone involved in a divorce case, especially when complex financial issues are at stake.

Guest Information:
Boris Sobolev is the Managing Partner of Cornerstone CPA Group, a Denver-based firm specializing in divorce-related financial services. With nearly two decades of experience, Boris is an expert in business valuations, gross income determination, forensic accounting, and the analysis of trust interests. He regularly works with divorce attorneys to evaluate income sources, determine net spendable income, and provide expert testimony in high-net-worth divorce cases.

Episode Outline:

Introduction to Net Spendable Income in Divorce
Ryan and Boris introduce the topic of net spendable income and its importance in divorce cases.

What is Net Spendable Income?
Definition of net spendable income in the context of divorce.

The Relationship Between Business Valuations and Net Spendable Income
How business valuations are tied to determining an individual’s income in divorce cases.

Retained Experts vs. Joint Experts
Differences between retained experts hired by one party vs. joint experts in divorce cases.

Factors Affecting Net Spendable Income
Common deductions in a net spendable income analysis: taxes, health insurance, debt service, and child support.

Real-Life Examples of Net Spendable Income Analysis
Case scenarios of business owners, including real estate brokers and doctors, who have varying income sources.

Challenges in Determining Maintenance and Support
How net spendable income impacts decisions around spousal maintenance (alimony) and child support.

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. 

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].

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No divorce is easy, but some are a lot more challenging than others. Exceptionally difficult divorces are referred to as high conflict, and in today’s episode, we are joined by an expert on this topic, Dr. Les Katz. Les is a psychologist who spent many years as a therapist working with families, and who now focuses on conducting evaluations to determine which actions would be in the best interests of the children in a divorce case. 

Children are very negatively affected by destructive conflict (as opposed to constructive conflict, which is actually beneficial for children to witness), and the impacts of a high conflict divorce can result in major internal (such as depression) and/or external (such as aggression) problems. Listen today to hear the common causes of a high conflict divorce, the importance of always listening to both parent’s story before jumping to conclusions, the role of medical professionals in a high conflict divorce, and what you can do to make things easier on your children if you are going through a high conflict divorce yourself!

Key Points From This Episode: 

• The trajectory of a “normal” divorce (as opposed to a high conflict divorce).
• Characteristics that can be used to identify a high conflict divorce.
• Three common causes of a high conflict divorce (according to the Impasses of Divorce theory).
• The importance of being open to both parents’ side of the divorce story. 
• Emotions that people commonly experience when dealing with a divorce. 
• Exploring constructive versus destructive conflict.
• Examples of the impacts that destructive conflict can have on children.
• The role of mental health professionals in high conflict divorces. 
• Why parents should get to know an evaluator prior to hiring them. 
• Navigating parental relocation in a high conflict divorce. 

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injury, and criminal defense in Colorado.

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here. If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].

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What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. 

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].

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Trust Interests and Property Division in Divorce

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by estate planning expert Gerard Deffenbaugh to explore the complexities of trust interests in Colorado divorce cases. They delve into the key aspects of how trust interests can be categorized as property, whether separate or marital, and how to approach the valuation of these interests. With a focus on irrevocable trusts, powers of appointment, and discretionary trusts, Gerard shares valuable insights on navigating these financial complexities in divorce proceedings, offering both legal and practical perspectives for attorneys and clients alike.

Guest Information:
Gerard Deffenbaugh is an experienced estate planning attorney based in Denver. He specializes in estate planning, trust administration, and divorce cases involving trust interests. Gerard regularly consults with divorce attorneys, offering expert opinions on the valuation and division of trust interests, including handling complex issues such as powers of appointment and mandatory income interests.

Episode Outline:

Introduction to Trust Interests in Divorce
Overview of the role trust interests play in Colorado divorces.

What Are Trust Interests?
Understanding what constitutes a trust interest and how it can affect property division.

Irrevocable Trusts and Remainder Interests
Explanation of irrevocable trusts and what a remainder interest means.

The Impact of Trust Terms on Property Division
Key considerations when determining the marital property component of trust interests.

Powers of Appointment in Trusts
Defining powers of appointment and how they affect the distribution of trust assets.

Discretionary vs. Mandatory Income Trusts
Understanding discretionary trust interests and how trustees control income distributions.

Contingencies and Valuation in Trust Interests
The concept of contingencies in trust interests and their impact on valuation.

Valuation of Trust Interests in Divorce
How estate planning experts work with valuation experts to assess trust assets.

Practical Considerations for Dividing Trust Interests
How divorce attorneys can navigate the complexities of trust interests and property division.

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. 

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].

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Navigating Stock Options in Divorce

 In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by financial expert Ken Nayes, CPA at Cornerstone CPA Group, to discuss the complexities of valuing and dividing stock options during divorce. They explore the key issues surrounding stock options in divorce cases, including how vesting periods, taxes, and company valuation can impact the division of assets. 

Ken shares his insights into how divorce attorneys and financial experts assess the value of stock options, both for publicly traded and privately held companies, and how to navigate the challenges of allocating these assets between spouses.

Guest Information:
Ken Nayes is a financial expert and CPA at Cornerstone CPA Group, specializing in business valuation and divorce financial matters. With extensive experience in dealing with closely held businesses, complex financial issues, and executive compensation, Ken provides invaluable assistance in valuing stock options, determining the marital and separate portions of these assets, and understanding the tax implications of stock compensation during divorce proceedings.

Episode Outline:

Introduction to Stock Options in Divorce
Overview of stock options and why they matter in divorce cases.

What Are Stock Options?
Defining stock options, strike price, and vesting periods.

Public vs. Private Companies
Differences in valuing stock options for publicly traded versus privately held companies.

The Vesting Process and Risk
How vesting schedules affect the valuation of stock options.

Valuation of Stock Options
The process of valuing stock options during divorce, including the time rule for marital and separate property.

Tax Implications of Stock Options
How taxes impact the value of stock options and why they are important in a divorce settlement.

In-Kind Distribution of Stock Options
What happens when stock options are awarded in an in-kind distribution during divorce?

Practical Considerations in Divorce Cases Involving Stock Options
Real-life examples of how stock options are treated in high-asset divorces.

Conclusion and Key Takeaways
Final thoughts on how to approach the division of stock options in divorce.

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. 

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].

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Witness Preparation in Divorce: Insights from an Expert

In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Jessica Brylo, a seasoned litigation consultant and expert in witness preparation. Together, they dive into the crucial role of witness preparation in divorce cases, focusing on how witnesses should present themselves during evaluations, depositions, and court hearings. Jessica explains how emotional triggers, biases, and effective communication can significantly influence the outcome of a case. 

With her expertise, Jessica provides invaluable strategies for ensuring that witnesses—especially those dealing with anger, anxiety, or high conflict—are well-prepared to navigate the high-stress environment of divorce proceedings.

Guest Information:
Jessica Brylo is a litigation consultant and the owner of Trial Dynamics, a national trial consulting firm specializing in helping clients in both civil and family law cases. She holds both a master's degree and a Juris Doctor (JD) and has a wealth of experience in trial consulting. Jessica is particularly renowned for her work in preparing clients for high-stakes family law cases, including divorce and custody battles.

Episode Outline:

Introduction to Witness Preparation
Overview of the importance of witness preparation in divorce cases.

Why Presentation Matters in Divorce
Discussing the significance of how clients present themselves in a divorce case, particularly in front of a judge and parenting evaluators.

Biases and First Impressions
How biases impact family law cases and the importance of making a positive first impression during parenting evaluations and divorce hearings.

Emotional Triggers and Their Impact
Identifying emotional triggers like anger and anxiety and strategies to reframe emotions for more effective testimony.

Common Pitfalls in Witness Testimony
Analyzing common mistakes witnesses make, such as oversharing or becoming too emotional, and how to avoid them.

Techniques for Effective Communication
How to answer questions clearly and avoid getting sidetracked during cross-examination.

Real-Life Examples of Testimonial Success
Jessica shares case studies and examples where effective witness preparation made a significant difference in the outcome of a divorce case.

What is Divorce at Altitude? 

Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. 

To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].

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