Enneagram and Marriage

This Valentine's week, we have our first official Enneagram Glow story for you with Jared and Kate Shaughnessy, an Enneagram 8-3, "Unstoppable" couple sharing their powerful falling-in-love and maintaining love stories both! Get ready to learn how to be more intentionally and healthily passionate from this strong and assertive couple, as well as what it takes to humbly let down one's guard and to truly surrender as well. Jared and Kate share many practical tips about sexual intimacy, forgiveness, and personal growth and we're so excited for you to tune in!

Show mentions:

https://brenebrown.com/blog/2019/05/01/lets-rumble/

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Among the most frequent questions around the Enneagram world are those that revolve around relationship pairings. Though there’s no such thing as the "perfect type compatibility," there are indeed fascinating relationship trends. In fact, this January 2021, Truity conducted an 88,000 person relationship study to aid in Enneagram and relationship research and we're so grateful to share the results! Join Christa and Molly Owens, founder and CEO of Truity Psychometrics in a conversation about frequently seen types, pairings, and the most interesting Enneagram and relationship findings. 

To see the study in more depth:

www.Truity.com

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You hear about the holy idea of the Enneagram but how do we practically find soul care as we journey toward healthier life and relationship work? Join Christa with Penguin Random House authors Jackie Brewster, Enneagram 7 and Eve Annunziato, Enneagram 8 who have 7-3 and 8-5 relationships, respectively. Eve and Jackie have carefully and prayerfully laid the groundwork for you as you learn and grow, in their beautiful new Enneagram devotional book, Hearing God Speak: A Fifty-Two Week Interactive Devotional. This episode goes behind the scenes with these vulnerable and yet strong women to see how God brought them on a greater adventure than they ever could have imagined!

https://enneagramwithjb.com/

https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/663170/hearing-god-speak-by-eve-annunziato-and-jackie-brewster/

https://www.amazon.com/Hearing-God-Speak-Interactive-Devotional/dp/0593232690/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=hearing+god+speak&qid=1611517512&sr=8-1

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Today's families in our current cultural climate need to balance our hearts, minds, and body instincts more than ever. As anger brews in the world often for good reason, this MLK Day, we're taking time to process from a place of peaceful reintegration with our lost center's gifts, specifically the gift of the five senses and the body, especially considering our 8, 9, and 1 work. Don't miss out on ways to connect and to grow in family and marriage with healthy vulnerability, strength, and always, love.

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As you begin a new journey of 2021, how can you manage the massive levels of stress that we're dealing with right now as a culture, now including not only a global pandemic and a racial justice movement but also the issues at the Capitol last week? How do you help a spouse with their stress as well as show patience and love for people who are different from you? Perhaps most important to these times, how do you stay afloat so you can best serve others despite the mounting stress? Join Christa in finding the best routes to shift into health and love this season as individuals, in marriage, and type by type with Enneagram arrows as well. 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/when-kids-call-the-shots/201903/5-simple-ways-relieve-stress-and-anxiety

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/pressure-proof/201501/10-ways-relieve-stress-in-5-minutes-or-less

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We know the our Enneagram passions all too well, they are the ego fixations and parts of our personality that we get stuck with all the time. Sometimes, however, we trick ourselves into thinking these maladaptive parts of ourselves will heal our deepest wounds individually and in marriage. However, instead, it is our type's virtue that will provide the steadying factor to soothe our weary souls. Find your type's passions and virtues as you listen to this brand new 2021 episode and find out how you can integrate healthy and steady change into your relationship, too!

Virtues Chart:

https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/the-traditional-enneagram

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We said goodbye to 2020 and now we're saying a big healthy hello to 2021! Let's do it together with a challenge that helps us to create a healthy flow in our hearts, minds, and bodies this year, one that considers our angst and issues but is ultimately comprised of gratitude, thoughtfulness, and love. This special episode outlines steps to restore things that have been unintentionally lost in the busy, hard, and whirling 2020. Together we're moving forward intentionally so we can glow brightly as couples and individuals!

For your glow guide go here: Glow guides

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The thinkers among us are equipped to shape the world with their innovating dreams that often become inspiring realities, sometimes even shaping the world abroad. However, for the people who are constantly dealing with an active brain, living in a family with others who are more heart or body-based can be a daunting challenge, to say the least. This episode covers our wise Fives, our brave Sixes, and our optimistic Sevens in depth. There are tips for dealing with the passions of each type in marriage and family for individuals and their partners, as well as fresh reminders for how to do one's own work for internal balance as we close out the year well together!

Sites referenced:

http://feelingswheel.com/ 

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Whatever your Enneagram type, 2020 is throwing all of us for a loop this holiday. The ups and the downs can bring out grief, loneliness, and a lack of direction, and we've decided to give you a healthy roadmap. Join Christa and her precious 4, Hannah in reminding us of ten ways we can embrace the both the beauty and the depths of this season. Don't forget ways you can connect with your people despite distance. Despite the business and strain this 2020, you're family is waiting for you to step in with love as you celebrate!

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Heart types of the Enneagram have unique gifts in understanding others emotionally. As we open up our own hearts for learning from the feelings center with staff coach Melissa Thompson, Christa and Melissa take an honest view of how amidst caring for others, hearts types and others can unlearn codependency and learn to both protect and take care of themselves. Melissa offers tips for learning strong self-care and advocacy and how to give yourself grace as you so bravely fight for the emotions of others.

www.ReflectionsCC.com find Melissa for coaching

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