EBBS & FLOWS with Erin

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In this episode, I’m diving into a lesson I learned in therapy that changed my life; understanding the difference between fitting in and belonging, & why confusing the two can leave you feeling disconnected, unseen, and misunderstood.

Inspired by insights from Brené Brown’s Atlas of the Heart and lessons from my own therapy journey, I talk about why fitting in often means abandoning yourself, and how you can start giving yourself permission to show up as your true, authentic self.

If you’ve ever felt like you had to tone yourself down, stay quiet to keep the peace, or play a version of yourself just to be liked, this episode is for you. I’m also sharing practical ways to begin reconnecting with who you really are; especially if you’ve been hiding for so long that you’re not even sure anymore.

This is about rebuilding self-trust, honouring your truth, and finding the kind of connection that doesn’t require you to perform.

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Takeaways
Fitting in often leads to abandoning our true selves.
Belonging is a fundamental human need.
Authenticity fosters genuine connections.
Self-acceptance is crucial for true belonging.
Vulnerability is necessary for building relationships.
Societal pressures can hinder our sense of belonging.
Spending time alone helps in self-discovery.
What we lose in the process of being authentic is for the best.

Chapters
01:30 Fitting In vs. Belonging: An Introduction
06:08 Understanding Fitting In vs. Belonging: Brene Brown's Atlas of the Heart
10:01 The Journey to Authenticity
14:14 The Importance of Self-Discovery
18:36 Building Genuine Connections and Boundaries

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The full moon has a way of bringing things to the surface — our emotions, our thoughts, even the stuff we’ve been avoiding. But what if, instead of feeling overwhelmed by it, we learned to work with it?

In this episode, I’m sharing 5 simple and supportive things you can do during a full moon to feel more grounded, clear, and connected. These aren’t complicated rituals — they’re gentle practices that help you reflect, release what’s weighing you down, and reconnect with yourself and the natural rhythms around you.

Whether you’re feeling a little off around the full moon or just want to bring more intention into your month, this episode will guide you back to center — without the pressure to do it perfectly.

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Takeaways
The full moon affects us emotionally and energetically.
Working with the lunar cycle enhances self-awareness.
Decluttering your space can amplify the energy of release.
Embracing periods of darkness is essential for experiencing light.
Video journaling can be a powerful tool for reflection.
Movement should be enjoyable to activate life force energy.
Connecting with nature helps us remember our place in the universe.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Full Moon Energy
04:03 Understanding the Impact of the Full Moon
07:13 Five Practices for Full Moon Rituals

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If you tend to spiral with “what if” thoughts and worst-case scenarios, this episode is for you. In less than 15 minutes, I’m sharing one powerful mindset shift that changed everything for me: moving from “What if it all goes wrong?” to “What if it all works out better than I can even imagine?”  This simple reframe has become a #1 go-to tool for easing anxiety, softening overthinking, and building trust in life. If you’re looking for a gentle but empowering perspective shift, press play.

Try This Mindset Shift Next Time You’re Spiralling: Anxiety Relief | Stop Overthinking

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Takeaways
Negativity bias leads us to focus on fear-based thoughts.
Reframing thoughts can create space for positivity.
The phrase 'What if everything works out better than I can even imagine?' is powerful.
Repetition helps rewire our brain and nervous system.
It's okay to not fully believe in the shift at first.
Celebrating small victories in managing anxiety is important.
Overthinking is normal and pausing to redirect your mind is a big win.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Anxiety and Spiraling

02:19 Understanding Negativity Bias and Its Impact

03:46 The Mindset Shift: What if Everything Works Out?

05:59 The Power of Positive Reframing

08:48 Practical Applications of the Mindset Shift

12:03 Conclusion and Encouragement for Listeners

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In today's episode, i'm guiding you through this New Moon meditation designed to balance your energy, bringing your mind, body & spirit into alignment with your most authentic self.

The themes of the Cancer New Moon: emotional healing, inner nurturing, home, intuition, and self-protection. It's a time to come back to yourself, check in with how you're really feeling, and tend to your inner world with gentleness and care.

Cancer is ruled by the Moon itself, making your intuition especially heightened during this time. Let go of the need to logic your way through decisions.
 Tune in to your gut, your body, your dreams. Answers may come through feelings, not facts.

This guided meditation is Reiki infused and begins with a gentle body scan, followed by balancing of all 7 chakra energy centres, and finishes off with a visualization practice designed to to align you with your desires and intentions. 

432Hz is the healing frequency playing in the background, and allows you to: slow down, feel safe, connect to what’s real, heal old emotional wounds and plant new intentions from a place of softness and self-trust

Thank you for sharing this space with me.
Namaste xox.

This Mediation is also available on Youtube!

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June 2025 Cancer New Moon Guided Meditation

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Today we’re getting real about what the different stages of a healing or spiritual journey can look like when it comes to socializing, partying and even drinking alcohol. Do you have to be sober to be healing? Can wellness and partying coexist? I’m sharing my perspective from my experience throughout my personal wellness journey!

My intention with this conversation is to highlight that it's possible to celebrate life and enjoy social settings without compromising your spiritual beliefs or devotion to your wellness. And why you might also go through periods of self isolation. 

Are you celebrating life? Or escaping reality? We’re getting into why this answer matters the most. And most importantly, why all parts of yourself are equally worthy of being seen, heard & felt. Your journey does not have to look like anyone elses!

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Takeaways
You can be both spiritual and enjoy partying.
Finding balance is key in a healing journey.
Your healing journey is unique to you.
It's okay to celebrate life and have fun.
Navigating social anxiety is part of the process.
Self-acceptance is crucial in your journey.
Your choices don't have to align with others.

Celebrating life vs escaping reality.

Chapters:

00:00 Navigating Healing and Partying

07:33 Different Stages of Healing and Socializing

21:08 Celebrating Life vs. Escaping Reality

26:25 Finding Your Own Path

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In this episode, we're discussing the concept of a "healing journey" with the gentle reminder of why there is no final destination for you to reach. My intention with this episode is to encourage you to take the pressure off of yourself and recognize that self-worth should not be tied to achieving specific goals or timelines. 

This conversation serves as a reminder that healing is about awareness, self-acceptance, and coming back to prioritizing yourself throughout the ebbs and flows of life. It's NOT about reaching perfection! 

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Takeaways
There is no end to a healing journey.
The healing journey does not have a final destination.
Life will always have ups and downs.
You can experience joy and grief simultaneously.
Take the pressure off yourself to reach goals.
Celebrate your small wins more often.
Your self-worth should not depend on your timeline.
Healing is about awareness and prioritizing yourself.

You are doing better than you think you are.
You are whole as you are.

Chapters

01:56 The Nature of Healing: No Final Destination

06:09 Navigating Life's Ups and Downs

07:09 The Pressure of Perfectionism

09:13 Celebrating Small Wins

11:16 Conclusion and Reflection

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Hi, I'm your guide, Erin. Today i'm guiding you through an energy cleansing, visualization meditation for letting go of anything that does not serve you under this Strawberry Full Moon energy in Sagitarrius. We're balancing your energy to bring your mind, body & spirit into alignment. Followed by a visualization practice.

The intention of this meditation is to release all negative, stagnant, blocked energy and empower you to step into the highest, most radiant version of yourself.

This guided meditation is Reiki infused and focuses on balancing your chakras and visualization to align you with your highest self.
 
Thank you for sharing this space with me.
Sending a lot of love + gratitude,
Namaste xox.
 
This Mediation is also available on Youtube!

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June 2025 Strawberry Full Moon Guided Meditation

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In this episode, part 5 of our Nervous System Regulation Series, we explore the vital role of connection and co-regulation. We’re breaking down the science of co-regulation, how trauma & stress can lead us to isolate, and why humans are wired for connection. Most importantly, I’m sharing signs you might be self-isolating and simple, intentional ways to build more connection into your life — even when it feels hard. Self healing is powerful, but connection is often the missing link that takes your healing, health & wellness to the next level.

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Takeaways
Connection is a fundamental human need.
Self-healing is limited without connection to others.
Co-regulation is the exchange of our energy and nervous system states
Our nervous systems seek safety in relationships.
Limbic resonance allows sharing of emotional states.
Quality of relationships significantly affects health.
Hyper-independence can be a trauma response.
Awareness is crucial for breaking isolation patterns.
Healing requires feeling safe, seen, and supported.
You are not alone in your healing journey.

Chapters

01:26 The Importance of Connection in Healing

11:19 Understanding Co-Regulation and Its Impact

21:35 Signs of Isolation and Hyper-Independence

31:35 Practical Tips for Fostering Connection

Resources
Polyvagal Theory and Co-Regulation
Co-Regulation & Limbic Resonance
The Science of a Cat Purring

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Hi, I’m Erin! This is Part 4 of our Nervous System Regulation Series and we’re diving into the transformative power of meditation, discussing its profound effects on the nervous system, brain health, & overall well-being. I’m sharing insights from my meditation teacher training and personal experience as someone who once felt like I “couldn’t meditate”. You’ll learn how meditation regulates your nervous system, how it rewires your brain, and the real life mental & emotional shifts you’ll experience even with short practices!

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Takeaways
Meditation can rewire your brain and calm your body.
Even short practices of five to ten minutes can be effective.
Meditation helps shift the body into a parasympathetic state.
The sympathetic nervous system is often overactive in modern life.
Proper rest is essential for mental and physical health.
Meditation fosters neuroplasticity, allowing the brain to change.
Emotional regulation improves with regular meditation practice.
Meditation can lead to less reactivity and greater self-awareness.
Consistency in practice is more important than duration.
Meditation is a personal journey; experiences will vary.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Meditation and Its Benefits

03:43 The Impact of Meditation on our Nervous System

10:38 The Science Behind Meditation and the Brain

17:46 Why Short Meditation Practices Count

19:48 Real Life Impacts You'll Notice

21:09 Practical Tips to Start Meditating

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Hi, I'm Erin & i'm guiding you through this New Moon meditation designed to balance your energy, bringing your mind, body & spirit into alignment with your highest, most authentic self. 

The themes of the Gemini New Moon: communication, clarity, curiosity, duality, and self-expression.

This guided meditation is Reiki infused and begins with a gentle body scan, followed by balancing of all 7 chakra energy centres, and finishes off with a visualization practice designed to to align you with your desires and intentions. 714Hz is the frequency playing and is deeply supportive of communication, self-expression, and clearing emotional blockages. It aligns with the throat chakra, which rules Gemini.
 
Thank you for sharing this space with me.
Sending a lot of love + gratitude,
Namaste xox.

This Mediation is also available on Youtube!

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Erin is a Reiki Master and Meditation Teacher
May  2025 Gemini New Moon Guided Meditation