Doing Life Differently

Welcome to week three of our Advent Weekly Dwell series. Today I’m talking about something I keep bumping into in my own life — how often I can’t see that what God is doing is actually what I’ve always needed, because it doesn’t look the way I expected.

I reflect on how people dismissed Jesus because He came in an unlikely way, and how I do the same thing when my story feels messy or off script. I share a friend’s surprise pregnancy that felt overwhelming until she found out she was carrying the girl she had prayed for...a reminder that God can be giving us the desire of our hearts in a form we don’t recognize at first!!

I also open up about my own health journey and the faith it takes to believe I’ll someday look back and see His hand in it. This episode is an invitation to trust that even when life doesn’t look “right,” God may still be writing something good.

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Last year I ate a steak and woke up in the middle of the night thinking, “This is it… I might actually die.”

My eyes were swollen shut, my body was one big hive, my blood pressure tanked and I collapsed on the bathroom floor. That night led to a diagnosis I had never even heard of before: alpha-gal syndrome, a tick-borne allergy to mammal products that so many people are being told is a life sentence.

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Welcome to week two of our Advent Weekly Dwell series. Today I’m sitting in a truth that keeps hitting me harder the more I think about it: Jesus didn’t have to come the way He did...but He chose to!!

I talk through why the humility of the Christmas story isn’t random or weak, but deeply intentional. God wasn’t after a power show. He was after connection. He came close, entered our world as a baby, and lived in our shoes so we could know His love and trust His heart.

This week I’m inviting my kids (and myself) to wrestle with the “why” behind the nativity, because the way He came reveals what the gospel has been about all along.

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What if the thing that feels like a failure right now is actually part of what’s building your future?

Today I’m sharing 10 things I tried in my business that totally flopped. Some were embarrassing. Some were expensive. Some were dreams I was sure would work. And honestly, in the moment, a few of them made me wonder if I was cut out for entrepreneurship at all.

But looking back, I can see something I couldn’t see then: so many of my wins were born out of what didn’t work first.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through each flop, what it taught me, and how it quietly shaped what came next. And at the end I’m giving you a simple exercise I really want you to try — an “impact web” of your failures — to help you trace the dots between what hurt and what it’s producing.

If you’ve been sitting in disappointment, second-guessing yourself, or wondering if you’re falling behind… this is your reminder:

You can fail and still be on your way.

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Welcome to episode one of my four-part Advent Weekly Dwell series on having an intentional Christmas. Today I’m focusing on the kids, and the tension I feel every year between chasing the world’s version of “magic” and building a Christmas that actually has depth.

I’m reminding myself that a truly magical Christmas can’t come at the cost of my peace. If I’m stressed and running on fumes, that’s not the kind of season I want them to remember. I’m doing a heart check first, then choosing to define Christmas through both joy and meaning.

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For our family, the anchor tradition is the King Is Coming Advent Blocks.

We read the daily devotional, turn a block each night, and let that rhythm keep us centered on what this season is really about.

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"I want to suffer well." (What?!) Yes, suffering is going to happen. And it hasn't been the easiest season in my life currently, but it also has felt like the right season to start this podcast series of The Weekly Dwell. There is always purpose in the pain, and I'm using my life examples of what God is doing to transform my mind.

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In this episode, I’m sharing the first five changes I’d make if I were starting my crunchy, low-tox living journey all over again.

I didn’t grow up this way (hello, Diet Mountain Dew and gummy bears!), so these are the simple, realistic shifts that made the biggest difference for our family, especially after uncovering glyphosate, BPA, and heavy metals in our son’s lab work.

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This week, I’m sharing a reminder that’s been close to my heart: we were never meant to fight alone.

After a hard night of tears with Michael, I realized how deeply we need to let others in. To ask for prayer, for help, and for community when life feels too heavy.

If you’ve been walking through something quietly, this is your invitation to reach out. Let someone step into the fight with you.

Scripture I’m dwelling on:

“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” — Galatians 6:2

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This one is a wake-up call! I’m sharing the five patterns that quietly end wedding photography brands… and how to turn them around.

I’ve coached photographers for 17 years.

Within minutes, I can usually tell if a business will make it or burn out.

Today I walk through the five red flags I see most often. Use them as a mirror, not a verdict. You’ll hear simple markers for each red flag.

You’ll also get practical ways to shift into proactive systems, personal storytelling, and scalable workflows.

If this stings a little, take heart!

Awareness is step one, and every one of these is fixable.

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This week, I’m dwelling on what it means to ask God for manna for today.

When life feels overwhelming (financially, emotionally, or physically) it’s easy to pray for the big breakthrough. But lately, I’ve been learning to simply ask, “Lord, will You give me what I need for today?”

This shift has brought peace, clarity, and a deeper trust that He provides exactly what’s needed...no more, no less.

If you’re anxious about the future, this episode is your reminder:

You have enough for today… and He’ll meet you again tomorrow.

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