In this revealing episode of Conscious Dominance, Eric explores the nuanced difference between momentary "choking" and complete "collapse" in relationships, particularly within DS dynamics. Eric draws a powerful distinction between the inevitable moments when we energetically "choke" and the deeper pattern of full emotional collapse that can follow. Through vulnerable personal examples and client stories, Eric demonstrates how these momentary interruptions of presence become the foundation for growth when handled with consciousness. The most profound trust and erotic connection often emerge not from perfect performance, but from our ability to return to presence after briefly losing it.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

Kicking off Season 5 of Conscious Dominance, Eric reveals the counterintuitive first step to masculine leadership and relationship dynamics: mastering the art of saying "no" to yourself through self-discipline. Challenging conventional wisdom, he explains that before you can authentically practice conscious relationships and dominance, you must first develop unwavering self-mastery by intentionally abstaining from pleasures and distractions – the foundation of inner dominance. Eric provides tactical guidance on building this crucial skill through intentional restraint, spiritual discipline, and facing uncomfortable emotions head-on. Whether you're seeking a conscious framework to transform your relationships or simply strengthen your emotional resilience through self-control, this episode offers a provocative glimpse into how true dominance begins with the power of no and personal growth.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

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About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric revisits impactful moments from Seasons 3 and 4. Focusing on mindful leadership, personal growth, and the intricacies of committed relationships, episodes feature Andrew from Infinite Devotion and Rachael Dunville from Aerosha. The episode delves into the importance of taking responsibility, communicating clearly, and living authentically. Practical insights and personal anecdotes highlight the journey from unconscious dominance to conscious dominance, emphasizing the importance of grit, grace, and ongoing self-reflection.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Andrew

You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man: https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man-1

Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on Youtube or by clicking here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcasts/dom-sub-devotion

About Rachael

Fondly known as a sensory-sommelier and catalytic-conversationalist, Rachael Dunville works globally as an avant-garde intimacy artist and movement muse at her acclaimed company AEROSHA, founded in 2008.

Schedule a 1:1 session with Rachael here: https://aerosha.as.me/schedule/c588dcc1/appointment/11783628/calendar/2143007?appointmentTypeIds[]=11783628

Learn more about Rachael & AEROSHA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aerosha/

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this special episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric celebrates the one-year anniversary of the podcast by sharing a compilation of highlights from Seasons one and two. Eric reflects on the past year’s discussions about mindful leadership, inner dominance, and the dynamics of dominant-submissive relationships. Key topics include taking ownership, embracing challenges, presence, vulnerability, and the importance of self-awareness and compassion in personal growth. Join Eric as he explores the powerful balance between dominance and sensitivity, and the transformative journey of continuous self-improvement.

Join the new DSRX newsletter if you're interested in weekly reminders and core insights from our episodes.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

ABOUT ANDREW

Learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/dominants

See all of Andrew & Dawn's courses and offerings at: https://infinitedevotion.com/store

Andrew also hosts the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of his D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion at https://infinitedevotion.com or on Spotify, Apple, or any other Podcasting platform!

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

Work with Eric and Rachael here.

In this raw, unfiltered episode of Conscious Dominance, Eric and Rachael dive deep into one of the most misunderstood aspects of masculine energy - the beast mode that lies dormant in many men. Why can't some men access their primal instincts? What blocks the killer energy that creates profound polarity and attraction? Through vulnerable conversation and personal insights, they explore how integrated darkness becomes a source of power rather than shame. This episode traverses the delicate balance between animal s/xuality and conscious containment, revealing how feminine hosting creates the sacred container for masculine expression. For those seeking to understand the shadow aspects of s/xuality and relationship dynamics, this conversation illuminates the path toward embodied wholeness where both tenderness and ferocity coexist.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Rachael

Fondly known as a sensory-sommelier and catalytic-conversationalist, Rachael Dunville works globally as an avant-garde intimacy artist and movement muse at her acclaimed company AEROSHA, founded in 2008.

Schedule a 1:1 session with Rachael here: https://aerosha.as.me/schedule/c588dcc1/appointment/11783628/calendar/2143007?appointmentTypeIds[]=11783628

Learn more about Rachael & AEROSHA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aerosha/

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this thought-provoking episode of Conscious Dominance, Eric explores the concept of "embracing the suck" within dominant/submissive relationships, introducing his Dynamic Sexual Relationship Expansion (DSRX) methodology. He challenges traditional DS dynamics by advocating for a container that allows feminine expression and expansion rather than control or suppression. Eric discusses how true dominance requires masculine ego death while encouraging authentic feminine voice. The episode culminates with eight powerful reflection questions that invite listeners to examine their own relationship patterns:

1. Where do I feel the urge to control rather than host?
2. When triggered, can I see this as an opportunity for ego death and growth?
3. How might I be suppressing my own truth or encouraging my partner to suppress her truth or their truth?
4. What pattern of self silencing and self betrayal do I recognize in myself or my partner?
5. How can I create a container that allows for expansion rather than restriction?
6. Where do I need to grow up to hold space for my partner's full expression?
7. Am I willing to feel like hell sometimes as a part of this growth process?
8. How can I get the tools to hold myself and alchemize my hell into love?

Are you ready to transform your relationship through conscious dominance and true polarity?Connect with Eric and Rachel today through the links provided and begin your journey toward relationship mastery.

About Conscious Dominance

CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE PODCAST began as a candid weekly conversation between two friends, Eric and Andrew, exploring what it means to lead with integrity in long-term, loving relationships. Over time, it evolved into a deeper inquiry—one that unravels the nuances of inner dominance, self-mastery, and the craft of consciousness.

The podcast continues to evolve as Eric welcomes new dialogues from guests offering practical wisdom on love, leadership, service, and connection—guiding you toward unwavering presence and self-trust. Join our growing community as we navigate the art of Conscious Dominance.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

About Andrew

You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.

Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.

In this raw, explorative episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric reveals the transformative power of three words women truly crave: "I got you." Beyond empty promises, these words demand embodied truth—a masculine capacity to anticipate rather than merely react. The invisible burden women carry creates relationship imbalance, where married men thrive while women burn out. This episode offers actionable wisdom on creating the container for genuine feminine surrender. The path demands attunement to her nervous system, mastery of transitions, and unwavering presence that holds space without defensiveness. Are you ready to develop the situational awareness and emotional competence that transforms these words from hollow promise to lived reality?

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Andrew

You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.

Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this paradigm-shifting episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric dismantles the illusion that dominance means control over others, revealing instead a powerful truth: true masculine leadership emerges through the art of hosting. Drawing from Japanese culture, Tommy Shelby's penetrative presence, and high-end hospitality, he illuminates how consciously holding space for others creates loyalty no force ever could. Are you still approaching power as dominance rather than service? Discover why the most powerful men aren't those who demand attention but those who masterfully anticipate needs, read subtle cues, and take complete responsibility for the experience of those in their care—creating a magnetic field of trust few can resist.

About Conscious Dominance

CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE PODCAST began as a candid weekly conversation between two friends, Eric and Andrew, exploring what it means to lead with integrity in long-term, loving relationships. Over time, it evolved into a deeper inquiry—one that unravels the nuances of inner dominance, self-mastery, and the craft of consciousness.

The podcast continues to evolve as Eric welcomes new dialogues from guests offering practical wisdom on love, leadership, service, and connection—guiding you toward unwavering presence and self-trust. Join our growing community as we navigate the art of Conscious Dominance.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

About Andrew

You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.

Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.

In this episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric reveals the foundational principle that separates conscious leaders from reactive beings: mastering the space between stimulus and response. Drawing from Viktor Frankl's timeless wisdom, Eric guides you through the craft of emotional mastery—a practice essential for every man committed to embodied presence and relationship mastery. He shares practical insights and techniques, including breathing exercises, changing settings, and naming emotions, to transform triggered moments into opportunities for growth. The most profound journey isn't outward—it's mastering your inner dominance. This episode offers practical wisdom for those ready to take complete responsibility for their emotional landscape and transform relationships through intentional living. He also introduces resources like Aerosha's "Mental Mudroom" and his free Reactive Reset, offering 10 reset practices.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric confronts the invisible undercurrent destroying relationships: men's fear of embarrassment colliding with women's need for safety. Recording in the raw aftermath of his own emotional trigger with Rachael, he unveils how masculine anger masks deeper shame while feminine expression emerges from a perpetual state of emergency response. The breakthrough revelation? Men avoid situations where they might appear incompetent while women develop competence purely to ensure safety. Eric introduces his transformative "emergency room doctor" approach, challenging men to embody the four essential C's—Competence, Confidence, Context, and Clarity—while remaining an unshakable presence during feminine emotional storms.

Grab a free copy of Eric's Reactive Reset—a guide offering men actionable tools to reclaim calm and presence when emotions start to take over.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.