This is part two of our conversation about the victim trap, and today I’m focusing on the reframe.

In this episode, I talk about what it actually takes to move out of a victim story once you recognize it. Reframing isn’t easy. It requires humility, courage, and a willingness to question the stories your own mind keeps telling you.

We’ll talk about how to spot victim thinking in your language, why some relationships keep us stuck, and the questions I ask myself when fear and control start to take over. Most of all, this episode is about remembering that you have a choice, and that choosing a new story can change how you show up in your life.

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In 2026, is passion more important than profitability in your business?

Because here’s what I’ve learned after 17 years of business:

Passion is life-giving. It fills you up and reminds you that your work matters.

Profitability is life-giving too, just in a different way.

It feeds your family, pays the bills, and gives you stability.

The problem is when either one drifts into an unhealthy place.

When passion turns into perfectionism and control. Or when profit turns into fear, pressure, and that heavy “I have no choice” mindset.

In this episode I’m sharing what it looked like when I started from pure overflow passion, what shifted over time, and how I found my way back without burning everything down.

I also walk through a few common scenarios business owners find themselves in and the five practical ways I’ve learned to re-balance purpose and profit.

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This week’s Weekly Dwell is a heavier (but important) conversation.

I’m talking about something that has stolen joy from my life in the past and still tries to creep in if I’m not careful: the victim trap.

This mindset shows up everywhere—in business, marriage, parenting, leadership, and friendships...and often hides behind our best qualities like perseverance, responsibility, and drive. In this episode, I share personal stories of how those gifts can quietly turn into self-sabotage when fear and control take over.

Part two is coming next week. Thanks for listening, and I’m really glad you’re here.

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The nature of something changes the outcome...and how that’s true in our walk with God. In this episode I'm sharing a simple, real-life story that led me to think about why faith can feel different in certain seasons, even when we’re doing the same outward things.

This is an invitation to slow down, seek Him more intentionally, and grow in understanding who He really is.

Scripture I’m dwelling on:

“If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.

Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.”

— Colossians 3:1–2 (ESV)

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What if you get to the end of your year and you feel...disappointed?

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend and teammate Becca for an honest conversation about what to do when your year doesn’t go the way you hoped.

We talk about the crossroads we all face when something flops or life throws a curveball.

Do you panic, pivot, pause, or persevere?

I share what 2025 has taught me about releasing control, letting go of unrealistic expectations, and choosing a healthier perspective on disappointment as we head into 2026.

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This is the final episode in our Advent Weekly Dwell series. I share how hope doesn’t usually become real for me by accident...it requires a decision.

The Christmas story reminds me that even when Jesus was born, very few people actually knew or recognized what had happened.

Hope entered the world quietly, and it had to be sought out.

It’s never too late to turn your heart toward Him. Even three days before Christmas, we can choose to seek, to soften, and to let the story of Jesus change us... and in turn, change how we show up for our families and our lives!

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As the year comes to a close, I’m sharing a different way to reflect on where you’ve been and where you’re headed.

Instead of asking what worked and what didn’t, I’m asking a deeper question: What still feels magnetic?

I walk through what has been truly life-giving for me this year, what has been heavy, and how I’m learning to pay attention to God’s leading instead of forcing excitement that isn’t there anymore.

If you’re feeling tired, conflicted, or unsure about what’s next, this episode is an invitation to pause, reflect, and tell yourself the truth.

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Welcome to week three of our Advent Weekly Dwell series. Today I’m talking about something I keep bumping into in my own life — how often I can’t see that what God is doing is actually what I’ve always needed, because it doesn’t look the way I expected.

I reflect on how people dismissed Jesus because He came in an unlikely way, and how I do the same thing when my story feels messy or off script. I share a friend’s surprise pregnancy that felt overwhelming until she found out she was carrying the girl she had prayed for...a reminder that God can be giving us the desire of our hearts in a form we don’t recognize at first!!

I also open up about my own health journey and the faith it takes to believe I’ll someday look back and see His hand in it. This episode is an invitation to trust that even when life doesn’t look “right,” God may still be writing something good.

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Last year I ate a steak and woke up in the middle of the night thinking, “This is it… I might actually die.”

My eyes were swollen shut, my body was one big hive, my blood pressure tanked and I collapsed on the bathroom floor. That night led to a diagnosis I had never even heard of before: alpha-gal syndrome, a tick-borne allergy to mammal products that so many people are being told is a life sentence.

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Welcome to week two of our Advent Weekly Dwell series. Today I’m sitting in a truth that keeps hitting me harder the more I think about it: Jesus didn’t have to come the way He did...but He chose to!!

I talk through why the humility of the Christmas story isn’t random or weak, but deeply intentional. God wasn’t after a power show. He was after connection. He came close, entered our world as a baby, and lived in our shoes so we could know His love and trust His heart.

This week I’m inviting my kids (and myself) to wrestle with the “why” behind the nativity, because the way He came reveals what the gospel has been about all along.

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