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Martha Beck has earned a Harvard PhD in Psychology, written multiple New York time bestselling books and from them became Oprah's life coach. But her path there required her to lose nearly everything.

It started when she committed to spending a full year telling NO lies. That led to her revealing her horrific abuses at the hands of her Mormon upbringing, alienating herself from

friends, ending her marriage and having to rebuild her entire life from a place of joy instead of social obligation.

We talk about how most people ruin their lives by trying to fit in, how to find your true purpose and she pushes me to overcome the ways that I've been playing it safe. She even makes me cry a few times during this conversation. This podcast was beautifully scary for me and I loved chatting with her I hope you enjoy it too.

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On today's episode Charlie from Charisma on Command interviews Dr. Rob Henderson.

Rob Henderson's life story is out of a movie he never knew his father, was abandoned by his mother as a toddler, grew up in the foster care system in 10 different homes where he faced abuse, neglect and early substance abuse issues

But defying the odds he turned his life around and eventually graduated as a Cambridge PhD. He's since created one of the most viral ideas in sociology where he's now become well known for his idea of Luxury Beliefs the idea that the rich signal status through positions like defund the police or marriage isn't important and those positions actually hurt the poor.

We chat about Rob's life and what he has learned from such an incredible story.

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Joe Hudson is an executive coach, connection teacher and someone I have learned so much from. We talk about 5 of the most regretable and costly mistakes I was consistently making in my relationships, how those we costing me (and probably you) in life and business and how Joe's unique approach can resolve those mistakes so you see MASSIVE positive changes today.

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00:00 Intro

00:33 The Victim, Bully, Savior Identity

02:26 The Fear Triangle

06:15 Emotional Awareness and Vulnerability

11:49 Two Ways to Give Service

16:47 Listening is the Best Way to Communicate

21:30 Listen to Your Body

24:18 Why Invulnerability Works?

29:53 Covering Trauma with Anger

33:40 Align Your Actions with Your Emotions

39:01 Dealing with Abandonment and Resentment

44:38 Do What’s Truly Right for You

46:29 Identify the False End

49:46 Emotional Responsibility for Others

53:34 Aggression in Feeling Hurt

55:29 Would You Sell Your Business?

58:28 Passion for Self-Discovery

01:03:51 What’s the Best Gauge of Efficiency?

01:06:44 Confidence in Invulnerability

01:08:11 Do Well or Let Go

01:11:52 Evolution is Necessary

01:13:24 Feel Gratitude First

01:16:17 What’s a Loving Boundary?

01:20:20 The Connection Course

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Matthew Hussey is a relationship and confidence coach. Today we chat about what a decade of coaching almost exclusively women has taught him about modern dating, the key components of attraction and his upcoming book Love Life.

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00:00 Intro

00:40 Universal Content

02:32 The Bliss Point

06:56 Unhappy and Hurt

11:13 Dating the Same 5%

15:04 Initiating Conversations

17:54 Expectation Pressures

21:26 Take Away the Hidden Agenda

26:04 Flirt with the World

28:18 Internal Workaround for Introverts

33:21 The Two-Hit Theory

37:45 Certainty is a Valuable Trait

43:43 Trust Issues and Setting Boundaries

50:55 Success Coming From Insecurities

54:48 Why Should You Love Yourself?

01:01:44 Parental Love and Responsibilities

01:06:16 Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards

01:12:22 What is Hurting You?

01:16:47 The Greatest Life Lesson

01:18:13 Why We Choose Pain

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Teal Swan is a Youtuber and spiritual teacher.

We chat about what childhood traumas lead to narcissism, what a soul retrieval is and how you can do and if claims of remote viewing, ESP and seeing auras are legitimate

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00:00 Intro

01:09 - Reaction to Theo Von and Tony Robbins Interview

04:16 - How Narcissism Starts

08:59 - Developing the Chronic Manipulation Skill

11:33 - Dysfunctional Family

13:23 - What is Emotional Incest

16:39 - Is It Love or Just an Energy Exchange?

19:42 - The Rigid Idea of a Healthy Relationship

22:26 - This is What Abusive Relationships Do to You

26:41 - Sexual Compatibility Impacts Relationship Compatibility

30:15 - The Difference in Personality Preference

34:45 - Healing Inside a New Relationship

39:18 - What is Soul Retrieval?

44:33 - Little Moments, Huge Impact

50:10 - An Template for Success

55:30 - Diversity and Wokeism

59:57 - Dichotomy Versus Discrepancy

01:03:38 - Human Beings are Overly Identified

01:07:27 - How Can You Inspire Trust?

01:10:17 - Technology is Our Slave

01:11:23 - Is AI Developing Consciousness?

01:13:08 - Ancestral Trauma

01:17:08 - Being Aware of Your Own Gifts

01:23:06 - Where to Find Teal?

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Men today have a strange problem. Many of them are just too nice for their own good.

Doctor Robert Glover helps them fix that. Not so that they can become sociopaths or jerks. But so that they can become confident, assertive grown ups who don’t have to resort to manipulation or people pleasing to get their needs met.

We discuss what childhood experiences create nice guy syndrome, why nice guys are on the rise in the last 50 years and how to shift into men that women are actually deeply attracted to and more importantly that respect themselves

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00:00 Intro

00:43 Nice Guy No More?

04:30 The Nice Guy Persona

09:15 How Childhood Uncomfortable Feelings Affect Adulthood

15:19 How Your Relationship Shapes Your Partner

17:47 Don’t Trade Your Purpose for Romance

22:43 Positive Emotional Tension

26:36 The Masculine and Feminine Polarity

30:12 We All Have Masculine and Feminine Energy Within Us

40:43 The Guilt of Returning the Favor Received

45:44 Hidden and Repressed Pleasure of Sexuality

55:22 How Do We Unwire Sexual Shame?

01:01:02 The Share-Test Method

01:05:52 You Control Your Own Sexuality

01:10:15 Take the Shame Away

01:18:50 Learn How to Defend Your Needs

01:22:40 The Concept of Differentiation

01:27:13 Staying Monogamous Without Sacrificing Sexual Freedom

01:32:06 Tension Between Being You and Meeting Your Partner’s Needs

01:34:39 Why Do Men Grow Up Pleasing Women?

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Dr. Richard Schwartz is world leading psychotherapist who in the 1980s develop a revolutionary branch of therapy called Internal Family Systems (IFS).

We chat about how people have split personality or "parts", why past traumas are unconsciously keeping you stuck and how 16 IFS sessions can cure anxiety, stress and even PTSD.

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00:00 Intro

01:32 What is IFS?

04:17 How IFS Can Help with Anxiety

06:20 Unlocking a Part of You

08:09 The Other Side of Having Multiple Personalities

11:03 The 8 C’s We All Have

13:24 No Bad Parts, Just Extreme Experiences

15:56 The Negative Effects of Childhood Abuse

19:56 One of the Goals of IFS

20:46 Men’s Mental Health

24:23 Constraining Masculinity

30:17 The Story of an Activist with a Traumatic Past

33:57 Defining Your True Self

35:45 Spirituality and Meditation

39:48 Here’s How to Get to Know Your Inner Self Better

54:02 Other Options to Help with IFS

55:09 Taking in the Energy of the Abuser

59:22 How to Get Yourself Out of Negative Thoughts

01:00:53 Punishment Versus Discipline

01:01:34 Where to Find Dick Schwartz

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On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about the source of creativity, why he started eating meat again and his reaction to the Hasan Minaj apology.

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Andrew Herr is an expert in human performance who developed biotech strategy for the US military including the Navy Seals.

We chat about the terrible health advice from the US government including the "food pyramid", how Public Health lies have left the average American unsure how to improve their lives and how to use your personal health data to optimize your focus and mood...

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00:00 Intro

01:08 You Can’t Trust the Government

03:48 Debunking Health Fads

06:52 Customized Approach to Staying Healthy

10:38 10 Things People Care Most About

13:08 Anxiety's Impact on the Immune System

14:22 How Food and Lifestyle are Poisoning Us

21:00 The Dangers of Ultra Processed Food

24:49 Why Do We Crave Sugar?

26:27 How to Fix Your Immune System

29:46 Burnout and Stress

33:46 Drug Addiction

35:00 Was COVID Lockdown Ineffective?

38:08 Obesity Drugs Don’t Work

43:28 Figure Out What Works For You

51:19 Testosterone Boost

52:57 Performance Enhancers

1:00:26 Food Allergy Tests

1:01:48 The Elimination Diet

1:04:00 Ways to Get Better Sleep

1:06:08 Service Fount Offers

1:10:30 Where to Find Fount

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Rian Doris  @riandoris  is the co-founder of the Flow Research Collective where he teaches people to reliably enter the flow state for higher performance in life's most high pressure situations. He also owns several other businesses including sam ovens's Consulting.com which he purchased from him earlier this year.

We chat about developing rock solid intuition, the most important leadership lessons for 8-figure businesses and Rian's incredible story of overcoming a traumatic brain injury as a teenager.

Rian is so sharp and I really love this conversation so I hope you do too!

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00:00 Intro

00:57 Early Start in Business

02:08 Becoming Steven Cotler’s Intern

04:07 What is Intuition?

07:03 How Sports Give Rise to Flow State

09:35 Brand Growth

11:40 Life After a Severe Head Injury

17:01 How to Maximize Optionality and Opportunity

20:11 Decreased Sense of Self Consciousness

22:44 The Future of Humans and AI

25:11 Limitless Material Abundance?

27:21 Memes Versus Genes

30:50 The Fundamental Unit of Any Business

35:11 How to Recruit the Best Talents

42:47 Intuition Made Practical

47:00 The Ultimate Success Killer

52:43 Two Productivity Networks of the Brain

55:12 Single Focus Versus Strategic Neglect

57:48 Top Two Sources of Happiness

1:00:10 Investing in Your Happy Space

1:03:53 Intersection Between Goals and Belonging

1:05:39 Digital Nomad is Overrated

1:07:57 Practicing the Flow Teaching

1:10:53 The Truth About Strategic Neglect

1:14:58 Learn More About Rian

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