Enneagram and Marriage

In-law issues and extended family are enormous contributors to marital discord. Because of the exorbitant stress, one of the best ways to look both inward and outward at this complex dynamic is with an Enneagram 9 therapist and we're doing that on today's episode. Hailey Brown, LCMHC has not only been a counselor for the past decade but is also an Enneagram and Marriage certified coach. We get to not only hear about Hailey's 9-5 marriage story (two withdrawing types, a rare treat on this pod!) and also her perfectly-timed tip with extended family just a bit before we get to holidays. Don't miss these calming and clarifying tips and we walk you through your extended family issues with grace and wisdom today!   Find Hailey's Instagram & Sat & Light Counseling and Coaching Services at the link below!   https://www.instagram.com/salt.light.therapy.enneagram/   https://www.saltandlightcounselling.com/   >> Join the E + M Collective Membership

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Some of us, particularly those who identify with Enneagram 2, 5, and 8, create patterns of rejecting behavior that potentially hinder their quality of life and their love match. Join Christa for a mini-episode on the Harmony groups as we discuss types 2,  5, and 8, and the ways they can reject nurturing and accidentally bring out something they fear most, rejection from the ones they love. Stay tuned for the other types!   Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on types 2, 5, 8, and all the types right here!   Make sure you subscribe @ Apple Podcast for our mid-week deeper dive podcast series also, currently on attachment types.   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! 

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When we're considering how to glow or even relate with a spouse from a different family pattern than us, we are often called to not only marital or personal but spiritual work as we come across our unhealthy inner scripts. It's wonderful to get to process this topic and to do a spiritual exercise to the depths with Marilyn Vancil, 9, Spiritual Director, Author, and Enneagram teacher as she launches her new book, Beyond the Enneagram. Marilyn has not only been studying the Enneagram for over thirty years but she also has been married to her husband Jeff, Enneagram 3 for over fifty years. Marilyn is truly showing us an exhibition of the glow possible across seasons and her passion for helping people to listen to God, experience inner soul restoration, and enjoy a life of freedom and fullness as their true God-gifted self is seen.   Marilyn's Books:   Self to Lose, Self to Find   Beyond the Enneagram   Marilyn's Instagram   Donate to Hurricane Ian and the Anna and Ryan Herzog fund: https://gofund.me/c2776609   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! 

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In today's mini-episode with Christa, we share an extension of gratitude for the kindness and love shown in this time of Hurricane Ian crisis and our current positioning in the midst of it.

Christa also mentions her dear friends Ryan and Anna Herzog and their teen daughter Lily on this episode who lost their home suddenly in Hurricane Ian last Thursday. If you'd like to donate to their GoFundMe page, here is the donation page! 

Anna, Ryan, and Lily's Go Fund Me

If you'd like to otherwise help those without a home and food and medical supplies in this time due to Ian, contact the Red Cross Ian relief below:

https://www.redcross.org/donate/donation.html/

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For many, a marriage or close relationship with addiction is the norm, and yet life with an addicted partner is not only not the ideal, but is often a source of chaos, negativity, emotional upheaval, and worse, sometimes for generations on end. Join Christa in this special episode with Dr. Deborah Russo, Psy.D, who has a specialty in working with couples and addictions. Dr. Russo shares clarified great hope and tips for those walking on this often lonely and misunderstood road.

Show links:

Dr. Russo and Christa's 2-hour addiction training Sat, Oct 1, 2022

Click here for the training: https://connectionsrelationalrecovery.com/crr-workshop-breaking-intergenerational-trauma-together

Addictions Inventory Mentioned:

https://auditscreen.org/check-your-drinking

Spousal Support:

https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/

 

 

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As we talk about seasons of change, today we are focusing on how to walk through the shadows that often accompany us while remembering we are more than just our Enneagram patterns. Today we are joined by Seth Creekmore (Creek), Drew Moser (The Enneagram of Discernment), and Seth Abram (Abram) of the Fathoms Enneagram Podcast. Join Christa and the Fathoms podcast crew as we talk about about how to walk through our issues across seasons with grace, wellness, and intention. 

Fathoms links:

Check out the Fathoms Podcast!

Fathoms Podcast Enneagram Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/integratedenneagram/

https://www.instagram.com/drewmoser/

https://www.instagram.com/typetrailenneagram/

https://www.instagram.com/drewmoser/

Seth Creek: https://www.instagram.com/creekmoremusic/ and https://linktr.ee/ataenneagrampodcast

Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! 

 

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Join us for this simple series on each type as we share about the three subtypes of Nine in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type Nine? Find our guide right here! 

Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! 

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When we begin relationships, we often have no idea how past trauma from the past will affect us in the future, nor do we often know how to address it early on. Today we get to learn how Evan and Tiffany Doyle  (Enneagram 5-2 Pairing) walked through their relationship stages both early on and then later when trauma patterns settled in, as well as how they built trust together. We talk about releasing secrets, dealing with shame and shadows, and shifting systems together in the relationship. Tune in to walk with us through this beautiful and hopeful love story.

Evan and Tiffany's links for the E + M Community:

https://freeofshame.com/ < The ministry Tiffany, Enneagram 2, discusses

https://mythrivingcommunity.com/marriage < Special trust-building resource just for our community from Evan, Enneagram 5!

www.EnneagramGift.com

 Instagram @EnneagramGifts

The Glow Gala Dinner/Dance Link is below!

https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/glowgala

Intergenerational Trauma training with Christa and Dr. Russo

 

 

 

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Join us for this simple series on each type as we share about the three subtypes of Eight in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type Eight? Find our guide right here! 

Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! 

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Today we not only brief you on the stages of marriage across seasons, but we share seasons of a friendship "glow" also so you can make sure your friendships are healthy and strong also! Join us for a chat about the essential lessons friendships can teach us across the Enneagram types, and across the miles as well. Christa is joined by her best friend Stacey Day, Enneagram 2, as we share about wisdom gathered through a friendship that has lasted from the dating years through sending kids off to college and beyond.   Show notes:   Grab yout tickets for the Glow Gala here!   Get your. ticket/s to the free Wholehearted Enneagram Conference here - starts Mon, Sept 12, 2022!   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! 

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