Enneagram and Marriage

In this "Life" series, you're doing more than learning about relationships with each of the Enneagram types but it's a time for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type in a very real fashion, too. Join us for an authentic chat as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type with Christa's sister Abbie today, who is an SX 3! Abigail is the COO of the Detroit Area Agency on Aging, a mom of five children, and a full-on go-getting 3. Most of all, she's willing to dive deep with us about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask a Three and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a Three as well!

Specifically, you will hear about:

Marriage and family with a 3

The Aggressive Stance

Future Orientation from the Three perspective

When you feel like your Three is working too har

When a Three is attention seeking

And more!

 For a Deep Dive on Type Three, share here!

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Whenever we approach spiritual growth, we look for roots in hurt or pain. Where have we gone off track with God and how does this distance or these wounds affect our relationships? In this new series on digging deep for faith individually and/or as couples, we ask hard questions - questions everyone has asked at some point but may not always feel are heard. Today we welcome powerful speaker, writer, and influencer at Proverbs 31 Ministries, author Kia Stephens as we discuss one of the key questions surrounding faith - what to do when there’s a father wound. Though Kia’s book has a special sensitivity around the huge amount of research detailing that many women have a father wound, this is a conversation all will want to take in if they have a father wound or they have a spouse who has one!

Show Links:

Get Kia's book  Overcoming Father Wounds here on Amazon!  Get it here on her website!

Kia's offerings on her website

Kia's Instagram Account

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In this "Life" series, you get to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type in a very relaxed fashion, too. Join us for a restful and fun chat as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type with some added extras! Today we are interviewing Jentry Courter, Enneagram 4 and ICU Nurse. Jentry curates restful rhythms for not only Fours but brings her caring wisdom to offer sleep tips for individuals of each Enneagram type as well. In this deep dive episode with a little extra fun on the side, you'll get to truly learn the insides of a Four and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) as a Four as well!

Specifically, you will hear about:

Life as an 4

The Withdrawing Stance

Past Orientation from the Four perspective

When you feel like your Four wants what it doesn't have (envy)

And all about rhythms of rest also!

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Whether you're hypervigilant or you tend to become withdrawn in the aftermath of trauma, there are certain costs to being strong - we were made well and we can live in survival mode for a long time. However, walking to freedom and safety on the other side is not only the goal, but it's accessible and present. Today we are grateful to have acclaimed trauma specialist and author Aundi Kolber, LMHC of Try Softer sharing her brand new book, Strong Like Water as we learn the way to more fluidly and safely process trauma. She offers us tips for individuals and couples as we learn the way to resiliency and ultimately to becoming strong like water together.

Show Links:

Get Aundi's brand new book Strong Like Water here! 

Visit Aundi's website here!

Meet Aundi on her Instagram here!

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In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about relationships with each of the Enneagram types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type in a very real fashion, too. Join us for a truly treasured deep chat as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing Jennifer Passmore, school principal, pastor's wife, and mom of four adult children, Enneagram Five. Jennifer's not only a Five but she's willing to dive deep with us about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask a Five and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a Five as well!

Specifically, you will hear about:

Marriage and family with a 5

The Withdrawing Stance

Past Orientation from the Five perspective

When you feel like your Five won't reach out in an emotional capacity

When a Five won't change their scarcity fixation

And more!

For a Deep Dive on Type Five, share here!

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When we don’t have a healthy foundation or direction for exploring conflict well together, things tend to fall apart and keep falling apart - conflict management is essential as we have been discussing all month.

Today on this deeper dive into conflict, we are joined by author Jackie Brewster as she walks us through her practical, hands-on brand new 7-week workbook on using extremely practical and organized Enneagram tools and tips to help you grow personally and heal these threads of discord between you.

Our E + M audience also gets a special 30% off of Jackie's book, The Enneagram & Your Marriage, right here!

You can also find her book at Amazon.com here!

You can learn more about Jackie at her website here or her popular IG account here!

Along with many others, Jackie and Christa will also be speaking at the Gospel for Enneagram Conference coming up this April. Get your free ticket here!

Want to watch the conference on your own time versus live + get access to bonuses? Get your all-access pass right here and get more fun, freebies, and extras!

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Join us for a cup of matcha and convo as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type as well who has been journeying for awhile, too. Today we are interviewing singer, dietician, momma, and wife, Heather Richmond, Enneagram Type 6 on all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a 6!

Specifically, you will hear about:

Marriage and family with a 6

The Compliant/Dependent Stance (and the Counterphobic side of a 6 also!)

Present Orientation of a 6 from a 6

What a 6 appreciates in marriage

When a 6  is spinning with anxiety and self-doubt

And more!

Grab the Deep Dive on Type 6 Here!

Visit Heather's page >> here

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Psychologist Dr. Wyatt has an important mission: to reduce the divorce rate one marriage at a time and today on the Enneagram and Marriage podcast, he does just that. As one of the leading marriage and relationships podcasters, today we are in for a treat as he vulnerably shares not only from an objective clinical lens but from a visceral empathy from his own marriage trauma healing over seasons as well. As we study conflict together all month, this episode gives you a very practical look at shaping your marriage healthily through one of Dr. Wyatt's nine tools - the five-minute, small but mighty "Bullseye" tool so you can get moving in a healthy direction right away!

Show links:

Find Dr. Wyatt Fisher's clinical marriage podcast here, and more about his practice, app, and website >> here

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In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type as well who has been journeying for awhile, too. Join us for a cup of coffee and convo as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing artist and illustrator, Alaina Pompa, Enneagram Type 7 of Ray of Light (the artist behind our glow guides and planner!) all about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask a 7 and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a 7!

Specifically, you will hear about:

Marriage and family with a 7

The Aggressive/Assertiveness Stance

Future Orientation of a 7 from a 7

When you feel like your 7 won't slow down and address the feelings under the motion

When a 7 won't change their planning fixation

And more!

Grab our Glow Guides and E + M 52 Week Planner Designed by Alaina Here!

Visits Alaina's Ray of Light Shop >> here

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Join us for a deep dive into a relationship chat on our repressed centers of intelligence, or stances, with Suzanne Stabile, best-selling author, speaker, and Master Enneagram teacher (The Road Back to You, The Path Between Us, The Journey Toward Wholeness). Suzanne shares her wisdom from connecting with thousands of families and across thirty-five years of marriage, offering honest advice for marriage success. As we discuss changing instincts across seasons and a conversation about our stances or repressed Centers of Intelligence, we increasingly learn to balance thinking, feeling, and doing with more consistency and balance with intention. 

Show links:

Find Suzanne's books and courses, including her The Table Membership >> here

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