If your January plan sounds like punishment, restriction, or "I just need to get back on track," this episode is for you. In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, we're talking about an identity hangover - the space where your old diet culture identity doesn't fit anymore, but your brain keeps trying to live there anyway!

This conversation is for the woman who misses feeling confident in her body but refuses to go back to obsession to get it. We're unpacking why living like your life is one long diet cut stops working, why rest can feel like failure, and why chasing another plan, program, or motivation spike isn't the glow-up you think it is.

If you're heading into 2026 ready to stop shrinking, stop white-knuckling results, and start feeling powerful again, press play.

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Key Takeaways:

00:52 Life after bodybuilding and extreme dieting

01:26 Identity shifts and real transformation

03:43 Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass details

07:12 How to tell if you're in an identity hangover

10:57 Letting go of old identities that no longer fit

14:28 When obsession starts costing you your peace

17:33 Stepping into who you actually are

17:47 How to stay connected (newsletter info)

24:46 Choosing confidence and happiness now

25:52 Identity comes first, habits come second

27:09 Why unsustainable plans are a red flag

32:43 Practical ways to activate main character energy

36:16 Setting boundaries and learning to ask for help

40:35 Join the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass

Links Mentioned:

Join me for the Main Character Energy Activation Masterclass on January 13, 2026 - this is where the real shift begins → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/masterclass

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