Ask The Betrayed

EP 11: Spot the 7 Traps That Stop Infidelity Recovery In Its Tracks


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When infidelity shatters a relationship, recovery doesn't fail because of one event—it stops because of the traps that keep couples' relational recovery stuck.

In this powerful episode of Ask The Betrayed, Sharon and Rae expose the seven relational pitfalls that derail healing after betrayal.

They share raw personal stories, real client examples, and the emotional truth behind why so many couples can't move forward—even when they want to.

Whether you're the betrayed partner trying to make sense of the chaos, or the unfaithful partner trying to rebuild trust, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and a roadmap to relational recovery.

💬 You'll Learn: ✅ Why blame and resentment destroy recovery after infidelity ✅ How unfaithful partners unknowingly prolong their betrayed partner's trauma ✅ The truth about shame, defensiveness, and emotional abandonment ✅ How to recognize when you're sabotaging your own healing ✅ Practical steps for rebuilding relational trust and accountability

If you're ready to stop the cycle of pain and finally start healing—together—this episode will change how you see recovery after betrayal.

💬 Please comment below if any of these 7 traps have appeared in your recovery - let the community know which ones, how they affected your recovery and if & how you have been able to move forward from them.

🔔 Please subscribe for more episodes of Ask the Betrayed and Ask the Unfaithful (@AskTheUnfaithful on YouTube) for weekly conversations that bring truth, guidance, and hope to couples navigating betrayal recovery.

Please share this video with someone who needs encouragement in their healing journey.

📬 If you have questions you'd like us to answer in an episode, or would like to inquire about coaching with Rae or therapy help, including intensives, with Sharon and James, please reach out to us at: [email protected]

🎧 You can also find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found.

🔗 Need help healing? Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com (Email: [email protected] ) or find Rae at www.HealingTalksBack.com (Email: [email protected] )

Our Website: https://www.AskTheBetrayed.com

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