In this episode of The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast, I’m joined by Sabryna for a powerful and emotional account of her first birth. Her story began with an itch in her third trimester and escalated into a life-threatening emergency for both her and her daughter. What unfolded was a series of missed diagnoses, medical dismissal, and a traumatic delivery that included an emergency C-section, undiagnosed preeclampsia, a NICU stay due to a rare heart condition.

With vulnerability and insight, Sabryna walks us through the heartbreak of being ignored by her care team, the fear of not knowing if her baby would survive, and the heavy mental toll that followed. She also shares the healing journey that came later, including a redemptive second birth experience and the importance of finding a provider who truly listens.

This conversation is a testament to the strength of self-advocacy and the power of feeling seen, heard, and safe in your care.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

⚠️ The early warning signs of cholestasis and why no one acted
📉 Being told to rush to the hospital and then sent home hours later
📵 Days of silence from her care team while her symptoms worsened
💔 A non-variable heart rate and an emergency C-section she never saw coming
🫀 Her daughter’s diagnosis: supraventricular tachycardia (SVT) and Wolff-Parkinson-White Syndrome (WPW)
🚑 A magnesium drip, sky-high blood pressure, and a post-op ambulance ride with no pain meds
🧠 The emotional aftermath: trauma, guilt, depression, and being told to “just be grateful”
💬 The healing power of trauma-informed therapy and a validating OB
🌈 A second birth that brought the closure she never thought she’d find
🗣️ Why we must keep talking about traumatic births, because they leave lasting marks

Resources & Mentions:

🌐 Learn more about WPW and SVT in newborns: childrenshospital.org
📚 Birth Trauma Support: birthtraumamama.com/resources
📱 Follow along for more stories and support: @birthtraumamama

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