Do you have a reverse gear? We spend so much time with our heads down trying to make forward progress that we often fail to be sure we are making progress in the right direction. We discuss the importance of doing the right things for the right reasons and the problems many aspirational entrepreneurs run into by following the hype. ---  Dan Murray-Serter is the host of the Secret Leaders podcast and founder of Kindling Media. He is also the founder of the brain care company Heights. Dan shares his top mindsets for success and tools for positive psychology. We dive into many lessons learnt from podcasting that apply to life and also discuss the rising issues of cancel culture and polarization. Connect with Dan Murray-Serter<ul>
<li>The BrainCare company - <a href="https://www.yourheights.com/">Heights</a>
</li>
<li>Dan's epic podcast - <a href="https://www.secretleaders.com/">Secret Leaders</a>
</li>
<li>Twitter - <a href="https://twitter.com/danmurrayserter">@DanMurraySerter</a>
</li>
</ul> Connect with Sam:<ul>
<li>Join the social podcast app - <a href="https://podvine.com/">Podvine</a>
</li>
<li>Sam's newsletter on creativity - <a href="https://explosivethinking.substack.com/">Explosive Thinking</a> </li>
</ul> Chapters:<ul>
<li>00:00 - Introduction</li>
<li>01:34 - Why are you doing what you're doing?</li>
<li>03:02 - Mental resilience through failure</li>
<li>04:20 - Most people are not suited for entrepreneurship</li>
<li>09:29 - Top lessons for staying positive</li>
<li>12:45 - Balance and priorities</li>
<li>16:10 - roundup</li>
</ul> Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices">podcastchoices.com/adchoices</a>

Do you have a reverse gear? We spend so much time with our heads down trying to make forward progress that we often fail to be sure we are making progress in the right direction. We discuss the importance of doing the right things for the right reasons and the problems many aspirational entrepreneurs run into by following the hype. --- Dan Murray-Serter is the host of the Secret Leaders podcast and founder of Kindling Media. He is also the founder of the brain care company Heights. Dan shares his top mindsets for success and tools for positive psychology. We dive into many lessons learnt from podcasting that apply to life and also discuss the rising issues of cancel culture and polarization. Connect with Dan Murray-Serter The BrainCare company - Heights Dan's epic podcast - Secret Leaders Twitter - @DanMurraySerter Connect with Sam: Join the social podcast app - Podvine Sam's newsletter on creativity - Explosive Thinking Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 01:34 - Why are you doing what you're doing? 03:02 - Mental resilience through failure 04:20 - Most people are not suited for entrepreneurship 09:29 - Top lessons for staying positive 12:45 - Balance and priorities 16:10 - roundup Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you have a reverse gear? We spend so much time with our heads down trying to make forward progress that we often fail to be sure we are making progress in the right direction. We discuss the importance of doing the right things for the right reasons and the problems many aspirational entrepreneurs run into by following the hype. ---&nbsp; Dan Murray-Serter is the host of the Secret Leaders podcast and founder of Kindling Media. He is also the founder of the brain care company Heights. Dan shares his top mindsets for success and tools for positive psychology.&nbsp;We dive into many lessons learnt from podcasting that apply to life and also discuss the rising issues of cancel culture and polarization. Connect with Dan Murray-Serter<ul>
<li>The BrainCare company -&nbsp;<a href="https://www.yourheights.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Heights</a>
</li>
<li>Dan's epic podcast -&nbsp;<a href="https://www.secretleaders.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Secret Leaders</a>
</li>
<li>Twitter -&nbsp;<a href="https://twitter.com/danmurrayserter" rel="noopener noreferrer">@DanMurraySerter</a>
</li>
</ul> Connect with Sam:<ul>
<li>Join the social podcast app -&nbsp;<a href="https://podvine.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Podvine</a>
</li>
<li>Sam's newsletter on creativity -&nbsp;<a href="https://explosivethinking.substack.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Explosive Thinking</a>&nbsp;</li>
</ul> Chapters:<ul>
<li>00:00 - Introduction</li>
<li>01:34 - Why are you doing what you're doing?</li>
<li>03:02 - Mental resilience through failure</li>
<li>04:20 - Most people are not suited for entrepreneurship</li>
<li>09:29 - Top lessons for staying positive</li>
<li>12:45 - Balance and priorities</li>
<li>16:10 - roundup</li>
</ul> Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices" rel="noopener noreferrer">podcastchoices.com/adchoices</a>

Do you know when to stop?

Most self-help advice is guesswork dressed up as wisdom. We dig into psychology, neuroscience, and behavioral science to find what actually changes lives.

WHY LISTEN?

Over 8 million downloads because we answer the questions that matter: How do I build mental strength? What creates lasting motivation? How can I understand my own mind well enough to work with it, not against it?

This podcast is for curious skeptics who want frameworks backed by psychology studies, not Instagram quotes. Whether you're navigating procrastination, building self-discipline, or designing your own philosophy for a life well lived—we explore the hidden psychology behind real change.

WHAT YOU'LL GET

Mental models and simple techniques from cognitive psychology, positive psychology, and ancient wisdom traditions like Stoicism and Buddhism.

Being a human can be confusing, learning about it doesn’t have to be.

We cover everything from emotional intelligence and habit formation to brain health and the nervous system.

WHAT YOU DON’T GET

No pseudoscience. No oversimplified "hacks." No hustle porn.

Just practical insights on mindset improvement, self-development, and human psychology that respect your intelligence and mental health.

THE APPROACH

Instead of telling you what to think, we explore how thinking works. Armed with psychology studies, social science research, and relentless curiosity, we uncover the mechanics of belief change, attitude change, and personal development.

Success is personal. You might want to leverage your neurodiverse strengths, build a business, or simply discover how to be happier. We provide the mental frameworks to pursue your definition of success with mental strength and self-care that fits your life.

YOUR HOST

I'm Sam Webster Harris—a lifelong learner with ADHD and an obsession with finding answers to hard questions. After launching businesses, traveling the world, and nearly dying a few times, I concluded that psychology and science are where real wisdom lives.

This show is my excuse to dive deep into health and fitness research, behavioral psychology, and cool science while helping you build genuine self-discipline and motivation.

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PAST SERIES

Previous guests include Olympians, Scientists, Billionaires, and Sam's Mum.

Past series:

— Psychology vs Stoicism

— Time Management for Busy Mortals

— Independence and Knowing Yourself

— Cognitive Biases and Rational Thinking

— Psychology of Connection and Relationships

— Carol Dweck and the Multiverse of Mindsets

— Addiction and Behaviour Change

— Nervous System Mastery and Polyvagal Theory

— Mental Strength and Self-Discipline

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Social Sciences

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Most self-help advice is guesswork dressed up as wisdom. We dig into psychology, neuroscience, and behavioral science to find what actually changes lives. WHY LISTEN? Over 8 million downloads because we answer the questions that matter: How do I build mental strength? What creates lasting motivation? How can I understand my own mind well enough to work with it, not against it? This podcast is for curious skeptics who want frameworks backed by psychology studies, not Instagram quotes. Whether you're navigating procrastination, building self-discipline, or designing your own philosophy for a life well lived—we explore the hidden psychology behind real change. WHAT YOU'LL GET Mental models and simple techniques from cognitive psychology, positive psychology, and ancient wisdom traditions like Stoicism and Buddhism. Being a human can be confusing, learning about it doesn’t have to be. We cover everything from emotional intelligence and habit formation to brain health and the nervous system. WHAT YOU DON’T GET No pseudoscience. No oversimplified "hacks." No hustle porn. Just practical insights on mindset improvement, self-development, and human psychology that respect your intelligence and mental health. THE APPROACH Instead of telling you what to think, we explore how thinking works. Armed with psychology studies, social science research, and relentless curiosity, we uncover the mechanics of belief change, attitude change, and personal development. Success is personal. You might want to leverage your neurodiverse strengths, build a business, or simply discover how to be happier. We provide the mental frameworks to pursue your definition of success with mental strength and self-care that fits your life. YOUR HOST I'm Sam Webster Harris—a lifelong learner with ADHD and an obsession with finding answers to hard questions. After launching businesses, traveling the world, and nearly dying a few times, I concluded that psychology and science are where real wisdom lives. This show is my excuse to dive deep into health and fitness research, behavioral psychology, and cool science while helping you build genuine self-discipline and motivation. PREMIUM Go ad-free and access exclusive content, AMAs, and our community Discord. Growth Mindset Premium PAST SERIES Previous guests include Olympians, Scientists, Billionaires, and Sam's Mum. Past series: — Psychology vs Stoicism — Time Management for Busy Mortals — Independence and Knowing Yourself — Cognitive Biases and Rational Thinking — Psychology of Connection and Relationships — Carol Dweck and the Multiverse of Mindsets — Addiction and Behaviour Change — Nervous System Mastery and Polyvagal Theory — Mental Strength and Self-Discipline

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