Does The Narcissist Think About Me? Whether you're going no contact with someone with NPD or you're still in active codependency, you might wonder: does the narcissist think about me? Does the narcissist think about you after the discard? Short answer: yes, but not for the reasons one would hope. Let me explain.
For the average toxic narcissist, the discard leads to the "out of sight, out of mind" phenomenon. They don't see you as a whole person but as an extension of themselves. Their perception of relationships isn't the same as yours or mine - they see previous relationships sort of like they see their smartphones.
Sure, when they first got them, they were new and shiny and fast. They had new features. But eventually, they slowed down and they became obsolete. A newer, faster, better model came out. They quickly upgraded. Maybe they miss a feature or two, but in general, they don't dwell on their old phones.
Narcissists are infamous for going to revisit old flames, for sure. But you've got to know that it's not about the old flame. Instead, it is about what they can get from the former flame in the form of narcissistic supply.
I'll fill you in on the details of how narcissists return to you and why - and I'll explain exactly HOW they think of you (and your narcissistic supply) in this video.
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