Pillow Talks

E199: Am I The Asshole? Masturbation, Snooping, and Jealousy


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We’re back with a fan-favorite series—Am I The Asshole? 🎉 You know we love diving into the wildest relationship dilemmas, and today’s lineup is extra spicy.


We’re tackling situations that might hit way too close to home, like:


🚨 Masturbating - do you have to tell your partner every time?

🚨 Journaling about a past relationship—cheating or harmless?

🚨 Going through a partner’s phone (they found what?? 👀)

🚨 A partner picking up an annoying new voice… and refusing to drop it


Sounds messy, right? We’re breaking it ALL down, sharing our takes on who’s the asshole, and of course—we want to hear yours too!


Get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe rethink your own opinions on these situations!


🎧 Want More AITA?

If you love these episodes, don’t miss our past Am I The Asshole? deep dives:

🎧 EP 187EP 155EP 135EP 125



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