Date with Cents

DWC REWIND: Prayed, Waited, and Pissed


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“How come it’s the ones who engage in premarital sex that are getting married and yet we who have been sticking to our principles, trying to do things God’s way and praying for years are still waiting (and getting older by the day?)”


I’m always seeing variations of this question in online communities where women of faith reside. 


What these women don’t realize is that beneath the surface of this question there is entitlement, false superiority and a misinterpretation of what it means to be celibate. 


I hopped on the mic to rant about this question and to give some perspective on what the Bible really reveals to us when it comes to love, sex and marriage. 


Here’s what you’ll discover: 


  • The truth about why “good girls” who keep their legs closed aren’t getting married


  • How “Biblical Marriage” is highly overrated and why no woman truly wants it. 


  • The danger of fantasizing the Bible and romanticizing marriage


  • Why women of faith need to stop waiting for their “Boaz”


  • What it looks like to choose to abstain from sex from a position of power



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  • How you can work with me in my private mentorship program, Curved 2 Cuffed. You can find more information at curved2cuffed.com/details. 


Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed



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