Dr. Nicole LePera is a clinical psychologist and owner of the Holistic Psychologist.

We chat about the three core human needs, the subtle ways people compensate for not having those needs met and the steps that anyone can take to feel more authentically confident and connected to their true self.

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TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Intro

00:17 3 Core Emotional Needs

05:27 Becoming Self-Aware

11:07 Generational Empathy

14:14 The Struggle OF Well-Meaning Parents

18:59 Breaking Free From Repetitive Patterns

23:02 Listen To Your Body

28:33 Noticing Stress And Its Needs

32:51 Rooted in Familiarity

34:53 Craving Authenticity

38:57 What Alone Time Signifies

45:32 Trigger Points: What Do You Respond To?

48:19 In Self-Preservation Mode

52:42 Trapped in Outdated Notions

59:05 Respectful Expression Of Your Perspective

1:02:40 Embracing Flexible Boundaries

1:09:34 Childlike Tendency To Personalize

1:15:20 Grounds for Seeking Personal Space

1:20:59 Emotional Gaps In Adults

1:28:13 The Dynamics Of Secure Relationships

1:32:06 The First Step To Ultimate Healing

1:36:02 Our Ties to Everything

1:41:32 Learn More About SelfHealers Circle

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James Sexton is a divorce lawyer in high-conflict cases. He wrote the book How To Stay In Love based on his nearly 3 decades of inside access to the explosive end of relationships

We chat about why people grow to hate the ones they love, why marriage is a broken technology, how to craft the perfect prenup to avoid financial ruin, and the most important rule for not having your relationship end in a divorce.

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00:00 - Intro

00:24 Divorce And Death

06:28 The Inevitability of Mortality

08:12 The Significance of Your Choice

10:22 The Role of Marriage

17:00 What's Worth Holding On To?

22:54 The Anti-Cheating Factor

28:20 How Sex Drives Successful Relationships

30:40 The Perfect Prenup: Yours, Mine, Ours

39:16 Men and Marriage

48:38 Winning an Unjust Court Case

58:20 Wealth's Influence on Justice

1:00:04 Child Support: Legal Obligations Explained

1:04:01 Making the Uncomfortable Your Ally

1:07:52 Relationship Advice: Disappoint Your Partner

1:11:43 The Threat of Inner Insecurities

1:13:48 Core Needs

1:18:00 Where James Learned Charisma

1:25:01 How Conflict is Good For Couples

1:27:21 Arguments

1:34:37 Learn More About James Sexton

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On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks Jordan Peterson’s Mental Model of Betrayal and the “Blind Side” Lawsuit

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00:00 What Are Mental Models?

04:41 Processing Hurt From Others

09:59 Tears: Manipulation Tool Or Genuine Emotion?

12:12 Regrets Of An Elderly Man

17:04 Finding Peace in Non-Achievement

20:01 When Doing Nothing Speaks Volumes

21:41 Transcending Fear of Death

24:47 Michael Oher Speaks Up About Adoption Lie

29:36 Exploiting Opportunities for Personal Gain

31:27 Developing Better Instincts in Tough Choices

33:46 Logan and Jake Paul’s Clash of Perspectives

37:39 Kevin Spacey Got Hard Canceled

38:33 Innocent Fearlessness in Kids

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Doctor Orion Taraban is a clinical psychologist and owner of the PsycHacks Youtube channel. @psychacks    

In this episode we discuss the psychology of dating, the behavioral economics of dating and how those two things make men and women have very different incentives and approaches

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TIMESTAMPS

00:00 INTRO

00:14 Why Women Go to Therapy 3 Times More Than Men

03:27 Is Therapy Better Fit for Women?

05:58 Men Find External Solutions to Internal Problems

10:55 Why Modern Men Are Struggling in Dating

13:30 Learning to Deal With Rejection

15:50 The Romantic Ideal: Men Have Been Lied To

20:53 Society’s Definition of Love Is Toxic

23:22 Jesus: How Much Sacrifice Does Love Require?

27:59 Loving Without Expecting Anything in Return

30:23 "Love People Like Cats"

32:29 Wounded People Recreate Their Traumatic Relationships

35:05 The Crossroads: Where Decisions Really Matter

37:14 How to Avoid Being Blinded by Emotions

39:27 Stopping Negative Thought Cycles

44:23 The Core of Mental Disorders: “Self-Focused Attention”

45:34 The Surprising Power of Stepping Away From Alcohol

47:22 The Black Pill: Young Men Giving Up on Life

51:46 The Antidote to Hopelessness

53:10 Being a Young Man Is Tough

54:49 Should You “Grind Out” Your 20s?

57:11 What It Means to Be a Man in 2023

1:01:19 The Changing Definitions of Masculinity and Femininity

1:05:05 Masculinity: “To Have a Spine and to Have a Pair”

1:07:40 Covid and Conformity

1:09:56 Having a Healthy Level of Self-Doubt

1:11:21 When Should You Stand Up Against the Crowd?

1:13:54 Is “Masculinity/Femininity” a Productive Framework?

1:17:30 Why Women Are Frustrated With Modern Dating

1:20:26 “Women Are Still Waiting for the Offer”

1:22:12 Why 99% of Women Will Be Disappointed

1:26:23 Can Evolutionary Psychology Explain Dating?

1:28:15 Forming Relationships: Can Compatibility Beat Status?

1:30:24 Beauty Doesn’t Make a Happy Relationship

1:32:04 “Find Your Ugly Duckling”

1:33:26 The Dark Horse Strategy

1:35:41 Debate: Do Looks/Finances Really Matter That Much?

1:39:16 Personality Disorders = Childhood Coping Mechanisms

1:41:39 Uncovering Internal Wounds Without Becoming a Victim

1:47:33 Can You Take on Too Much Responsibility?

1:48:59 You’re Not Always the Problem

1:51:16 The Pros and Cons of Spirituality

1:54:22 The Point of Religion: “A Felt Connection With the Divine”

1:57:37 People Never Love Each Other Exactly the Same Amount

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On today's episode Charlie from Charisma on Command interviews Dr. Rob Henderson.

Rob made it out of the chaos of poverty and foster care system to eventually receive his PHD from Yale

We talk about the psychology of poverty, status games of the elites and class warfare.

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0:00 INTRO

0:12 Every Name Has a Story to Tell

02:48 Becoming Successful Against All Odds

07:39 Poverty Comes in Many Forms

11:06 Why Young People Like Jordan Peterson

15:00 Finding Meaning in Serving Others

17:59 The Nuclear Family vs Community Parenting

21:03 The West Has Lost Community

25:30 Individualism and the Pursuit of “Happiness”

28:41 The 1% Rule: People Who Post Online Are Weird

36:06 Being “High Class” Is More Than Being Wealthy

39:33 Why Should You Care About Your Social Class?

41:48 “Status Is at Least as Important as Money”

44:37 Should You Pursue Status?

49:20 How the Classes Think About Wealth Differently

55:05 Luxury Beliefs: The New Way to Show Status

59:56 The Real Consequences of “Defund the Police”

1:05:47 The Hypocrisy of the Covid Lockdowns

1:09:08 The Dark Side of Promoting Promiscuity

1:15:34 The Elites Are Setting a Bad Example for Society

1:21:04 The Truth About “Class Warfare”

1:25:40 What Can We Do to Bring People Together?

1:27:57 Is It Worth It to Work in Politics?

1:30:26 Check Out Rob on Substack

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On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about the 5 Personality Patterns, Anima Projection and Oprah's Book "What Happened to You?"

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0:00 The 5 Personality Patterns

1:06 #1: Leaving

2:05 #2: Merging

5:34 #3: Enduring

10:40 #4: Aggressive

13:06 Your Personality Pattern Isn’t Always the Same

14:32 The Downside of Each Personality Pattern

18:00 #5: Rigid

21:12 How the Personality Patterns Interact

25:42 Touching Your Core: Knowing What You Really Want

30:07 You’re Not Just One Pattern

30:50 The Subtle Art of Finding the Dose You Need

35:57 The Dark Side of the Subconscious Mind

38:59 “What Happened to You?”

41:56 Anima/Animus Projection: “Much of What We Call Love”

46:08 The Problem With Saying “You Complete Me”

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On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about Robert Bly's book "Iron John", masculinity and why young men look up to YouTube pranksters

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0:00 The Tension Between Feminism and Masculinity

1:01 Iron John: A Story of Becoming a Man

4:54 The History of “Toxic Masculinity”

7:44 Male Role Models Have Disappeared

10:30 Why Young Men Look Up to YouTube Pranksters

13:15 Shame: Society’s Greatest Control Mechanism

16:43 Seeking Love Instead of Validation

17:57 James Franco and Redefining Addiction

21:49 You’re Blind to the Blessings in Your Life

24:19 It’s Scary to Fulfill Your Unique Destiny

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On today's episode Charlie from Charisma on Command interviews Andrew Henderson aka Nomad Capitalist

His company Nomad Capitalist helps people relocate, lower their tax burden and upgrade their lifestyle

We talk about why he feels the U.S. is offering a bad deal to its taxpayers, the ethics of trying to reduce or even eliminate your taxes and how Andrew's own childhood struggles shaped his philosophy of going where you are treated best.

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⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 Intro

0:19 Becoming Successful Isn’t What You Expect

3:31 Can You Take Too Much Responsibility?

6:14 Working Through Codependency

8:11 Running a Business Shows You Your Weaknesses

11:24 What Matters to You as You Become Highly Successful?

14:49 The Most Important Part of Being an Entrepreneur

18:10 Social Media Crushes Self-Confidence

21:55 The Underrated Power of Vulnerability on the Internet

24:55 The Philosophy of “Go Where You’re Treated Best”

27:56 Do Any Industries Play Fair?

31:32 Your Hometown Might Not Be the Best Place for You

34:48 The US Has the Best Branding

37:56 How Much Do People Deserve to Be Taxed?

42:04 Is the West Falling Behind?

44:51 Forced Entrepreneurship: “The World Is Becoming a Competitive Place”

48:00 Nomad Capitalist on Peter Zeihan’s Predictions

51:49 How Do Americans Avoid Taxes?

55:54 The Puerto Rico Loophole: Will It Be Closed?

58:58 How Will Crypto Change the Future?

1:02:31 Crypto Has Major Problems

1:03:25 There Are Plenty of Countries to Move To

1:04:20 The Crisis of Privacy in the West

1:05:45 Overcoming the “If I Get This, I’ll Be Happy” Mindset

1:08:31 The Importance of Enjoying the Fruits of Your Labor

1:10:02 A New Content Strategy for Nomad Capitalist

1:13:50 More Views Doesn’t Equal More Value

1:19:37 Where You Can Find Nomad Capitalist

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On today's Dropping In Podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command interviews Steven Bonnell, aka Destiny. Destiny is an internet personality and progressive political commentator.

Destiny explains his thoughts on Jordan Peterson, dating in 2023, debating Milo Yiannopoulos and much more!

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0:00 How Destiny Crushed Milo Yiannopoulos

3:21 How to Respond to Insults Without Being Rude

4:16 The Cheapest Debate Tactic: “How Dare You”

5:58 Winning a Debate Is More Than Having Better Logic

10:51 The Danger of Being Locked Into an Ideology

13:00 Why Destiny Believes Andrew Tate Is Guilty

14:17 How to Change Your Mind Without Embarrassing Yourself

19:47 Destiny’s Best Tactic Against Red Pillers

21:29 Destiny: “F*ck Everybody That’s Ever Told Me This”

22:24 The Unfair Advantage of Having High Conviction

25:12 Jordan Peterson: The Benefit of Going Against the Grain

28:37 What’s the Antidote to the Red Pill?

33:14 Destiny’s Dating Philosophy

37:08 The Real Reason Destiny Is So Good at Talking to Girls

41:12 It’s Really Hard to Be a Young Man Nowadays

45:10 Make Politics Local Again

48:26 How Social Media Influences Politics

49:48 “Your Brain Is Not Built for Truth”

52:43 How Important Is Pursuing the Truth?

54:03 The Secret to Destiny’s Recent Success

56:36 The Underrated Advantage of Being More Feminine

1:02:05 Destiny Is Changing His Image

1:05:10 The Universal Appeal of Drama

1:06:13 Destiny on Becoming More Disciplined

1:08:09 What Motivates Destiny to Strive for More

1:09:50 How Destiny Made the Most Active Community in the World

1:11:22 How Destiny Deals With Losing Friends

1:15:00 Destiny on the Supreme Court’s Ruling on Student Loans

1:16:45 What’s Next for Destiny?

1:17:14 Why the Red Pill Is Crumbling

1:20:00 Destiny on Trump vs Desantis

1:22:59 How Trump Built a Cult Following

1:25:33 What Makes Destiny’s Content Strategy Unique

1:29:44 Role Models for Young Men Have Vanished

1:37:07 Is Destiny a Role Model?

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On today's episode Charlie from Charisma on Command interviews Alok Kanojia aka Healthy Gamer

Dr. K is a Harvard trained Doctor, real life Monk and massive Twitch streamer who has helped millions of people improve their mental health.

We talk the mental epidemic in the west, how to detect and resolve your mental issues and his perspective on the ultimate meaning of life

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⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 Intro

0:33 Dr. K’s Story: Video Game Addict to Harvard Researcher

4:05 The Hidden Power of Alternative Medicine

5:16 Meditation: A “Medical Impossibility”

7:07 Why Are We Having a Mental Health Crisis?

14:30 Technology’s Role in Mental Illness

17:07 What Makes a Distraction Healthy vs Toxic?

18:06 How Gamers Are Just Like Gamblers

20:35 Why Are Young Men Struggling So Much?

24:42 Dr. K on Red Pill: Should Men Be More Emotional?

30:59 The Invisible Trauma Behind Toxic Ideologies

35:53 Medicine vs Spirituality

39:00 Stop Caring About What You “Should” Do

42:26 How to Detach From the Expectations of Others

45:30 What Makes Sociopaths Choose to Act Morally?

47:30 What Makes You, You?

51:22 Having Awareness Without Thinking

57:06 Why Dr. K Is Grateful for Almost Failing College

1:00:44 Nothing Is Objectively Good or Bad

1:02:48 The Danger of Toxic Positivity

1:05:08 The Steps to Becoming Enlightened

1:10:20 Dr. K Is “Cautiously Optimistic” on Psychedelics

1:16:10 How You Can See Into Your Past Lives

1:17:59 Are Past Life Memories Actually Real?

1:21:16 Your Parents Can Pass Down Memories to You

1:24:45 How to Get Closer to Your Intuition

1:28:46 Information vs Understanding

1:31:29 Dr. K’s Best Mindfulness Practices

1:36:05 Why Chakras Are “100% Real and Mostly BS”

1:43:40 The Fundamental Nature of Reality (In Five Minutes)

1:50:05 What Is a Soul?

1:52:50 Outro

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